wild175133
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you ever talk to your wife about this rl
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I've beenthe +M in straight and slightly crooked MFM playtimes.. and it is great fun. What would you like to know?rl_dylan said:I for one have many bi- fantasiesand it seems as I get older they occur more and more often. But only in a MFM type relation, but with the longing to have oral sex with my lady while the "other" guy is fucking her. Oh well, would like to hear from wifes that have the female part of my fantasy, or other males that have lived it out
fingers crossed
well, i've been married for almost ten years and have still not been able to "turn" my hubby bi. since before we were married, we've enjoyed dressing him up, mutual ass-play with dildos and strap-ons, extensive role-playing, and even a MFM threesome (note how the M's don't touch in my pairing description). still, however, i've never been blessed with the opportunity to observe any bisexual behavior on his part. true, he could be bisexual in private, but he still shares his CD porn with me and i share my MM porn with him, so i can't imagine he would get some on the side without letting me get off on it too.
see, i've be openly interested/obsessed with MM sexual contact since i was a teen, so hubby was well aware that i would never stop being interesting in him exploring his bisexuality when he popped the question (as well as my lack of interest in sexual exclusivity 'til the end of days, for either of us). i guess that means that i truly knew he wasn't opposed to his bisexuality when he accepted my counter-terms to his marriage proposal.
but now, after ten years, he still hasn't evolved out of the fantasy/role-play stage we were exploring BEFORE we got married and that's making me increasingly antsy. maybe my voracious appetite for MM sexuality has intimidated him, i dunno. i'd never want him to think i would stop loving him if he DIDN'T get together with a guy, but i'm getting older and hot lovers are getting harder to find in this semi-wrinkled set, so i am beginning to think about looking elsewhere to satisfy my real-world visual fantasies.
i've given him every opportunity to just DO IT, and been patient as all hell too, but i'm not seeing anything daring on his part - just more of the same old same-old. seeing this post here today feels like a sign that i need to give my hubby yet one more chance to step up to the plate. but if he balks, i'm definately going to start scouting for some sure-fire batters!
well, i've been married for almost ten years and have still not been able to "turn" my hubby bi. since before we were married, we've enjoyed dressing him up, mutual ass-play with dildos and strap-ons, extensive role-playing, and even a MFM threesome (note how the M's don't touch in my pairing description). still, however, i've never been blessed with the opportunity to observe any bisexual behavior on his part. true, he could be bisexual in private, but he still shares his CD porn with me and i share my MM porn with him, so i can't imagine he would get some on the side without letting me get off on it too.
see, i've be openly interested/obsessed with MM sexual contact since i was a teen, so hubby was well aware that i would never stop being interesting in him exploring his bisexuality when he popped the question (as well as my lack of interest in sexual exclusivity 'til the end of days, for either of us). i guess that means that i truly knew he wasn't opposed to his bisexuality when he accepted my counter-terms to his marriage proposal.
but now, after ten years, he still hasn't evolved out of the fantasy/role-play stage we were exploring BEFORE we got married and that's making me increasingly antsy. maybe my voracious appetite for MM sexuality has intimidated him, i dunno. i'd never want him to think i would stop loving him if he DIDN'T get together with a guy, but i'm getting older and hot lovers are getting harder to find in this semi-wrinkled set, so i am beginning to think about looking elsewhere to satisfy my real-world visual fantasies.
i've given him every opportunity to just DO IT, and been patient as all hell too, but i'm not seeing anything daring on his part - just more of the same old same-old. seeing this post here today feels like a sign that i need to give my hubby yet one more chance to step up to the plate. but if he balks, i'm definately going to start scouting for some sure-fire batters!
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deny yourself no longer opiper....your a different human with different desires.
(if you and i were married, it would be your perfect pleasure)
(if you and i were married, it would be your perfect pleasure)
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What did I say to my man the day he told me that he was bi ?
Me : I don't care, babe. I love you anyway. Hey, at least now, we have something in common !!!
How things are between us now ?
Something's eating him up and he doesn't want to tell me. I thought I had earned his trust by now. apparently not all of it. i can't read his friggin brain.
Me : I don't care, babe. I love you anyway. Hey, at least now, we have something in common !!!
How things are between us now ?
Something's eating him up and he doesn't want to tell me. I thought I had earned his trust by now. apparently not all of it. i can't read his friggin brain.
I was almost to the point of telling my wife I was a very submissive bisexual and wanted her to join me an my male lover in a hot sexual experience when we found out about her cousin finding out about her husband being a bi-male. After hearing the comments she made about that situation, I'm afraid she would throw a fit and leave me. What do you guys think I should do?
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Don't tell her. Don't let her find out. My ex-girlfriend was okay with my being bi, but her family wasn't okay with her, their prim and proper white daughter, dating me, a Black man ! That's what ended the relationship. Today, I am in a relationship with a guy. I don't want to hide anymore.
I don't plan on telling her. I"ve been being used by men long before she came along and will continue long after she's gone. It would be nice if she would let herself be apart of my cock loving life-style, but now that I think of it, maybe I don't want her competing for the hard cock I get. I guess I'll just get in touch witth her cousin's husband and become his little cock loving slut. He and I will get along great at family reunions.
