Worshiping Mistress Laoghaire

[aljones100]

For a few months now i have been lucky enough to be tutored by Mistress Laoghaire. Although we are seperated by the Atlantic she has taught me many things. i have created an blog of my exxperiences so far, i would really appreciate it if someone could view it and comment.

www.arsewanker.blogspot.com

thankyou

arsewanker

 

[FurryFury]

For a few months now i have been lucky enough to be tutored by Mistress Laoghaire. Although we are seperated by the Atlantic she has taught me many things. i have created an blog of my exxperiences so far, i would really appreciate it if someone could view it and comment.

www.arsewanker.blogspot.com

thankyou

arsewanker

I haven't read the whole blog, I read this month and part of the first month, but I will say this, your Mistress should not come before your wife IMO.

Women, or people, IMO, don't just lose interest in sex as you say "wifey" has. There are reasons. IMO, if you poured have the energy into figuring out what those reasons are and fixing it, you and you wife would be a lot happier in RL. I realize this is a lot harder to do than to participate in an online fantasy relationship however.

Now I know this whole thing is an exciting thing for you and that it can take over your life in some ways because the fantasy of it is a great thing and it touches you to your core but real life relationships should always come before online ones.

Frankly I don't really "get" the whole, "I'm unworthy" thing either. I see that with male submissives a lot. I can't relate to that much.

In any case, I'm glad you are happy. I hope you aren't paying money for training and that you find a way to continue to be happy. Even better if you can find a way to be happy and increase the happiness of your wife.

Good luck,

Fury

 

[aljones100]

I haven't read the whole blog, I read this month and part of the first month, but I will say this, your Mistress should not come before your wife IMO.

Women, or people, IMO, don't just lose interest in sex as you say "wifey" has. There are reasons. IMO, if you poured have the energy into figuring out what those reasons are and fixing it, you and you wife would be a lot happier in RL. I realize this is a lot harder to do than to participate in an online fantasy relationship however.

Now I know this whole thing is an exciting thing for you and that it can take over your life in some ways because the fantasy of it is a great thing and it touches you to your core but real life relationships should always come before online ones.

Frankly I don't really "get" the whole, "I'm unworthy" thing either. I see that with male submissives a lot. I can't relate to that much.

In any case, I'm glad you are happy. I hope you aren't paying money for training and that you find a way to continue to be happy. Even better if you can find a way to be happy and increase the happiness of your wife.

Good luck,

Fury

Thanks for reading my blog, i value but dont agree with all you say. i have tried many and varied things to remedy my relationship but to no avail. In many ways my Mistress will always come first in others she will not and it is this way with her relationship with me also. i do not pay for my training. i feel unworthy because i have always felt inferior to women, and when commanded by Mistress even more so.

i know we may nevr meet or maybe one day we will who knows? i do know that Mistress gives me something i have sought for a long long time and for that i will be eternaly grateful

 

[FurryFury]

*nods*

I didn't expect you to agree with me. It's really none of my business anyhow. I wish you well.

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

I have never felt inferior to anyone, OTOH, I have always felt inferior to some, yes, it's a dichotomy and part of why, they had better treat me with respect and care if they want to touch me. One thing I treasure about my husband is that he actually LIKES and Respects me, not just loves me. Love can be so many fucked up things. His attitude was a first for me but I'm finding more and more people in my life that just make me feel accepted and liked. I REALLY enjoy this but I understand that's my thing and isn't every ones thing, which is just fine.

Fury

 

[aljones100]

Thnks for your insight and opinions i hope some others will respond too

 

[Xelebes]

Mistress Laoghaire is such an unflattering name.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Dude I have read quite alot of your blog and tried very hard to try and keep an open mind to your posts . You make that very difficult for several reasons.

You 'infantalise' your writing to express yourself though when describing a 'scene' with your Mistress a veil of sudden eloquence prevails.

You portray your training in a manner that I always thought more sympatico with porn stories.

