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[Paul_Chance]

Posted in: What’re You Thinking.

Right now, I’m thinking about the people I started to connect with here. I miss them, even though I know I slipped into my old pattern of pulling back the moment I felt myself letting someone too close, afraid I’d scare them away. I do that, often. Pull away that is.

Yet, time away from here, as usual, has been healing and specifically grounding in ways I didn’t expect…I’ve had more space for myself….more time for me. For jotting down stories and scraps of thoughts, for letting my mind wander without a single ounce of distraction.

And most of all, walking. Yes, walking. It might sound silly but it’s healing and getting back to it has woken something in me again. Around 16 to 18k steps a day… all before 9am, a stone and a half lighter, my routine finally back in a stable rhythm…I feel like my soul is breathing again. Not to mention the excitement in seeing my body change…changing into yet another version of me that I may enjoy even more .

Yet part of me misses the chaos of being here each and every day….staying up until 1 or 2 a.m., chatting, being turned on, intelligent conversations with sexually stimulating people. laughing…. waking up and checking this place first thing to see if those special few had replied. That wasn’t healthy, maybe.

Regardless.

A lot on my mind.

https://postimg.cc/HrzRqHmd

I think finding the balance point in life is always hard. We sway back and forth on the pendulum, sometime steadily, sometimes frantically. For me, it's been a life-long quest, and accepting that brings me a lot of piece. The world is always changing. We are always changing. Try and accept the impermanence of all things and follow the dharma as best you can.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Good that you are rediscovering SpicyBean

We managed to get by

I hope you like the way kept everything all neat and clean for you

We didn’t quite get around to printing out all your DMs organize. We voted and decided that you could just pass on reading and answering all of those !

I do agree it’s really not healthy living and breathing based on relationships here. I was falling way too hard for one friend. I think I’ve come to terms with what was my own fixation

 

[munch2much]

walking. It might sound silly but it’s healing and getting back to it has woken something in me again. Around 16 to 18k steps a day… all before 9am

I love walking, nothing silly about it. And humans evolved around a life mostly outdoors surrounded by nature. So go you!!

It’s great you pop in here, and it’s addictive n all, but if it detracts from a healthy lifestyle, it’s def time to tame it. He said at 1am

Peace and hugs

 

[ScarletDaisy]

Posted in: What’re You Thinking.

Right now, I’m thinking about the people I started to connect with here. I miss them, even though I know I slipped into my old pattern of pulling back the moment I felt myself letting someone too close, afraid I’d scare them away. I do that, often. Pull away that is.

Yet, time away from here, as usual, has been healing and specifically grounding in ways I didn’t expect…I’ve had more space for myself….more time for me. For jotting down stories and scraps of thoughts, for letting my mind wander without a single ounce of distraction.

And most of all, walking. Yes, walking. It might sound silly but it’s healing and getting back to it has woken something in me again. Around 16 to 18k steps a day… all before 9am, a stone and a half lighter, my routine finally back in a stable rhythm…I feel like my soul is breathing again. Not to mention the excitement in seeing my body change…changing into yet another version of me that I may enjoy even more .

Yet part of me misses the chaos of being here each and every day….staying up until 1 or 2 a.m., chatting, being turned on, intelligent conversations with sexually stimulating people. laughing…. waking up and checking this place first thing to see if those special few had replied. That wasn’t healthy, maybe.

Regardless.

A lot on my mind.

https://postimg.cc/HrzRqHmd

It's always so good to see you, pretty lady, but I'm so happy to hear you're taking time for you. That's your best investment!

Miss you!

 

[SpicyBean99]

I think finding the balance point in life is always hard. We sway back and forth on the pendulum, sometime steadily, sometimes frantically. For me, it's been a life-long quest, and accepting that brings me a lot of piece. The world is always changing. We are always changing. Try and accept the impermanence of all things and follow the dharma as best you can.

I love how you word things.

Thankyou for the app rec by the way. I now have it set as a main widget. This evenings quote was:

“Death happens but once, yet we feel it every moment of our lives; it is worse to dread it than to suffer it.”

Jean de la Bruyere.

Or as my dad (a cynic) says: “Life is a terminal disease. Doesn’t matter what you do, eventually you’ll end up in the ground. It just depends when.”