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boi6969 said:
Just be careful. People aren't as stupid as you might think. Don't let them SUSPECT anything. Personally, I routinely delete my tracks on the web thanks to Internet Eraser. Nobody can tell where I've been or what I've done. Only way to be safe in a world full of nosy haters.
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What is slightly crooked MFM mean? My fantasy is pleasing the woman, no matter what she wants done to her, or see. The thought of holding a hard cock, rubbing it up and down a sexy ladies slit, slowly pushing it into her, playing with her clit, watching the pleasure on her face.HouseToy said:
Wow.....I am suprised I never noticed this thread before!
I am not sure when exactly I found out my husband was Bi. I just remember that my first suspicions was that he was gay because I used to look in his computer for things........he was on it all the time and I knew he was up to something. I found a LOT of gay websites and gay videos on his computer. I was crushed and felt betrayed about it and finally decided to confront him about it (FYI, we were not married at the time.........we had gotten a divorce and then got back together after 2 years....we are now married again). One of our worst problems was no communication and I wasn't going to let that happen again! He didn't deny anything but he did tell me he still loved me and that he still wanted to be with me. He was not gay but BI.
So how does a woman deal with something like this? I was angry, confused, and told myself what I am sure a lot of other women have asked themselves: "Am I not good enough?". Was I that horrible in bed that he had to turn to men? I couldn't believe it! My life wasn't normal..........I was in love with a man that was turned on by men!
It was a long night of yelling and crying and me asking tons of questions which he answered right away. He kept reasurring me that he chose to spend his life with me and that I would always come first. I believed him but it was still hard to stomach. He told me about some encounters with men when we were apart. I realized that it took a lot of courage for him to come clean and tell me this intimate part of his life. A part of his life that most people we know still have no clue to this day.
It's been a few years and we are still the best of friends and enjoy a great sex life together. He has some "on the side" male encounters that he tells me. He shares every aspect of his sex life with me and doesn't keep anything a secret anymore. We have actually had some great 3 somes with a guy that is also BI and we are always looking for more fun with anyone that we are interested in.
I understand that this is something that is never going away and I have to deal with it. At the moment I am about 95% OK with it. And I have to admit that seeing my husband pleasure another man and vice versa is very HOT!
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I am not sure when exactly I found out my husband was Bi. I just remember that my first suspicions was that he was gay because I used to look in his computer for things........he was on it all the time and I knew he was up to something. I found a LOT of gay websites and gay videos on his computer. I was crushed and felt betrayed about it and finally decided to confront him about it (FYI, we were not married at the time.........we had gotten a divorce and then got back together after 2 years....we are now married again). One of our worst problems was no communication and I wasn't going to let that happen again! He didn't deny anything but he did tell me he still loved me and that he still wanted to be with me. He was not gay but BI.
So how does a woman deal with something like this? I was angry, confused, and told myself what I am sure a lot of other women have asked themselves: "Am I not good enough?". Was I that horrible in bed that he had to turn to men? I couldn't believe it! My life wasn't normal..........I was in love with a man that was turned on by men!
It was a long night of yelling and crying and me asking tons of questions which he answered right away. He kept reasurring me that he chose to spend his life with me and that I would always come first. I believed him but it was still hard to stomach. He told me about some encounters with men when we were apart. I realized that it took a lot of courage for him to come clean and tell me this intimate part of his life. A part of his life that most people we know still have no clue to this day.
It's been a few years and we are still the best of friends and enjoy a great sex life together. He has some "on the side" male encounters that he tells me. He shares every aspect of his sex life with me and doesn't keep anything a secret anymore. We have actually had some great 3 somes with a guy that is also BI and we are always looking for more fun with anyone that we are interested in.
I understand that this is something that is never going away and I have to deal with it. At the moment I am about 95% OK with it. And I have to admit that seeing my husband pleasure another man and vice versa is very HOT!
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Slightly crooked MFM
More on topic... I've been approached by more than a few couples with a bi-cur male. I'm not really into guys... I'm not looking to meet other men. But I do really enjoy MFM with bisexual men... it is nice to have a small group experience where a touch will not send someone flying off the bed. And,a little variety is a good thing
Well, if straight is all about MF or multiple males interacting with a female for MFM... slighly crooked involves some MM interaction... as in MF 69, her on top. He enters her doggie style and the bottom 69 male licks anything "handy"... I consider that slightly crooked or not totally straight.rl_dylan said:
More on topic... I've been approached by more than a few couples with a bi-cur male. I'm not really into guys... I'm not looking to meet other men. But I do really enjoy MFM with bisexual men... it is nice to have a small group experience where a touch will not send someone flying off the bed. And,a little variety is a good thing
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Well, sometime in 2007, I will get married and become the wife of a bisexual man. I already knew, long before. Plus I'm bi myself, so I dont care.
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i would like to start this thread again to those that have posted before give us and update
An update? Sure...