The names your Mistress chose "arsewanker'. 'jellyfish' while instructed to humiliate you also challenge the reader to your actual credibility. Or perhaps I should say 'distract' from it.

Its one thing to be in a relationship thats counterproductive to your marriage but at least you could have kept the disparaging comments about 'wifey' to yourself. I don't care if she is Atilla the Hun its gratuitous at best.

Your children to you are an issue in your own words because they get in the way of your training schedule to your Mistress. Not to mention a mother being sick. How dreadful of them.

So the world dances around the apparent dysfunction of your cock 'jellyfish'...........sighs

Its not ALL about buzzing genitals you know ?

You don't even keep a reliable blog, you don't open email from your Mistress because your 'scared' of her instruction. Might have been reassuring to see you get something right.

I could go on but won't I suspect you probably may even get off on this reply.

I apologise in advance if my reply is affronting but you asked. If there is anything positive that I would recognise in your blog I missed it. In all likelyhood still distracted by the majority of the content which mostly pained me to read.

@}-}rebecca----

 

[aljones100]

Mistress Laoghaire is such an unflattering name.

Mistress's name is beautiful as is she enough said

 

[aljones100]

Dude I have read quite alot of your blog and tried very hard to try and keep an open mind to your posts . You make that very difficult for several reasons.

You 'infantalise' your writing to express yourself though when describing a 'scene' with your Mistress a veil of sudden eloquence prevails.

You portray your training in a manner that I always thought more sympatico with porn stories.

The names your Mistress chose "arsewanker'. 'jellyfish' while instructed to humiliate you also challenge the reader to your actual credibility. Or perhaps I should say 'distract' from it.

Its one thing to be in a relationship thats counterproductive to your marriage but at least you could have kept the disparaging comments about 'wifey' to yourself. I don't care if she is Atilla the Hun its gratuitous at best.

Your children to you are an issue in your own words because they get in the way of your training schedule to your Mistress. Not to mention a mother being sick. How dreadful of them.

So the world dances around the apparent dysfunction of your cock 'jellyfish'...........sighs

Its not ALL about buzzing genitals you know ?

You don't even keep a reliable blog, you don't open email from your Mistress because your 'scared' of her instruction. Might have been reassuring to see you get something right.

I could go on but won't I suspect you probably may even get off on this reply.

I apologise in advance if my reply is affronting but you asked. If there is anything positive that I would recognise in your blog I missed it. In all likelyhood still distracted by the majority of the content which mostly pained me to read.

@}-}rebecca----

rebecca

my blog is an honest and true representation of my feelings and what is going on in my life, warts and all as they say. i dont feel affronted by your reply its exactly what i wanted ,anothers opinion. i am proud to serve my Mistress. i am proud of my blog, in years to come it may seem infantile to me too when i read it but its real and its me

 

[Xelebes]

Mistress's name is beautiful as is she enough said

It is still unflattering.

 

[aljones100]

It is still unflattering.

i dont want to get into an arguement on this, so please respect my Mistress and not insult or cast derogatory comment on her name, thank you

 

[Laoghaire]

Mistress Laoghaire is such an unflattering name.

Don't you just love constructive criticism?

 

[Laoghaire]

Furthermore, I'd like to add a few things. As the boy mentioned in his first post, we are on opposite ends of the Atlantic me being in Canada and him in the UK. I am very much aware of how restrictive my training is towards my sub but for now, it seems to suit us just fine as is. The ultimate reward for both of us would be that we'd have a live training and I do see that as a possibilty in the future.

As for the boy's problems with his wife and kids, I have always counselled him to the best of my abilities to help find solutions to his problems, because even though I shouldn't be arsed about his marital problems and whatnot, I am also married and human. I've always offered counselling. How ever the boy decides to deal with it is his own business.

How he goes about reacting towards me is also his beeswax. I have never commanded such fear, he just is fearful of me. Nor have I ever commanded he put me BEFORE his wife, that's something he chose for himself. The boy is satisfied with my training and I am... well... - that's another story... but he's a good pet and he tries hard. Perhaps he doesn't correspond to what a "true" sub should be but that's the only way he knows how.