In response to your thread message…For me, I’ve found the harder I try to control everything, the more restless I become. But control is the only way I feel I get things done. When I loosen my grip on that control things do seem more simple, but it’s easy to fall into comfortability.

Thankyou for your response

 

[SpicyBean99]

It's always so good to see you, pretty lady, but I'm so happy to hear you're taking time for you. That's your best investment!

Miss you!

Thankyou Miss Scarlet

You sure know how to make me smile

Miss you all the more.

(I’ll dm you tomorrow)

 

[SpicyBean99]

I love walking, nothing silly about it. And humans evolved around a life mostly outdoors surrounded by nature. So go you!!

It’s great you pop in here, and it’s addictive n all, but if it detracts from a healthy lifestyle, it’s def time to tame it. He said at 1am

Peace and hugs

Walking is one of the best form of exercise and weight loss too… fantastic for mental health.

It is addictive.

And it was more that I was investing time here more than in certain other areas. I know some people who post have the time to be here responding every day every minute that they’re awake but… I don’t. And I was trying to make that happen it’s impossible.

Plus I have a winter body to build… brain = uni …. body = walking.

We shall catch up tomorrow!

Peace & love

 

[desperado1089]

Glad to see you back, Bean. And I'm glad you're finding that balance. I appreciate and value you as a person far, far more than I worry about the "spicy" photos and whatnot. I support you taking time for yourself and I wish you the very best.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Walking is one of the best form of exercise and weight loss too… fantastic for mental health.

It is addictive.

And it was more that I was investing time here more than in certain other areas. I know some people who post have the time to be here responding every day every minute that they’re awake but… I don’t. And I was trying to make that happen it’s impossible.

Plus I have a winter body to build… brain = uni …. body = walking.

We shall catch up tomorrow!

Peace & love

Lit is like wasabi, better in small doses.
I believe there was a concerned father in Macbeth who told his son, "To thine own self be true."
It is good to collect your thoughts and take time for you.
Missing you, but I know it is for a good cause.
Glad I am able to follow you and I'm around for all the you want.

 

[kenbrack]

Posted in: What’re You Thinking.

Right now, I’m thinking about the people I started to connect with here. I miss them, even though I know I slipped into my old pattern of pulling back the moment I felt myself letting someone too close, afraid I’d scare them away. I do that, often. Pull away that is.

Yet, time away from here, as usual, has been healing and specifically grounding in ways I didn’t expect…I’ve had more space for myself….more time for me. For jotting down stories and scraps of thoughts, for letting my mind wander without a single ounce of distraction.

And most of all, walking. Yes, walking. It might sound silly but it’s healing and getting back to it has woken something in me again. Around 16 to 18k steps a day… all before 9am, a stone and a half lighter, my routine finally back in a stable rhythm…I feel like my soul is breathing again. Not to mention the excitement in seeing my body change…changing into yet another version of me that I may enjoy even more .

Yet part of me misses the chaos of being here each and every day….staying up until 1 or 2 a.m., chatting, being turned on, intelligent conversations with sexually stimulating people. laughing…. waking up and checking this place first thing to see if those special few had replied. That wasn’t healthy, maybe.

Regardless.

A lot on my mind.

https://postimg.cc/HrzRqHmd

It’s good to hear from you and see what’s going on with you. You are the most important part of you. Focus on you

 

[Paul_Chance]

I love how you word things.

Thankyou for the app rec by the way. I now have it set as a main widget. This evenings quote was:

“Death happens but once, yet we feel it every moment of our lives; it is worse to dread it than to suffer it.”

Jean de la Bruyere.

Or as my dad (a cynic) says: “Life is a terminal disease. Doesn’t matter what you do, eventually you’ll end up in the ground. It just depends when.”

In response to your thread message…For me, I’ve found the harder I try to control everything, the more restless I become. But control is the only way I feel I get things done. When I loosen my grip on that control things do seem more simple, but it’s easy to fall into comfortability.

Thankyou for your response

I'm glad you enjoy the app.

Discipline and focus matter in this life, it's just a question of finding the proper balance for yourself. Some people thrive under a tight focus with rigid discipline, others in a more relaxed environment. Seek your center.

 

[J88UK]

I feel you SB!