It's been over two years since I posted here and unfortunately, little has changed for me regarding this topic. I'm still married to a man who has yet to explore his bisexuality (in my presence, at least), and I still yearn to observe any and all male-on-male kink. Two things have happened since 2006 though. One is that I finally got to watch two men have sex! I've had this lover off and on for about four years who is openly bisexual (one of my MAIN attractions to him) and last year, he fucked one of his boytoys for my viewing pleasure. Boy was that great!!! I've never been so turned on in my life! Whew (sorry - just thinking back makes me shiver and sweat a bit!)...
The second development is that I've fallen in love with another one of my lovers and I think my husband is letting me cuckold him. I've stopped giving it up at home almost entirely and this has driven hubby to the net and to sexual-social networking - with men. An interesting turn of events, fer sure. The guy I've fallen for is almost homophobic to a fault, but somehow I've opened him up to possibilities he'd never drempt of with relative success. I'm not sure how much longer my husband will pretend to not know I'm fucking around, but I'm gonna milk it for as long as I can! Hey, who knows? Maybe I'll get them to do eachother someday!!! HAHA - A girl can dream, can't she?
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An update? Sure...
It's been over two years since I posted here and unfortunately, little has changed for me regarding this topic. I'm still married to a man who has yet to explore his bisexuality (in my presence, at least), and I still yearn to observe any and all male-on-male kink. Two things have happened since 2006 though. One is that I finally got to watch two men have sex! I've had this lover off and on for about four years who is openly bisexual (one of my MAIN attractions to him) and last year, he fucked one of his boytoys for my viewing pleasure. Boy was that great!!! I've never been so turned on in my life! Whew (sorry - just thinking back makes me shiver and sweat a bit!)...
The second development is that I've fallen in love with another one of my lovers and I think my husband is letting me cuckold him. I've stopped giving it up at home almost entirely and this has driven hubby to the net and to sexual-social networking - with men. An interesting turn of events, fer sure. The guy I've fallen for is almost homophobic to a fault, but somehow I've opened him up to possibilities he'd never drempt of with relative success. I'm not sure how much longer my husband will pretend to not know I'm fucking around, but I'm gonna milk it for as long as I can! Hey, who knows? Maybe I'll get them to do eachother someday!!! HAHA - A girl can dream, can't she?
How do you know he is on the net social networking with men? How did you find out?
If he is really doing this it soulds like a time for a heart to heart with him. You should get him to open up to find out where his head is at on this subject. Then get back to us and let us know the details
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i know my husband is bi curious and since we are both very sexual people i have no problem with it i think it is pretty hot, he has not acted on it yet, but we are both waiting for the day this fantasy becomes a reality. with him i think it is more the body part than anything else he knows how much i love going down on him so now it is his turn.
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You think he is interested enough to actually get on his knees and do it
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Confession about bi-experience leads to marriage reconciliation
My first wife found out about my bisexuality when I confessed to her that I had lost my virginity in a threesome with a bi-couple. At the time of the confession, we were separated (after 5 years of marriage) and on the way to a divorce. My confession intrigued my wife, and when she asked for proof, and I gave it to her (I had pictures), it led to the first sex together in 9 months....and then to our reconciliation. We remained married for 16 more years.
I've turned this experience into a story posted on Literotica that draws very closely upon what did happen, with some embroidery. It's called "Screwball Love: a Virgin, a Threesome, a Reconciliation."
I met my second wife through internet correspondence. I confessed to her in our first week of exchanging correspondence. I wrote to her that I had a dark side and told her about my few bisexual adventures and loss of virginity experience. She replied, "That's your bright side." (She too is bi, and she had a girlfriend as a lover for 6 months when she was in her twenties.)
My first wife found out about my bisexuality when I confessed to her that I had lost my virginity in a threesome with a bi-couple. At the time of the confession, we were separated (after 5 years of marriage) and on the way to a divorce. My confession intrigued my wife, and when she asked for proof, and I gave it to her (I had pictures), it led to the first sex together in 9 months....and then to our reconciliation. We remained married for 16 more years.
I've turned this experience into a story posted on Literotica that draws very closely upon what did happen, with some embroidery. It's called "Screwball Love: a Virgin, a Threesome, a Reconciliation."
I met my second wife through internet correspondence. I confessed to her in our first week of exchanging correspondence. I wrote to her that I had a dark side and told her about my few bisexual adventures and loss of virginity experience. She replied, "That's your bright side." (She too is bi, and she had a girlfriend as a lover for 6 months when she was in her twenties.)
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Damn...
This thread is giving me such a hard on......Whewwwwwwww
This thread is giving me such a hard on......Whewwwwwwww
always wanted to do this
Married male here, wife would freak out if she knew, but I have always wanted to suck my first cock with a woman holding it and coaxing me to suck it for her. Nothing gets me harder. Anyone out there want to help me do this?
Married male here, wife would freak out if she knew, but I have always wanted to suck my first cock with a woman holding it and coaxing me to suck it for her. Nothing gets me harder. Anyone out there want to help me do this?
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