 

[aljones100]

Furthermore, I'd like to add a few things. As the boy mentioned in his first post, we are on opposite ends of the Atlantic me being in Canada and him in the UK. I am very much aware of how restrictive my training is towards my sub but for now, it seems to suit us just fine as is. The ultimate reward for both of us would be that we'd have a live training and I do see that as a possibilty in the future.

As for the boy's problems with his wife and kids, I have always counselled him to the best of my abilities to help find solutions to his problems, because even though I shouldn't be arsed about his marital problems and whatnot, I am also married and human. I've always offered counselling. How ever the boy decides to deal with it is his own business.

How he goes about reacting towards me is also his beeswax. I have never commanded such fear, he just is fearful of me. Nor have I ever commanded he put me BEFORE his wife, that's something he chose for himself. The boy is satisfied with my training and I am... well... - that's another story... but he's a good pet and he tries hard. Perhaps he doesn't correspond to what a "true" sub should be but that's the only way he knows how.

Thankyou Mistress

 

[shy slave]

Yet you choose to disappear on him and left him to resort to asking on Lit about you.

Strange counselling

*shrug*

Lost

 

[Xelebes]

i dont want to get into an arguement on this, so please respect my Mistress and not insult or cast derogatory comment on her name, thank you

I'm sorry, I just don't think being named after hairy legs is all that flattering.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I'm sorry, I just don't think being named after hairy legs is all that flattering.

Okay, now that I know what it means, how the hell do you pronouce it?

 

[A Desert Rose]

Yet you choose to disappear on him and left him to resort to asking on Lit about you.

Strange counselling

*shrug*

Lost

They left his address on there? LOL I didn't think they let you do that in posts.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Oh God... I can't stop laughing. Had I known what her name meant...

Oh nevermind.

LMAO

 

[graceanne]

Well, the irony of a man's girlfriend counseling him on his marriage problems is what has me giggling.

 

[Private_Label]

i dont want to get into an arguement on this, so please respect my Mistress and not insult or cast derogatory comment on her name, thank you

Respect is earned not given. She may be your mistress, but she is not mine.

It also sounds a bit like you are cheating emotionally, if not sexually, on your wife. She has not agreed to allow you to explore this aspect of yourself, and for her it is not Consentual, and you risk doing your family harm should your wife find out and be upset. If you can't share this aspect of yourself with your wife... you will probably have other issues you can't get though with your family either.

Also I would caution about binding yourself too tightly, you can cut of circulations to your penis and that could lead to medical problems. If it goes completely numb to sensation then that is bad. Very bad.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Respect is earned not given. She may be your mistress, but she is not mine.

It also sounds a bit like you are cheating emotionally, if not sexually, on your wife. She has not agreed to allow you to explore this aspect of yourself, and for her it is not Consentual, and you risk doing your family harm should your wife find out and be upset. If you can't share this aspect of yourself with your wife... you will probably have other issues you can't get though with your family either.

Also I would caution about binding yourself too tightly, you can cut of circulations to your penis and that could lead to medical problems. If it goes completely numb to sensation then that is bad. Very bad.

Okay, wait just a damned minute now... He's cheating with a hairy legged woman. That really doesn't count, does it?


Please know that this was a tongue in cheek post and meant to be funnnnny. God I hate having to explain every single funny post to people and I'm sure you know when I'm kidding. It just seems like there's a lot of people here who don't get it or just don't want to get it.

What's french for hairy armpits?

 

[Kajira Callista]

Okay, wait just a damned minute now... He's cheating with a hairy legged woman. That really doesn't count, does it?


Please know that this was a tongue in cheek post and meant to be funnnnny. God I hate having to explain every single funny post to people and I'm sure you know when I'm kidding. It just seems like there's a lot of people here who don't get it or just don't want to get it.

What's french for hairy armpits?

hairepits

 

[A Desert Rose]

hairepits

Thank you... you're such a help. LMAO