Women using a "Fleshlight" type toy on a man

DallasDonna

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I'm thinking of buying my guy a 'Male Masturbator' for his birthday, and using it on him (he loves to use vibrators on me).

Have you done this? Did you both enjoy it?
Suggestions on type/brand?
 
His best male masturbator toy would also be called your mouth

~shrug~
 
Yeah, sounds about right. Female sex toys can provide something that a guy's cock/fingers can't necessarily do (different size/shape/texture, vibrations, etc.), whereas male sex toys seem to just be underwhelming attempts to imitate what your mouth/pussy can provide.
 
I'm thinking of buying my guy a 'Male Masturbator' for his birthday, and using it on him (he loves to use vibrators on me).

Have you done this? Did you both enjoy it?
Suggestions on type/brand?

Maybe you've done this already as you're on here, but could you ask him what his favourite fantasy is and surprise him by recreating it? I'd guess that he'd rather that than be given a bit of plastic that's failing at recreating what you already give him.
 
Ok, I'm going to go against the flow here. Firstly, I have used male masturbators by myself, and my wife has also used one on me. While I have to agree with the general sentiment that no male masturbator can compete with a real pussy or mouth, or even a well utilised hand for that matter, there is still something sexy about a made for purpose toy, and although it falls short of the real thing, it can still feel pretty damn good. There is also the fun and "naughtiness" aspect to be considered, that of your lover using a sex toy on you, which can be a big turn on in itself, and as he enjoys using toys on you, he obviously likes the concept of toys.
To sum up, I say go for it, what have you really got to lose. If you don't, you will always be wondering about it, and your boyfriend might have missed out on an enjoyable exoerience. I suspect that if nothing else, he will be thrilled that you even wanted to treat him in that way.
 
I'm thinking of buying my guy a 'Male Masturbator' for his birthday, and using it on him (he loves to use vibrators on me).

Have you done this? Did you both enjoy it?
Suggestions on type/brand?


I had the flashlight and it was fun but messy to clean and does wear out.

I would highly recommend the tenga egg. Many varieties. Cheap and feel oh so good.
 
They are so awesome! And soooo much fucking fun, seriously do it!
 
I'm thinking of buying my guy a 'Male Masturbator' for his birthday, and using it on him (he loves to use vibrators on me).

Have you done this? Did you both enjoy it?
Suggestions on type/brand?

I wholly commend you for wanting to join in on an otherwise solo activity. Speaking as a male, I love the attention of someone joining in on my fun. :D

As for toys, I, too, recommend either a fleshlight or a Tenga egg. the benefit of the latter toy is that, if you join in ... using it on him, you will directly experience feel his thrilling moments, in contrast to the molded toy of a fleshlight. but, it's all good. really. :cool:
 
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