Wit & Nipples šŸ’

I used to escort for a while… though it was through a sugar daddy website and most of the men I met wanted to meet in bars and restaurants and just talk. They wanted company and someone to sit with to enjoy their stories with zero judgment. I think I was more of a listening ear and comfort than anything else. I was also 19, living alone and needed a way to earn money alongside my marketing job, and studying. (Not to justify being an escort, we’ve all done things we’re not so proud of when times have been a little more difficult… not all of us are born with silver spoons in mouth.)

But there was one guy I used to meet regularly who would pay for a hotel and just want to make me orgasm over and over… there was never any expectation for me to do anything and in the end the sex was fucking incredible because of the time we’d spent meeting, talking with ZERO strings and no stress or pressure to ā€œmeet againā€ ā€œtext all the timeā€ ā€œrevel personal details.ā€ So I do wonder what the intrigue is for people wanting to pay a women just for the act of sex itself; you mention being more dominant with escorts is that because they will never meet you again? Or because they don’t know you? I’m intrigued.
I would luv to have a drink and hear your stories ms bean. No judgment here on any thing u have said. Yet 😜

and iv never really thought about it that deeply. I think it’s just simpler. I dan be whoever I want.No strings, no expectations, no risk of things getting messy. It’s Probably easier to be more dominant because there’s no emotional baggage and you’re not going to bump into them again. Less pressure I guess.
 
The pleasure is all mine, I assure you.

Doing the 'right' thing in a room full of horny miscreants is likely less of a tall order than you might imagine.

You engage. You fill our minds with the right kind of imagery. You talk, as much as posting outstanding pics of your naughty bits. You tell us stories.

win-win-win-win-win?
Thankyou; again. I’m sat here thinking what did I do to deserve this appreciation hahah. It’s honestly incredibly kind. 🄰

And I really enjoy the conversations, fun/naughty exchanges…curious minds (the more curious, the better)… I also like to believe imagination is the real erogenous zone which is why share stories and little tit bits here and there (no pun intended)…And if that leads to mutual enjoyment, I won’t argue with the outcome 😘
 
Happy and kinky is the best kind of person in general. Sad and kinky makes me feel as thought I’d be using tears as lube and although I’ve had some cries after sex I don’t think this is the energy anybody would want ;)

Also I LOVE spit play, we’ve spoken about this before on the thread but sharing cum and tasting each others arousal is incredibly hot and can be a very intimate experience! šŸ˜

Public sex can be done way easier than I think people imagine… I think you need to be turned on enough to block out the paranoia that you may have about being caught. If you find an empty field there may be a tree line in the far end… hide behind a tree and have her (or him) bent over with the view of the field ahead of you and… well voila šŸ˜‰ you both have eyes on and I can promise an intense and very fun orgasm for you both. (Though following that… post nut clarity may sink in and you’ll be rushing around to get all clothes back on and cum messes cleared up, realising halfway through getting changed that you don’t have tissues and settle for a sock or a leaf instead….)
Public sex would be such a fun thing to try, hopefully one day. I've been able to explore spit play more though, such a wonderfully submissive trigger, puts me under instantly. I vividly remember us talking about it on another thread, that was amazing :)
 
I love that postimg allows me to save pics, so that I can come to the sight of you later on.
hmmm.

I appreciate the compliment, but I should be clear about boundaries. About my boundaries specifically.

I’m under no illusion many save pictures for their own use…but…

I post my images to be viewed here, not to be saved for personal use elsewhere. I leave them up long enough to be enjoyed, and then they’re removed.

That’s the format I’m comfortable with, and I expect it to be respected.

Thankyouuuu šŸ™ŒšŸ½
 
hmmm.

I appreciate the compliment, but I should be clear about boundaries. About my boundaries specifically.

I’m under no illusion many save pictures for their own use…but…

I post my images to be viewed here, not to be saved for personal use elsewhere. I leave them up long enough to be enjoyed, and then they’re removed.

That’s the format I’m comfortable with, and I expect it to be respected.

Thankyouuuu šŸ™ŒšŸ½
Well said 🧔
 
hmmm.

I appreciate the compliment, but I should be clear about boundaries. About my boundaries specifically.

I’m under no illusion many save pictures for their own use…but…

I post my images to be viewed here, not to be saved for personal use elsewhere. I leave them up long enough to be enjoyed, and then they’re removed.

That’s the format I’m comfortable with, and I expect it to be respected.

Thankyouuuu šŸ™ŒšŸ½
Gotcha. Deleted!
 
QUESTION OF TASTE



Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

No. Adult and enthusiastically willing is about as close to a type as I come as far as sexual partners is concerned. I have a type for long term relationships/partners, which is basically intelligent, independent, and strong willed, but not all sexual relationships turn into the more complex long term relationships.

• Has your ā€œtypeā€ changed with age and experience?

No, nor do I perceive a need to change.

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

Mental wins the vast majority of the time. Every once in a while I’ll take a lover based on her appearance, but that’s rare. Personality wins the vast majority of the time.

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

No, mystery does nothing for me. I vastly prefer openness and good communication skills.

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

Yes and that kink is bondage and control. I continually circle back around to it. The other kink that I continually circle around is a variety of role play scenarios with a focus on power/control.

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

No, not really. I’m pretty open about my enjoyment’s.

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

Being in control. I can and do switch, but being in control is my preferred dynamic. On the why of it, the why is early formative sexual experiences.

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

I’d say 95% real life people, with 5% from the entertainment world. I mostly fantasize about people I know or knew, usually ex lovers.

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

No, not really. I was very experienced before I came to Lit.

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?

I don’t have any. If I’ve fantasized it I’ve tried it. There are two people I crushed on but never had a relationship with (both are happily married). I fantasize about them sometimes, but have no intention of pursuing either one of them.
 
Urgh. This! šŸ˜

SOUP šŸœ

Best enjoyed after a long winters day walk…you get home with wind flushed cheeks and freezing cold, numb fingers. The moment you step inside the house…Boots off, coat shed, cosy clothes on. (For me that means pjs and dressing gown and fluffy slippers). Then the piĆØce de rĆ©sistance…a deep bowl of hot soup, and the quiet, warm pleasure of settling in with a book or a classic film while the cold slowly but surely, finally loosens its grip.
YES EXACTLY THIS
 
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