Wondering

[RiverKnight]

I am drawn to be a Daddy. I enjoy thinking about controlling every aspect of my lovers day to day. The sexual aspects aside. I am drawn to the nurturing aspects of a close relationship with a woman. I desire to shape and mold her so we can grow as one.I want her to please me.

Am I a daddy or just someone who is not.

This is not a BS question...just me questioning myself and asking for input....


Thanks

 

[Lord_Steve]

upon careful consultation of the cards (tarot, shamanic, AND yu-gi-oh, I am nothing if not thorough) it has become clear to me that you are a heron.

please do not peck me with your long beak or fly into my house and make a ruckus with your huge wings.

thanks in advance and hope this helps,

lord steve

 

[Lord_Steve]

but 4, as the kids say, realz, if you could be more specific about your desires and your actual object of inquiry I'm sure one of the more practical and less bardic people here could help you out.

Caw! Caw!

 

[Kurokami]

upon careful consultation of the cards (tarot, shamanic, AND yu-gi-oh, I am nothing if not thorough) it has become clear to me that you are a heron.

please do not peck me with your long beak or fly into my house and make a ruckus with your huge wings.

thanks in advance and hope this helps,

lord steve

Quite possibly the most insightful thing I have ever read. Thank you for enriching my life, Lord Steve

To provide a legitimate response, OP, does it really matter? I'm sure you'll get a different set of conditions for what constitutes daddiness from each responder, but I for one don't care whether I align with somebody else's true path to Domliness. Because I'm doing what works for me, and I'd encourage you to do the same, even if you aren't following the twue path.

Really, there are only two questions that I would ask, that are worth a damn:

1: Are you enjoying yourself?

2: Is your partner/s enjoying his/her/their/self/ves?

If the answer to both of those is yes, then rock the fuck on, my friend. If you can find a partner willing to call you Daddy, who can provide you with the level of control and enjoyment you desire, then more power to you. Enjoy!

 

[Vixandra]

OMG Lord Steve, that was amazing. Needed that, thank you.



RiverKnight- a title is just a title- what you are is what you choose to be (within reason). If you choose to label yourself as a Daddy seeking a sub/little girl/slave/pyl, go for it. There are a lot of women out there into that kind of thing.

 

[Lilac_Sky]

RiverKnight,
As everyone else has said, you can be whatever the hell you want to be. There are so many interpretations of the labels and titles, that you can choose for yourself.

Some people claim Daddy-Doms are "kinder, gentler" dominants. Some people enjoy the Daddy/little girl dynamic as one of stern rules and spankings. Some people enjoy spoiled little girls with Daddies wrapped around their little fingers.

None are "more right" than others.
Have fun!