Women and writing and sex-style?

[fictionalcharctr]

I was just thinking, any guy who knew who I was and read the stories would have one or more major formulas for seducing me. (Not that any man has actually made the effort in a long LONG time, but anyway)

I wondered, do other women feel like some of their stories turn into a "How to make the author scream" manual?

Do you think that blows over after the first couple stories, or do you think all stories have some element of "how to please this author" in them?

Just curious how other people write...

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[daciasdesire]

I try to write things that work on me in the hope that it will stimulate any other women reading. I'll also base the odd sexual situation in my writting on things that I've got up to make it feel as realistic as possible.

Dacia.

 

[niceguy2002tim]

My thoughts...

Hello,
well I am a man, but... this applies to me too. When I write, I make the situations things from experience or things I'd enjoy. Different sex positions and such that I would want to be in etc. So in other words, yes, my work is definitely a manual on how to please this writer!

-Tim (niceguy2002tim)
you can check out my work here...
A College girl to be...
&
A Lost Identity: Sex Fugitive

 

[SparkyMan]

How to please me!

In the same boat as niceguy! I too am a male.

However, I must agree that a certain element of my writing is either based on true life experiences, or what would please me. As far as a "How To" manual, that's what makes everyone's perspectives so unique. It gives insights as to what turns them on. Especially in the CHYOO sense. You can see where a contributor's thoughts are heading. Something in the thread previous, inspired that contributor to offer their thread.

The only difference in my threads, is that most of my threads are mainly designed at understanding what is going through the female's mind. In other words, how I would like my females to act/react in different situations!

Does that make sense?

 

[fictionalcharctr]

Re: How to please me!

The only difference in my threads, is that most of my threads are mainly designed at understanding what is going through the female's mind. In other words, how I would like my females to act/react in different situations!
Does that make sense?

Hehe, yeah it makes sense.
Does that mean if we read a story of yours and it's unrealistic, we should tell you so you don't try it in real life?

 

[SparkyMan]

Please tell me

Yes! Please tell me if there's anything that is "too unrealistic"

If I ever found a woman who did all the things, the women I write about do, I'd be the happiest man on earth!

heheh
LOL
-AVS-

 

[fictionalcharctr]

Ohyes!

*ROFL*
Same here (well, genders reversed, of course, cuz I'm mostly straight)
If I ever found a man who operated like the men in my stories...any of the men in my stories, I'd be a happy woman.

Unfortunately, I only ever met one or two, and they were one-night stands. <sigh>

 

[dr_mabeuse]

I think we all write things that appeal to us on some level. But I don't think anyone's going to gain the key to your heart or your bed by copying the moves described in a fanatasy. When we write, everything goes just as we plan, the gestures are done just the right way, things are said in exactly the right tone of voice, people look just as we'd like them to look. There's none of the clumsiness and stuttering of real life. And no one ever has to use the bathroom before sex.

There's also a lot of fantasies that we want to keep only as fantasies. Things like rape and non-consual, S&M, that we might like to explore in our imagination but would never want to really experience.

For me the challenge is to see if I can pull off a good scene involving something that might not appeal to me; see if I can find what soimeone else finds appealing in an activity that doesn't do it for me.

As for someone learning what 'moves' to use to seduce you, I'd be willing to bet that what attracts any of us to a potential lover is not just what they do and how they lookm but it's those things that are so hard to capture on paper: their personality, aura, bearing, attitude. That's where sexiness lives.

---dr.M.

 

[fictionalcharctr]

As for someone learning what 'moves' to use to seduce you, I'd be willing to bet that what attracts any of us to a potential lover is not just what they do and how they lookm but it's those things that are so hard to capture on paper: their personality, aura, bearing, attitude. That's where sexiness lives.

Hehe....I didn't say anything about attracting or repelling a potential lover. Just that if they were already interested/interesting, they could use some of the scenes in my stories as a model for how to get started with physical intimacy.
However, nobody is that methodical...I wish they were at least sometimes. Spontaneous is cool but there's certain things nearly every lover has missed that would certainly be nice. And yes, I do talk to them, but you just don't want to train your lover!!!