my wife has a fantasy of having 2 guys at the same time. She has not acted on it yet,....but she may pretty soon. She says she wants to feel another cock sliding in her ass crack as we fuck, (but not enter her behind). Is that a "normal" female fanyasy?
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Mutual enjoyment....
as long as both sides are cool with its great..but keep the communication true and honest..
sometimes fantasies are best left at that..ie in the mind..
take care, enjoy
as long as both sides are cool with its great..but keep the communication true and honest..
sometimes fantasies are best left at that..ie in the mind..
take care, enjoy
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I'm on the band wagon here.
Who cares what normal is. As long as you both enjoy it.
Who cares what normal is. As long as you both enjoy it.
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Re: Re: wife's fantasy
This fantasy and about a few more I'm sure!
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This fantasy and about a few more I'm sure!
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Do tell...I'm all ears, among other body parts. 
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Do tell...I'm all ears, among other body parts.
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Re: Re: wife's fantasy
I think it's perfectly healthy & refreshing that people share a fantasy. Whether anyone acts it out is a different matter. Obviously consequences would have to be considered but realize that there is that fine line between fantasy & acting on one.
I think a healthy imagination is a good thing!
And what lurid imaginations we can have at times!
much2much said:
I think it's perfectly healthy & refreshing that people share a fantasy. Whether anyone acts it out is a different matter. Obviously consequences would have to be considered but realize that there is that fine line between fantasy & acting on one.
I think a healthy imagination is a good thing!
And what lurid imaginations we can have at times!
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I agree. The whole MMF thing never did a whole bunch for me until I came to Lit and found that posting a few pictures could really make you the center of attention. It's a nice feeling for a shy, engineering type girl. 
I definitely got off once on having two Lit men PM-cybering me at the same time, so why not have two in person?!
I definitely got off once on having two Lit men PM-cybering me at the same time, so why not have two in person?!
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ChemE_student said:I agree. The whole MMF thing never did a whole bunch for me until I came to Lit and found that posting a few pictures could really make you the center of attention. It's a nice feeling for a shy, engineering type girl.
Wow...you mean Lit actually turned you into a fantasy?? It's nice to know the power of Literotica here does work!
I think having a place like this where we can openly share & discuss fantasies is very helpful. This too has made me a little more adventurous hearing what some other people are willing to explore. Again, I'm all for a healthy fantasy world at times.
This has always been a huge fantasy of mine...and when I told my boyfriend, he admitted it had always been a fantasy of his, too. That led to MUCH more open communication and even more fantasies...and led to us acting out things in bed that we never dreamed of doing before. Sharing fantasies is GREAT. I highly recommend it.
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Would I or wouldn't I?
That’s the thing about fantasies – you don’t have to live them if you don’t want to, but they can heighten the sexual pleasure experienced by you and your partner when you share them. I for one would enjoy being the centre of attention and actually get quite turned on thinking about a MMF threesomes, even being double penetrated gets me excited although would I do it for real, who knows.
That’s the thing about fantasies – you don’t have to live them if you don’t want to, but they can heighten the sexual pleasure experienced by you and your partner when you share them. I for one would enjoy being the centre of attention and actually get quite turned on thinking about a MMF threesomes, even being double penetrated gets me excited although would I do it for real, who knows.
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We have had a few mfm threesomes but I am not sure who it is a bigger fantasy for...me or my wife. Ours were all good experiences.
I'm lazy tonight, so here's a reply I posted to another thread that covers some of the questions raised here:
Call me a corruptive influence. I've guided several women into their first forays into threesome sex. In all the cases, there was already a curiosity present, one that they easily admitted to but had never acted upon. This made it easy. I've never tried to talk anybody into stepping over that line if they weren't into it, but if they could admit to themselves that the idea intrigued them, then we were already half way there!
If your girlfriend shares your desire to experiment, then you're already over the biggest hump. Both of you are apparently not troubled by the jealousy and insecurity issues that serve as a roadblock for those whose relationships are less solid. The most important point for both of you to agree to is that the addition of a third for the purposes of "funsex" should not threaten the primary relationship that you two share.
That said, here's what has worked for me. Make sure that it's not just hormones talking. If a threesome still sounds like a good idea when you're not in the throws of passion, you've passed the next hurdle. Let your partner pick the prospective third, doing so will show that you you aren't being selfish. Help things along by casually making it known to the third that you are cool with it, then back off. I encourage my partner to get together with the third without me being present. Showing to both of them that you really ARE cool with it will do more to make the threesome happen than anything else you can do.
After her return from the "test drive", defuse any potential awkwardness by immediately letting her know how hot the whole situation is, and how great it is that she is so open with you about it all. Follow it up by taking her straight to bed, and show her that sloppy seconds don't trip you out. Next hurdle cleared. Never interogate her about what went on, let her volunteer the details, and be her cheerleader. When both of you can talk about the adventure without the taint of negativity cropping up, you're ready for the next step. If she can go for another "test drive", fresh from sex with you, and the third party doesn't treat her like a lepper, you are cleared for takeoff!
The ladies that I've taken through this process usually chose an ex or a close friend. Don't trip, she's with you by choice, and that's what counts. Show her that you can celebrate her good fortune, and it will end up being your good fortune too!
Call me a corruptive influence. I've guided several women into their first forays into threesome sex. In all the cases, there was already a curiosity present, one that they easily admitted to but had never acted upon. This made it easy. I've never tried to talk anybody into stepping over that line if they weren't into it, but if they could admit to themselves that the idea intrigued them, then we were already half way there!
If your girlfriend shares your desire to experiment, then you're already over the biggest hump. Both of you are apparently not troubled by the jealousy and insecurity issues that serve as a roadblock for those whose relationships are less solid. The most important point for both of you to agree to is that the addition of a third for the purposes of "funsex" should not threaten the primary relationship that you two share.
That said, here's what has worked for me. Make sure that it's not just hormones talking. If a threesome still sounds like a good idea when you're not in the throws of passion, you've passed the next hurdle. Let your partner pick the prospective third, doing so will show that you you aren't being selfish. Help things along by casually making it known to the third that you are cool with it, then back off. I encourage my partner to get together with the third without me being present. Showing to both of them that you really ARE cool with it will do more to make the threesome happen than anything else you can do.
After her return from the "test drive", defuse any potential awkwardness by immediately letting her know how hot the whole situation is, and how great it is that she is so open with you about it all. Follow it up by taking her straight to bed, and show her that sloppy seconds don't trip you out. Next hurdle cleared. Never interogate her about what went on, let her volunteer the details, and be her cheerleader. When both of you can talk about the adventure without the taint of negativity cropping up, you're ready for the next step. If she can go for another "test drive", fresh from sex with you, and the third party doesn't treat her like a lepper, you are cleared for takeoff!
The ladies that I've taken through this process usually chose an ex or a close friend. Don't trip, she's with you by choice, and that's what counts. Show her that you can celebrate her good fortune, and it will end up being your good fortune too!
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Nefarious said:
Okay, so you're corruptive!
I didn't see anything wrong with it!
