Will I regret a same sex experience?

[Alex NRN]

I'm a guy who wants a same sex experience. Like many men who frequent this board, I'd love to know what it feels like to have a cock in my mouth.

My best friend who is female, said that it may not be the exciting experience I'm hoping for, and that I may regret it after.

It's inspiring to read postings from guys that say something like: "I sucked my first cock last night and loved it" - and it's great to read about so many positive experiences. Is it the case though, that the negative experiences just don't get written about here?

So, is my friend right? Is there a good chance I may regret 'going through with it?'

 

[BBare1]

Good Question, When I finally did it with a very close friend who happened to be gay and by the way I was in my fortys. It was great but not just in a sexual way but kind of a relief to have finally done it. Woke up the next morning waiting for those feeling of regret or "what the fuck did I do" and I didn't have any just a great feeling that I now know whats thats like, I didnt have to go out and do it again. I was very confortable with it. I very much prefeer woman but if the opportunity comes up again I would do it again.

 

[Samuelx]

Be careful. Also, good luck and enjoy.

 

[Ma Petite]

with the male rectum being so sensitive, you probably will enjoy it. HOpefully it will be the type of enjoyment you are looking for.

 

[JohnnyA]

The way I look at life is that you need to experience as much of it as possible. Think this through, find someone that you would feel comfortable with and/or attracted to and do it.

and even if you regret it you will have the experience. another notch on the belt.

 

[hokieclimber]

Sometimes I regret it when I try new things, but I always regret it when I don't even try.

That being said, I didn't regret it when I was with a guy, I'm just as comfortable with my sexuality now as I was before.

 

[hotel_guy]

i agree with hokie. personally, i think the regret of not doing it would bother me more than trying it and not liking it.

if i didn't like it, i would just chalk it up as a learning experience.

nonetheless, i tried it and i liked it.....and have done it many times since the first. it's just a matter of finding a pretty good match and understanding what everyone is looking to do.

 

[Tranceaddict]

Go for it. I waited til I was 23 to hook up with a guy I knew was bi and that I could have hooked up with since high school. Afterwards, we were both left thinkings, "what if" we had started blowing each other sooner. Who wouldn't want a blowjob everyday of the week...

 

[eunuch]

Want to have first adult bi experience soon...

...there have ben may times I wish I'd gone ahead and had an evening or two with friends I thought were bi. There was that feeling I wouldn't enjoy it the next day, would have a hard time facing him at work.

Now I wish I'd taken him up on it. Just enjoyed it and see what came of it. Now he's moved away and don't have anyone as close or as willing...

 

[Programmer Cat]

So, is my friend right? Is there a good chance I may regret 'going through with it?'

There's a chance you may regret your next heterosexual experience, or even your next meal. Don't live in fear of how you might feel the morning after. If you want to try something, then try it. You only get one life; there's no God to judge you, and no heaven waiting for you if you obey all the silly rules.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[Alex NRN]

Thank you to everyone who has replied.

This forum is friendly, positive and encouraging - and that's great.

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

I don't think so.. I had my first experience a month ago and it was very good.
First of all, kissing the guy was hot(dont know if it happens with everyone but he had the tastiest lips..omg..), and i also took a blowjob.
Well it's not like I was thinking:'omg!Im sucking a cock (O_O) '.
It was nice, and would like to do it again. just remember not to let him cum in your mouth.. That is something that I regret..It tastes like chicken with beans and oranges(and maybe spinach),all melt into a sticky liquid....well anyway..it's not something i'd enjoy tasting..I prefer sour cherry juice..
But overall it was good! I like giving pleasure to others

 

[amsubone]

I'm a guy who wants a same sex experience. Like many men who frequent this board, I'd love to know what it feels like to have a cock in my mouth.

My best friend who is female, said that it may not be the exciting experience I'm hoping for, and that I may regret it after.

It's inspiring to read postings from guys that say something like: "I sucked my first cock last night and loved it" - and it's great to read about so many positive experiences. Is it the case though, that the negative experiences just don't get written about here?

So, is my friend right? Is there a good chance I may regret 'going through with it?'

