Women in authority

[sexysquid90]

There is something alluring about a woman in authority. I am not talk D/s, but having an attractive woman whom you have to obey at work (in my case, the military). The way they carry themselves, having to salute. It always makes me think of Jack Nicholson's speech at Gitmo in "A Few Good Men" about blowjobs and saluting. Teachers, bosses, etc. it is all sexy.

 

[bluesky496]

There is something alluring about a woman in authority. I am not talk D/s, but having an attractive woman whom you have to obey at work (in my case, the military). The way they carry themselves, having to salute. It always makes me think of Jack Nicholson's speech at Gitmo in "A Few Good Men" about blowjobs and saluting. Teachers, bosses, etc. it is all sexy.

i agree with your perception ,strong confident women are sexy ,have a safe trip.

 

[sexysquid90]

Bump?

 

[TXhub]

Agreed! For me, it's a woman in a business suit!

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

Yes I do like women in authority. Strong, confident, but sexy. However I do like it when they take charge in sex as well.

 

[FantasySharer1]

The fantasy of having a woman in authority, who has incredible power, but is addicted to my dick and begs me for it privately - is probably my favorite in this genre.

 

[BareBackRider2]

There's a female director at my work. We always exchange smiles.

Everyone else says she's ruthless. Psycho is a term that's also been used.

"Yes please" is all I can say. (in my head)

She's so hot In a professional women kind of way.

There are cut backs at the moment. I'd do anything to keep my job anything

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Actually, I think that my boss is very...well, cute. It's not that she is confident. Quite the opposite. She's vulnerable, sometimes snappy, but usually polite, and just seems to be in over her head. Frankly, in some areas, she's incompetent. Then again, they knew what they were doing in terms of me, even if only by accident. She doesn't have to tell me to do things. I do them happily for her, because I love her. All that she has to do is ask. I know that she is out of her depth, and I try to make it easy on her.

Oh, she might anger me from time to time, but I can't stay mad at her. She always finds a way to charm me all over again. Who can stay mad at a curvy, cuddly woman with souful grey-green eyes, pouty lips, pillowy tits, and a nice, plush ass, who accidentally moons so many folk in her baggy pants that the assistant store manager actually nicknamed her "Plumber"?

Oh, and every time that they put up vicious graffiti about her in the men's room stalls, I get offended, report it, and wipe it away. I don't care if she is a slut or not. I have an open marriage and regular sex with my wife. What my boss does in the sack with someone else is only my business if she ever offers to include me. I love many women, but, yes she is one of my favorites. We're not lovers...yet. But damn, if any woman can tempt me to break my "no supervisors" rule, it would be her. I would be very tempted indeed if she ever came on to me.

 

[southern_gal]

Let's make something clear. We are all in authority whether we have a badge, uniform, title, or not.
If you guys want to debate this I'm all for it. You guys that don't think you give in to us just ask yourself one question.......what is more pleasurable? What we have or your fist?

Case closed.

Next.

 

[tammyw]

Let's make something clear. We are all in authority whether we have a badge, uniform, title, or not.
If you guys want to debate this I'm all for it. You guys that don't think you give in to us just ask yourself one question.......what is more pleasurable? What we have or your fist?

Case closed.

Next.

This made me laugh! Great point!

 

[pensivepoet]

The fist is cheaper and never makes me clean out the garage.

 

[southern_gal]

The fist is cheaper and never makes me clean out the garage.

Wanna bet who's stuff is mostly responsible for cluttering up the garage?? We get the closets and you get the garage. Sounds like a good arrangement to me.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Every marriage is different. Sometimes the man has the power, sometimes the woman, and sometimes, they trade off. My paternal grandmother never backed down for most people, but there was no question that my grandfather wore the pants in their marriage. He was the Boss of my family, everyone in the family obeyed him, and there was no doubt of his authority. So, really, I don't generalize. My maternal grandmother, on the other hand, could be very sweet, but she didn't put up with men doing things that she didn't like. She was married four times to prove it, too. You never can tell with people. My father is mild-mannered in some ways, affable, easygoing, etc., and he will listen to my mother, but in the end, he has the final say.

For me, well, it's an unconventional marriage and we trade off in various areas. Some things, she's in charge, other things I am (home defense, and I generally pick what dinner is going to be, determine most sex acts, while she chooses the groceries and otherwise runs the kitchen). We even at times play with bondage and dominate each other, depending on if we're in the mood for it. We're both switches, but her tastes have grown more vanilla over time, so I find outlets with other women and men (open marriage, remember).

