Woman from Salon says sex between a 19 year old and a drunken 15 year old isn't rape.

[LJ_Reloaded]

I never imagined rape culture would find acceptance on Salon. I'm glad I don't have to pay to read this bullshit e-mag. This author should be fired and thrown in a padded cell.

http://www.salon.com/2013/03/22/my_bad_sex_wasnt_rape/

Thirty-some summers ago, when I was 15, I lost my virginity to a boy who didn’t care a bit about my emotional well-being. He was very popular, on his way to college in the fall, and sleeping with any girl who would spread her legs to have sex with him that summer.

Two weeks after we had sex for the first time, he and I and his best friend got drunk — me for the first time in my life — and I ended up having sex in a park with both of them. It was somewhat miserable for me to have sex consecutively with two young men, ages 17 and 19, and to hear the second one ask, in the midst of intercourse, “Are you using birth control?” and quickly add, “Oh, who cares — if you get pregnant, it’s your fault,” and to have my bra and panties left behind on the grass when they drove me home. I was shaken both by the degrading nature of the incident and by the fact that I had allowed it. But allow it, I did. Was I raped? No. Did I ever for one second think that maybe I had been raped? No.

Many would disagree.