GallantWriter
Charming Chaos
- Joined
- Oct 29, 2011
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You always write things that make one think. Thoughts that are deeply beautiful and nuanced, yet make complete sense. Just again another reason you're so special!Youāre so fucking right G.W!!! Consent is so vital especially in the kink world! Where⦠sometimes the verbal taking away of consent is the consent itself!
I personally have certain fantasies that absolutely couldnāt be explored with just anyone. Theyād require deep trust, clear boundaries, probably potentially even contracts. And whatās hard is the following:
Iāve opened up to people after building trust with them, thinking thatās when itād feel safest to share⦠and Iāve had them turn around and say, āI love you too much to do that to you,ā or āI donāt think I could treat you like that now.ā
Itās frustrating, because I get it, like totally. itās coming from a place of care but it also makes you feel like thereās no good moment to share. Too early, and itās risky. Too late, and theyāve put you on some kind of pedestal.
Thereās this weird line and between being ready enough to want to hand someone that power, and being too close for them to ever really take it. Weird.
