Woman in control story questions

[canonrfshooter]

As a story writer I am making a story about a straight couple where the woman is in control. Not exactly BDSM, but more a 'soft femdom' where she tells which acts should be done by him. As a man I like this.
Does somebody have good ideas ? Women are especially invited to reply.

 

[AussieIronman]

She dresses real sexy, more than ever before. Then she strip's him naked and ties his wrists to the bedhead so he can't touch her or himself. She teases him, even leaving the room at times.

 

[Rob_Royale]

She dresses real sexy, more than ever before. Then she strip's him naked and ties his wrists to the bedhead so he can't touch her or himself. She teases him, even leaving the room at times.

Then she sets herself down on a wingback chair, across from him and she begins to masturbate with her fingers while she tells him about an amazingly erotic dream/fantasy she had the previous night. This is so unlike her, he can't believe his eyes or his ears.

"So there I was, tied up, rather like you are now, sweetie. You walked in with Bob and Tony from your softball team."
She smiles seductively and brings her slick fingers to her mouth, licking her wetness from them. She gets up and strides to the bed smiling down at her husband. She sees the precum running copiously from his rock hard cock.

She reaches into the bedside table and pulls out her vibrating dildo, turning it on. "Would you like to know what the three of you do to my naked body?" The tip of the toy finds it's way towards her wet pussy.

Her husbands awed expression turns her on even more as he nods enthusiastically. She puts her leg up on the bed and slides the toy inside her, moaning loudly, "Well first you get behind me and then Tony ..."

 

[Andreas_Kreuz]

Female led reltionship?

 

[Five_Inch_Heels]

Blondie clearly ran the Bumstead household and controlled Dagwood in every way we saw. But what about the ways we didn't see?.

 

[wouldloveto]

Love the idea! But, I am not a woman so my two cents may not be worth that much.

In my mind she would be a sweet housewife next door type, but definitely in charge in the bedroom. This would evolve over time, early in the marriage he just wants to please the woman he adores, and she wants to explore, to find out what turns her on, so she guides him. They discover over time that it is this very dynamic, wife in charge of sex, that really turns them both on. She becomes a student of kink...

Thanks for posting your idea...

I am rolling this around in my head and it is gaining speed.

 

[Husky_Embrace]

As a story writer I am making a story about a straight couple where the woman is in control. Not exactly BDSM, but more a 'soft femdom' where she tells which acts should be done by him. As a man I like this.
Does somebody have good ideas ? Women are especially invited to reply.

Just from my own experience, where I live many women are open about what they want, though it might just as well be that I like satisfying their needs and create that environment.

That seems enough to already start acting to their whims. I've had only one where she really relished to be given this control, which can easily approach femdom. If she wanted to feel powerful by shoving all of her shame into my face, pinning me down and controlling the bedroom, I would happily lick her to all her desires and more.

Though eventually I was in control in this case, allowing her to act on her every whim, it is a thin line to femdom. Had things only been a bit different, she would be in full control. Exercising her every dream and me meekly following every order. My point is that it probably would have looked identical to now. I follow her orders, even if they are unspoken as she cowgirls on top of me, making me do the work regardless. The difference was only the internal dialogue. Our understanding that I allowed her to, instead of her taking it.

 

[Halfabarbie]

As a story writer I am making a story about a straight couple where the woman is in control. Not exactly BDSM, but more a 'soft femdom' where she tells which acts should be done by him. As a man I like this.
Does somebody have good ideas ? Women are especially invited to reply.

Sexual and daily acts/tasks I feel are important. Like taking out the trash before he goes down on me.

 

[VamPal1]

Idk. It's been my experience men don't want to give up control. Suggest tying him up with soft ropes, and he freaks the f out.

 

[Husky_Embrace]

Idk. It's been my experience men don't want to give up control. Suggest tying him up with soft ropes, and he freaks the f out.

My experience is that women do not give blowjobs. In my long years I've had 0 lips touching my cock.

Both our experiences are outliers though. In my talks with others about sex it turns out I'm a unicorn. Your situation is less uncommon, and more dependent on the preferences of the man. I can still tell there's plenty of men who are allowing to give up control.

Giving up control is often a sham though. In many cases where control is given up, they are still in control. One word and they'll be released.

 

[VamPal1]

As someone who is into cock worshipping, I'm sorry to hear that. OTOH, I don't think it's too much to expect that I be allowed to see how a man handles a suggestion to tying him up. That's where he shows what he really thinks.

 

[StillStunned]

Quite a few of my stories have the woman in control. Most recently Red Hot (EC), but also Flesh for Another Fantasy (E&V), A Fool Not to Fuck (I/T) and (perhaps less explicitly) While She Watches Them and The Walled Garden (both E&V).

 

[taimur40]

I think about a successful husband, confident and the man in control. His wife figure out his student/teacher fantasy, where being the student excites him. Probably due to the fact that he is exactly opposite in the real life and being controlled by an authority figure, who happens to be his teacher, excites him.

She find some old pictures of the husband in his school and notice his teacher wearing glasses, so get similar one for herself. The wife take it on, punish him as well as reward him (acting his teacher), but in every scenario, she control him.

She may even further stretch it in scenarios, where she reward him (as her good student), being a married women and cheating on her husband with her student.