I have similar thoughts, and can imagine a lot of people here do too!

Your body is fantastic and I love that you can walk for miles in a morning!

Have a great day today xx

 

[Jaws82]

i need to get back into fitness mode...summer action plan at work really hit the brakes hard for work/life balance

 

[jonnoback]

Posted in: What’re You Thinking.

Right now, I’m thinking about the people I started to connect with here. I miss them, even though I know I slipped into my old pattern of pulling back the moment I felt myself letting someone too close, afraid I’d scare them away. I do that, often. Pull away that is.

Yet, time away from here, as usual, has been healing and specifically grounding in ways I didn’t expect…I’ve had more space for myself….more time for me. For jotting down stories and scraps of thoughts, for letting my mind wander without a single ounce of distraction.

And most of all, walking. Yes, walking. It might sound silly but it’s healing and getting back to it has woken something in me again. Around 16 to 18k steps a day… all before 9am, a stone and a half lighter, my routine finally back in a stable rhythm…I feel like my soul is breathing again. Not to mention the excitement in seeing my body change…changing into yet another version of me that I may enjoy even more .

Yet part of me misses the chaos of being here each and every day….staying up until 1 or 2 a.m., chatting, being turned on, intelligent conversations with sexually stimulating people. laughing…. waking up and checking this place first thing to see if those special few had replied. That wasn’t healthy, maybe.

Regardless.

A lot on my mind.

https://postimg.cc/HrzRqHmd

Yes walking is very good for you in many ways as you're finding and pretty much all of us - myself included - don't walk enough.
And your priority should be on yourself and that may mean pulling back and that may mean not being here simply because they're only so much of SB to go around and you need to save enough of that for yourself.
Look after yourself.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Posted in: What’re You Thinking.

Right now, I’m thinking about the people I started to connect with here. I miss them, even though I know I slipped into my old pattern of pulling back the moment I felt myself letting someone too close, afraid I’d scare them away. I do that, often. Pull away that is.

Yet, time away from here, as usual, has been healing and specifically grounding in ways I didn’t expect…I’ve had more space for myself….more time for me. For jotting down stories and scraps of thoughts, for letting my mind wander without a single ounce of distraction.

And most of all, walking. Yes, walking. It might sound silly but it’s healing and getting back to it has woken something in me again. Around 16 to 18k steps a day… all before 9am, a stone and a half lighter, my routine finally back in a stable rhythm…I feel like my soul is breathing again. Not to mention the excitement in seeing my body change…changing into yet another version of me that I may enjoy even more .

Yet part of me misses the chaos of being here each and every day….staying up until 1 or 2 a.m., chatting, being turned on, intelligent conversations with sexually stimulating people. laughing…. waking up and checking this place first thing to see if those special few had replied. That wasn’t healthy, maybe.

Regardless.

A lot on my mind.

https://postimg.cc/HrzRqHmd

Good to see you back. Walking is very healing, I lost 7 stone at one point, mainly through walking. Gives you a lot of personal time and helps you think and clear your head. Happy to hear you're feeling good, missed your sense of humour and mischief x

 

[SirSparky]

Posted in: What’re You Thinking.

Right now, I’m thinking about the people I started to connect with here. I miss them, even though I know I slipped into my old pattern of pulling back the moment I felt myself letting someone too close, afraid I’d scare them away. I do that, often. Pull away that is.

Yet, time away from here, as usual, has been healing and specifically grounding in ways I didn’t expect…I’ve had more space for myself….more time for me. For jotting down stories and scraps of thoughts, for letting my mind wander without a single ounce of distraction.

And most of all, walking. Yes, walking. It might sound silly but it’s healing and getting back to it has woken something in me again. Around 16 to 18k steps a day… all before 9am, a stone and a half lighter, my routine finally back in a stable rhythm…I feel like my soul is breathing again. Not to mention the excitement in seeing my body change…changing into yet another version of me that I may enjoy even more .

Yet part of me misses the chaos of being here each and every day….staying up until 1 or 2 a.m., chatting, being turned on, intelligent conversations with sexually stimulating people. laughing…. waking up and checking this place first thing to see if those special few had replied. That wasn’t healthy, maybe.

Regardless.