 

[KINKYCanada]

Yes it's a major turn on for me too! I have had a thing a couple of my old bosses and yet not one thing sexual ever transpired. Just her telling me what to do was all it took!

KC

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Did have one boss who turned me on by means of her authority, while the others were more other qualities that turned me on, as noted. Often ironically by their submissive traits. Yet there was Julie....yep, something about her was dominant, yet sensual and soft, and it did turn me on.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

When I was in college I worked at a research lab. My boss was a gorgeous dark-haired women with husky voice and a beautiful figure. At 32, she was the youngest full professor in the entire department. She was considered a real up and comer in her field. She was all business during the day, but she really let her hair down at our frequent departmental parties.

I worked with her for three and half years. She was very friendly with me, but never gave me any reason to think I had a shot at her. The day before my last day of work I came back from lunch and found her in my office sitting at my desk. Her legs were crossed and her feet were propped up on my desk. Her skirt had ridden halfway up her thigh, revealing nearly all of her smooth shapely legs. She didn't get up, but instead talked to me for about 20 minutes about my future plans. I couldn't take my eyes off her legs. I was straining for a peek at her panties, but they never came into view. The entire time we were talking I was getting more flustered. She knew the effect she was having on me, but she did not relent. She just kept talking to me. Finally, she stood up and gave me a quick hug and a kiss on the cheek. I know she had to feel my erection pressing against her belly. She didn't say anything, just kissed my cheek and thanked me for all of my hard work.

That incident fueled my masturbation for the next two weeks.

 

[BongoGal]

In my working life, I am the woman in authority. I teach underclassmen at a college, and I do my best to be prim, proper, and professional. My students generally "know their place" because they are aware of the power I have to make them miserable if I chose to do so. Thanks to social media, I have found out that I am considered a MILF to some of them. (But hey! I'm not even a M!) I'm sure that they'd be shocked to learn that in my private thoughts, I often have very sexual thoughts about them.

 

[irishblade]

Let's make something clear. We are all in authority whether we have a badge, uniform, title, or not.
If you guys want to debate this I'm all for it. You guys that don't think you give in to us just ask yourself one question.......what is more pleasurable? What we have or your fist?

Case closed.

Next.

My fist has never let me go a month without release. Looks like I hold all the authority.

 

[policywank]

My fist has never let me go a month without release. Looks like I hold all the authority.

Yes but if your wife started taking better care of your sexual needs and you knew that you would be rewarded for ceding authority?

 

[irishblade]

Yes but if your wife started taking better care of your sexual needs and you knew that you would be rewarded for ceding authority?

I'd still be in authority especially during the cycle!

 

[policywank]

I'd still be in authority especially during the cycle!

Not so much. As is often the case the man's authority requires the woman to tell him that he is everything that he isn't. She gets tired of pretending and due to the absence of an honest connection loses interest in mediocre sex or finds it elsewhere. He goes back to his fist blaming his lack of release on her and never figuring out that she is burning with desire but his ego, insecurities and self delusion are like a big bucket of cold water that keeps putting out the flame.

 

[irishblade]

Not so much. As is often the case the man's authority requires the woman to tell him that he is everything that he isn't. She gets tired of pretending and due to the absence of an honest connection loses interest in mediocre sex or finds it elsewhere. He goes back to his fist blaming his lack of release on her and never figuring out that she is burning with desire but his ego, insecurities and self delusion are like a big bucket of cold water that keeps putting out the flame.

But as long as we have hands, we are in control of our own orgasms.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

It is amusing to watch you two carry on. For my part, I like the back and forth, the sharing of power. Me in charge one moment, her the next. I like how it shakes things up, prevents things from getting too ritualized, formal, or whatever. I like not knowing who will be in charge from one day to the next.

I don't think that I could be a full-time Dom or sub. There would be a whole side to my sexuality neglected and deprived and it would feel very forced and stressful to me.

 

[townieamy]

What I think really turns me on is having authority over a guy (like a boss or teacher), but then the establishment of power is completely reversed in the bedroom. The authority figure becomes completely powerless to the stud's almighty cock.

 

[LizVegas79]

I don't think that I could be a full-time Dom /QUOTE]

I'm thinking about it. I've been told I have the legs and outfits for it.

Plus, with the mood I've been in all day ... mmm, I almost pity the male species.