Women who make sexy videos for their husbands or boyfriends

[Que]

I have a stash of nude and erotic photos of myself, mostly taken by my ex-husband, that I fully intend to haul out when I'm, like, 90 just so I can show them to people and say, "See? This is what I used to look like."

But I literally keep them under lock and key. I'll show them to a lover now, if he wants to see them, but they go back into the lock box immediately afterward.

I don't have any videos of myself having explicit sex. I wouldn't mind having them ... I may bring up the subject to some men I know.

And I agree with you guys ... anyone who would betray a trust and upload private photos or videos to a porn site without permission is a scumbag.

In the last couple of years, I have made some with play partners and it makes me smile a bit when (on camera) one said, 'You are luck you're (my last name) I NEVER let anyone take pictures of me." the other said almost the same thing. "I've always wanted to do this but I never trusted anyone before."

I think despite the joke about learning to fake sincerity it is a whole lot easier to BE trusted if you ARE trustworthy. Most people have built-in lie-detectors that are relatively effective. If you are even toying with the idea of a future betrayal, I think it comes across.

The second girl made a video specifically to order to please a kink of a lit friend. We were clear when making it what the end use would be and accordingly selected angles that obscured her identity fairly well. The end user asked "How did you get her to film that???" "I just asked her to." was a little simplistic. It was about the trust before that.

All that said...I have to admit that I get a voyeuristic rush seeing the vids that clearly were not intended for distribution.

 

[annayarnkitten]

I have a growing collection. I have sent a few short videos to only a select few people.

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[jakereeder22]

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[amyforfun]

In principle, I would have no problem making a video like this for my man.

But the fact that you found them on a porn site is the exact reason why I never will.

What she said....

 

[AutumnMiyuki]

Both done this and been with girls who have done this.

 

[tjernst]

show respect

After our divorce, I respectfully gave her our photo album to let her choose what she wanted to do with it. Although I could not collect every issue printed of Gallery Mag. where she was a girl next door.

 

[phoenix58]

After our divorce, I respectfully gave her our photo album to let her choose what she wanted to do with it. Although I could not collect every issue printed of Gallery Mag. where she was a girl next door.

My first wife let me keep our collection after our divorce. She trusted me and knew I would never post them. After I remarried, and had young teen girls in the house I decided it was better to delete them then have the girls accidentally stumble on them.

I love pictures and videos of women who are willing and enjoy sharing, but am actually turned off by the posts of "unknowing" women on some sites.

 

[Spenser41]

The last woman I was with made a very hot video for me. When we ended out of respect I deleted it. Any guy who would post it is scum.

 

[Blase]

I was involved with someone fairly recently who went on cam for me a couple times. She'd never done so for anyone else (or so she said, and I believed her), and both times she nervously asked me afterward if I'd recorded her. I wasn't too surprised when she asked the first time, but the second query surprised me.

My answer was simple: "You're not wrong to worry about being recorded, but it won't come from me."

I do someday hope to record a partner with her permission, though. Some sights really do deserve to be seen more than once.

 

[jakereeder22]

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[Blase]

I have taken the same exact approach with a couple of women I have met on here. I would never feel comfortable keeping a video or pictures after I am done chatting with a woman. The reality is that people come and go on literotica for a variety of reasons, but when a person decides they are taking a break or are finished with their exploration here, I always delete everything out of respect for the woman and the time and trust we shared. I have had partners who were surprised that I was this thorough, but its exactly what I would expect from them.

I admire your principles. I admit that I do have some images that former partners have sent to me, but I'd certainly delete anyone's images if they wished me to.

So far, the subject has only come up once when the question was not hypothetical: I asked one lady who had been my submissive for a time but had asked to be released if she'd prefer that I delete the images she'd sent to me. She graciously gave me permission to keep them, however.