worst after being shared

[angel_curious]

it was my first time,and I've been through a lot of confusion after that,,no doubt i like what i experienced but after the disaster,,and fights with my bf because of that,it across in my mind,that i was only his fantasy and not really love me,now is this really normal thing for a couple?i posted my own thread here but for some reason,its gone,,maybe erased?i dont know..i got a bunches of advice,saying my bf dont love me,etc etc,and before it happened,i know it could happen,,that it will have a mental attachment for him..and get jealous,,or end up to separation,,i read people post here,and the husband didnt get jealous...and my question is what is the best thing to do,,if you are me,,are you gonna leave or stay?well im just asking

 

[bigkahuna9]

Well if he treated you badly after, and doesnt respect you and the fights continue...you may be better off without him...but thats up to you I guess

 

[angel_curious]

Well if he treated you badly after, and doesnt respect you and the fights continue...you may be better off without him...but thats up to you I guess[/QUOT

................thanks for your opinion...have lots of questions in mymind still.....

 

[Mojo1967]

Well if he treated you badly after, and doesnt respect you and the fights continue...you may be better off without him...but thats up to you I guess[/QUOT

................thanks for your opinion...have lots of questions in mymind still.....

Angel....you need to set up you PM to receive messages

 

[angel_curious]

Angel....you need to set up you PM to receive messages

i dont know how to set it up here,,trying to figure it out

 

[angel_curious]

i dont know how to set it up here,,trying to figure it out

i think it set up now,,my pm

 

[Mojo1967]

i think it set up now,,my pm

Yes, it is....PM sent

 

[creamofthecrawp]

if you're not happy in a relationship you end it

that simple

 

[dirtwrench]

We all know good intentions paved the way to hell, and it sounds like you found the hammer lane on that freeway. Sorry to hear of your problem. From reading your post, my gut says it may have been a bit too soon ot try the sharing, or youhad the wrong bf to begin with.

You are young. Cut your losses and move on. Life is too short to be miserable. Can't find a smiley for big hug, or I'd give you one.

 

[filthydirty]

We all know good intentions paved the way to hell, and it sounds like you found the hammer lane on that freeway. Sorry to hear of your problem. From reading your post, my gut says it may have been a bit too soon ot try the sharing, or you had the wrong bf to begin with.

You are young. Cut your losses and move on. Life is too short to be miserable. Can't find a smiley for big hug, or I'd give you one.

Ditto

 

[angel_curious]

We all know good intentions paved the way to hell, and it sounds like you found the hammer lane on that freeway. Sorry to hear of your problem. From reading your post, my gut says it may have been a bit too soon ot try the sharing, or youhad the wrong bf to begin with.

You are young. Cut your losses and move on. Life is too short to be miserable. Can't find a smiley for big hug, or I'd give you one.

what is DITTO means filty?easy to advice,easy to say,until you experience things...and thanks for advices...

 

[angel_curious]

Ditto

i know now what is DITTO means....hmmmmm,,,,(the same?)

 

[Azuldrgon]

*hugs*

You need to talk to him about what he wants and what he's thinking. Then you can make a good decision. The fact is you both went for it.

The major goal is you have to be happy and if after the experience he doesn't....