With all the talk of meeting people...

[*bratcat*]

 

[lovetoread]

My ex knew,and hated it.

I never tried to hide it,and it was him that called me,so I didnt worry about the calling cards and things.

 

[Southern37]

What do your spouses/SOs think of your newfound friends? Will you tell them that you are meeting people? Why or why not?

Also, I notice that lots of us have partners living at home with us...how do you manage to talk longdistance to people from here?
Do you have a calling card or do you just use your regular long distance plan at home? Are your partners home while you talk?

Nope..spouse knows nothing...she would blow a gasket. She is about as much fun as a nose bleed now. *shaking head* she used to be fun...not sure what happened. *shrugs* oh well...

yes..the calling card...only way to go.

Hey, btw..whats all this talk of meeting people and I havent been invited?

 

[sabbathstorm]

When we met someone from online, we didn't mention it to our friends and family. We did leave information with family where we'd be and how we'd be reached. We also checked in with them a lot to make sure things were okay at home. There was no problem with my partner as he talked to them too and we were all supposed to meet.

We just used our own long distance plan to talk on the phone. We also alternated calling so there wouldn't be too much of an impact on the phone bill for either of us.

 

[thumbs2_ca]

The few times I have talked to people after meeting them on the net I have used a phone card.
My SO does not know and would be pissed right off if she knew. I am alone two or three nights a week so that makes life much easier in that respect

 

[shynsexy]

my so knows i talk to yall on lit, but i dont talk to anyone here on the phone.. when guys call here he gets upset. buts its my house....o well

 

[*bratcat*]

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[juicylips]

The few times I have talked to people after meeting them on the net I have used a phone card.
My SO does not know and would be pissed right off if she knew. I am alone two or three nights a week so that makes life much easier in that respect

And those two or three nights of the week would be?????

JL

 

[perks]

his exact quote was "I can't believe people you don't really know come here and take their clothes off for you to draw them, what a bunch of freaks... but if that's what you want to do, go ahead."

 

[thumbs2_ca]

{php}And those two or three nights of the week would be?????{/php}

LOL.. that would be Monday and Tuesday nights.
Every week like clock work.. whoooo whooooo

 

[juicylips]

{php}And those two or three nights of the week would be?????{/php}

LOL.. that would be Monday and Tuesday nights.
Every week like clock work.. whoooo whooooo

Pencil me in sometime.

JL

 

[T.H. Oughts]

{php}And those two or three nights of the week would be?????{/php}

LOL.. that would be Monday and Tuesday nights.
Every week like clock work.. whoooo whooooo

*sits down to calculate*

Ok, Monday, Tuesday for him, so in my time zone that is Tuesday, Wednesday... I wonder if he excepts calls from out of his own time zone.

 

[Wiggles]

Well, I don't have plans to meet anyone from Lit., but if I did I'm pretty sure he would have a problem with it.

He knows I talk to people on Lit, and on my messenger services, he doesn't care too much.

I've only talked to one person from Lit. on the phone, and it wasn't a big deal, but I didn't tell him. I don't think he'd care too much about that either.

Never used a calling card, but I think that would be the way to go.

 

[SXCRgirl]

Phone card is the only way to go in my opinion. I had an online SO and he was married. He used his cell phone to call me. I don't know how that all worked out, but that's what he used. He didn't call me when he was at home - just when he is out. You know, on his way to work and on the way home and lots of calls in between.

 

[AusTess]

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She is about as much fun as a nose bleed now. *shaking head* she used to be fun...not sure what happened. *shrugs* oh well...

That's an awful fucking thing to say.

And if you were my old man?


You'd have some sharp bladed implement sticking out from between your eyes.



Oh,and i dont do the whole whole thing.
I'm shy like that.

bt if i did?

HWTHB would be eating me out while i did.

 

[lavender]

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[Nicodemus]

Keep the calls restricted to work. The few times I have gotten a call at home I had to ask them to call and it was when the s/o was not at home. It could get really ugly if she knew about it, unfortunately ( and this is only in regards to me not lit) this is my outlet since things are somewhat less than perfect at home......

Nic,

Perky,

Anytime you need a new model you just let me know. Always kind of wondered what it was like to be on the other side of the canvas.

 

[Kitte]

My SO know I play here.. he has NO idea how much or to what degree. He would go balistic if he did, which I dont get cause I am only online so much because he is asleep whenever he is home. I guess he thinks sex 5 times a year is normal or something.

I lvoe that man of mine but... gotta get a lil excitement somewhere!

 

[AusTess]

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Well obviously, with that statement you prove you're not the prize male either. I agree with Tess. That's fucking awful to say.

I love it when people agree with me.


Ha.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

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Well obviously, with that statement you prove you're not the prize male either. I agree with Tess. That's fucking awful to say.

But, the fact that you stay with someone you feel that way about just says you have no resolve and little strength. It's weak and pathetic.

Being a woman..I could be offended by what Southern said...but I am not. What I can understand is how some people
(and this is going to sound absofuckinglutely insane) But some people much rather endear a lifetime of a lie then 15 minutes of a confrontation...I don't really think it makes a person weak or pathetic. Everyone has their reasons...


As for talking to people here at lit...I talk to 2 people almost daily. My SO knows of one of them. I talk on either my cell phone, or home phone...Again..I would feel totally comfortable talking to one of them while My SO is around the house...

 

[*bratcat*]

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[AusTess]

i KNEW you wouldn't agree.



Yannow,women dont turn boring on their own.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Guest]

Never talked to anyone. Never had the offer. But if I did, my wife would love it. She hears me say wonderful things about you all, and treasures the friends I've met. Hell, she'd love for me to meet some in person, too........

 

[zantac666]

I'm not married so i can do anything i want when ever with who ever.