I think the difficulty lies in our minds~~we tend to make things bigger or worse in our minds prior to the actual event. Let the event be what it is, enjoy it's good parts and don't get hung up in the bad. From my own perspective, I wish I would have relaxed and enjoyed my first times for what they were.

 

[nylondad]

I'm a guy who wants a same sex experience. Like many men who frequent this board, I'd love to know what it feels like to have a cock in my mouth.

My best friend who is female, said that it may not be the exciting experience I'm hoping for, and that I may regret it after.

It's inspiring to read postings from guys that say something like: "I sucked my first cock last night and loved it" - and it's great to read about so many positive experiences. Is it the case though, that the negative experiences just don't get written about here?

So, is my friend right? Is there a good chance I may regret 'going through with it?'

I once skied down a slope that was far to steep and far too advanced for me. I fell numerous times. Did I regret it? No, I just did not try it again. There is such finality to the word "Regret". The worse thing that can happen is that you will not choose to do it again.

 

[amysecret]

If you try it and regret it then don't try it again.

I regret tring habenero salsa but I am glad I had the experience. I won't be getting anywhere near habenro salsa ever again. lol

 

[neonflux]

Ditto

Could not have said it better...

~ Neon

There's a chance you may regret your next heterosexual experience, or even your next meal. Don't live in fear of how you might feel the morning after. If you want to try something, then try it. You only get one life; there's no God to judge you, and no heaven waiting for you if you obey all the silly rules.

 

[Samuelx]

Dude, I think you should totally go for it !!! Just be sure to use condoms and lots of lube !

 

[pcarp]

Ok, here goes from a "straight" perspective. I was involved in a MFM 3some with my g/f and a mutual friend. I was fucking her from behind as she sucked him. She stopped and looked back at me and said "Why don't you come up here and help me with this". I won't get into details of our relationship but she has always pleased me and fulfilled any of my requests and I have never turned her down before. Needless to say, I sucked my first (and only, so far) dick that night. Originally it was with her and then by myself as she watched and masturbated, moaning encouragement. The next morning I was in shock. I had conflicting emotions about it. I wasn't sure how I felt about it. I mean, oh my god, I had sucked a guys dick. I was embarrassed, ashamed, etc. Her phone call the next day helped a lot. She called and asked if I was ok with what we had done. She told me that watching me suck him was the most exciting thing she had ever seen and she thanked me for fulfilling her fantasy. I told her I only did it for her, trying to reassure myself. That night as she fondled my dick, she asked how it felt to have a dick in my mouth. She kept telling me how hot it was to see. I finally realized that it was just sex. As long as it feels good, why not? I already knew that I like to give her pleasure and if this makes her cum, it must be good. So, if the situation ever repeats itself, I will do it again, but I will never seek out a guy myself . It is definitely a MMF situation for me, but I look forward to listening to her tell me to suck another dick for her. She says she wants to see him cum in my mouth. We'll just have to wait and see.....

 

[A_Kefka]

A question. if she wants you too, how far are you willing to go with a guy to make her happy?

 

[Harrowborg]

Not another 'reassure the newbie by posting your first gay encounter' thread.

 

[PredatorSmile]

well, have your fun, guy. dont bother with labels. I dont like labels. You're just a human being exploring. Labels mess with your head. Be happy and safe and also discrete. that's all there is to it.

 

[conntom2002]

sucking dick is awesome


too bad they are connected to men

 

[Auxar]

with the male rectum being so sensitive, you probably will enjoy it. HOpefully it will be the type of enjoyment you are looking for.

Does that insinuate a woman's ass isn't as sensitive? I've fucked a few women in the ass that had their most intense orgasms that way by far. She used a toy on my ass or finger and those were some of my most intense as well.

 

[SN's Desire]

Hi all, first time poster. I recently had a same sex experience after much consideration as to how I orginally felt about it. I thoroughly enjoyed it, but now, after being together a few times, the other person wants to discontinue the sexual part and just be friends again because she wants find someone to be in a "relationship" with as I am not ready for that. (This was also her first experience too.)

I don't blame her for wanting that, but how do I turn off MY feelings for wanting her and just be friends?

So I guess I'm saying that I do regret having a same sex experience because I know that it will never happen again with anyone else.