A lot on my mind.

https://postimg.cc/HrzRqHmd

I know what you mean. It can be very addictive here. Staying up late and waking early, first thing yi do is check for messages etc.

Its good to have time away and re-evaluate things. So happy that you have lost a little weight and that you are more than happy.

 

[munch2much]

I know some people who post have the time to be here responding every day every minute that they’re awake

It’s true. For me originally it was like walking into “the swinging 60’s”. Where I met a whole bunch intelligent, open minded, horny women. Very addictive. But I’m a compulsive replier (it just feels rude not too!). And it got in the way of sleep and “real life” stuff.

So it had to stop. It just wasn’t healthy. I walked away to detox. And I felt so much better for it.

Have you met any Litsters in real life yet? For me as a guy it proved to be amazing.
As with most things in life, it might require some caution for you ladies of course.

 

[SpicyBean99]

Glad to see you back, Bean. And I'm glad you're finding that balance. I appreciate and value you as a person far, far more than I worry about the "spicy" photos and whatnot. I support you taking time for yourself and I wish you the very best.

I’ll be in and out of here I’m sure

Thankyou for saying so… it does mean a lot. I sat there for a minute last week and thought to myself… how much is posting here benefiting me vs how much me posting here benefiting others. And well… the ratio was a little off. But… and here’s the kicker… I love posting on my good days and I love the attention, the banter…it’s a mutually beneficial good time for everyone. On my bad days it can feel like the opposite. (Bearing my soul this early on a Thursday morning feels strange .)

The spicy photos will still cum… for sure you all know how much I enjoy praise…

But thankyou, again. I appreciate you sir!

 

[SpicyBean99]

Lit is like wasabi, better in small doses.
I believe there was a concerned father in Macbeth who told his son, "To thine own self be true."
It is good to collect your thoughts and take time for you.
Missing you, but I know it is for a good cause.
Glad I am able to follow you and I'm around for all the you want.

I love that little quote of yours. It’s entirely correct.

Sending you a virtual Bean hug back. (Ps this means hands wrapped around your neck, and breasts well and truly pressed against your chest.)

 

[ReallyRandyReader]

I was going to say that online should never surpass real life. Then I realised I was stroking to Bean’s pics as I typed that and it seemed a bit hypocritical

I hope you have many great walks Bean, you keep your body and mind balanced and absence makes the heart grow fonder (or something about growing, I dunno I’m back to the pics already)

 

[Lost_Almonds]

Just stumbled across your thread and, wow!! Absolutely stunning

 

[SpicyBean99]

Good to see you back. Walking is very healing, I lost 7 stone at one point, mainly through walking. Gives you a lot of personal time and helps you think and clear your head. Happy to hear you're feeling good, missed your sense of humour and mischief x

Thankyou Chas!

I always tell people the same thing if they ask about weight loss…walking is going to be your best friend. It’s so healing and helps with so much more than just the physical side! I think I’ve mentioned here before that I have PCOS, so my metabolism is all over the place and my hormones are super imbalanced. (Being a woman is fucking fantastic at times ) My weight fluctuates like crazy, which means I have to put in a little extra work compared to some. But it sometimes means bigger boobs for half the year, and well… I’m not complaining We’d all love to have that “dream body,” I think… but it’s not always realistic. I am lucky in that I do genuinely appreciate my body, but sometimes it just takes that bit of extra effort, hahah. And who knows, maybe all that effort makes me a little more fun to unwrap

 

[SpicyBean99]

I was going to say that online should never surpass real life. Then I realised I was stroking to Bean’s pics as I typed that and it seemed a bit hypocritical

I hope you have many great walks Bean, you keep your body and mind balanced and absence makes the heart grow fonder (or something about growing, I dunno I’m back to the pics already)

I love hearing about you stroking to my pictures and videos don’t ever think otherwise

 

[ReallyRandyReader]

I love hearing about you stroking to my pictures and videos don’t ever think otherwise

Don’t forget audio…. Hmmm I really do need to get out for a walk

 

[SpicyBean99]

Talking of naughty….

I posted one of these yesterday… but here it is again for those of you who don’t enjoy scrolling….plus 1 more because I’m feeling generous and I’ve MISSED you.

https://postimg.cc/HrzRqHmd

https://postimg.cc/KkS4nTY8