Wife Sharing - God, I Miss It

[ExpRider]

I'm blessed and cursed.
Sharing may partner is a life-long kink. Finally, in mid-life, I found a partner who shared this incredibly intense turn-on. We did a lot of hotwifing. She took 8 - 10 playmates while we were in the lifestyle. We parted ways for unrelated reasons and I have no desire to re-connect with her. But God, I miss the intensity of sharing her - the thrill of finding new playmates, watching her take other men, hearing her sounds of pleasure with them. I still get aroused by it and would love to talk about it with anyone who has shared the experience, and wants to learn more. My Kik is ExpRiderUS

 

[bobbyinhouston]

I'm blessed and cursed.
Sharing may partner is a life-long kink. Finally, in mid-life, I found a partner who shared this incredibly intense turn-on. We did a lot of hotwifing. She took 8 - 10 playmates while we were in the lifestyle. We parted ways for unrelated reasons and I have no desire to re-connect with her. But God, I miss the intensity of sharing her - the thrill of finding new playmates, watching her take other men, hearing her sounds of pleasure with them. I still get aroused by it and would love to talk about it with anyone who has shared the experience, and wants to learn more. My Kid is ExpRiderUS

I also feel blessed and cursed. My wife and I were in the swinging lifestyle for over eleven years. We had many adventurers and grew as a couple. I was fortunate enough to share her with other men and couples. During our playing she developed a taste for black man which made both of us happy

 

[Tayloroc]

I also feel blessed and cursed. My wife and I were in the swinging lifestyle for over eleven years. We had many adventurers and grew as a couple. I was fortunate enough to share her with other men and couples. During our playing she developed a taste for black man which made both of us happy

Lucky boys!!

 

[ryeandginger69]

I'm blessed and cursed.
Sharing may partner is a life-long kink. Finally, in mid-life, I found a partner who shared this incredibly intense turn-on. We did a lot of hotwifing. She took 8 - 10 playmates while we were in the lifestyle. We parted ways for unrelated reasons and I have no desire to re-connect with her. But God, I miss the intensity of sharing her - the thrill of finding new playmates, watching her take other men, hearing her sounds of pleasure with them. I still get aroused by it and would love to talk about it with anyone who has shared the experience, and wants to learn more. My Kik is ExpRiderUS

Somewhat similar situation here. I enjoy reminiscing, sharing stories and photos with others who have this interest.

 

[magicalmoments]

I'm in this group as well. My first wife and I had 18 years of wife sharing and I have tons of happy memories from this time. I can't say I miss it though. I've been in my current relationship for 24 years and monogamous through all that time. Although we have talked about the idea of sharing we've never acted on it and I can't say that I'm sorry. Very content with where I am.

 

[Filipinawife]

My husband shares me occasionally

 

[haventdonethat]

I too feel blessed and cursed.

Blessed for the times friend(s) and I pleasured my first wife, seven years worth. And also the few times with second wife.
Cursed because it was years ago and memories is all that remain.
At this stage in life I reminisce about those times, sometimes too often. The intensity, the feel of all that skin, the expressions, the youthfulness of our bodies and of course the quick recovery that accompanied youth.

 

[ryeandginger69]

I too feel blessed and cursed.

Blessed for the times friend(s) and I pleasured my first wife, seven years worth. And also the few times with second wife.
Cursed because it was years ago and memories is all that remain.
At this stage in life I reminisce about those times, sometimes too often. The intensity, the feel of all that skin, the expressions, the youthfulness of our bodies and of course the quick recovery that accompanied youth.

But surely those memories are a blessing, not a curse. Imagine living a life where you had no opportunities to live those experiences and acquired none of those memories.

 

[haventdonethat]

But surely those memories are a blessing, not a curse. Imagine living a life where you had no opportunities to live those experiences and acquired none of those memories.

Yes, of course the memories are a blessing.
The cursed part is they are no longer happening .

 

[shenandoah11]

Any husband sharing his sexy wife in south east Tennessee? .. would love to please her.... Very sexual and open minded mature man here.

 

[peterlickspussy]

The more you want share the better!

 

[call_me_sarge]

Early in our marriage, we shared quite z as lot. There was something about meeting strangers, and sharing her. As we got older, we have found a few people that we meet and share with, maybe not a regular basis, but when we do, they are amazing times

 

[Islander55]

Early in our marriage, we shared quite z as lot. There was something about meeting strangers, and sharing her. As we got older, we have found a few people that we meet and share with, maybe not a regular basis, but when we do, they are amazing times

Was it more like swinging or just you letting other men share her?

 

[call_me_sarge]

Was it more like swinging or just you letting other men share her?

We did some swinging, but there was quite a bit of other men sharing her

 

[uncle easy]

Been there and done that. We had some great times and met some really nice people. I have nothing but fond memories.

 

[ryeandginger69]

Been there and done that. We had some great times and met some really nice people. I have nothing but fond memories.

Same here.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Was it more like swinging or just you letting other men share her?

100% women understand that men will take new pussies, but it's a bitter pill to swallow. It seems easier for women to accept their partners watching them getting fucked than watching those same partners letting go inside another woman.

 

[Islander55]

100% women understand that men will take new pussies, but it's a bitter pill to swallow. It seems easier for women to accept their partners watching them getting fucked than watching those same partners letting go inside another woman.

I agree that most men will sample a new women given the chance. I also think many women would enjoy sampling a new man and a lot of people do not realize this. I do not have any numbers but I have talked with and observed women for a long time. When I worked at a high school, I was amazed at how many women had affairs. Some I knew for sure and others I was reasonably sure. Now I can understand most women not wanting their husband to knock up another woman but I am not sure how many women would object to their husband having sex with another woman if it was safe sex.

 

[ryeandginger69]

100% women understand that men will take new pussies, but it's a bitter pill to swallow. It seems easier for women to accept their partners watching them getting fucked than watching those same partners letting go inside another woman.

Certainly true n the case of me and my wife. Hotwife.

 

[magicalmoments]

I agree that most men will sample a new women given the chance. I also think many women would enjoy sampling a new man and a lot of people do not realize this. I do not have any numbers but I have talked with and observed women for a long time. When I worked at a high school, I was amazed at how many women had affairs. Some I knew for sure and others I was reasonably sure. Now I can understand most women not wanting their husband to knock up another woman but I am not sure how many women would object to their husband having sex with another woman if it was safe sex.

Islander55, Your insights and observations intrigue me, especially as they largely mirror my own.
Like you I've got no official stats to back up my views formed over about 40 years of involvement in the "sexually liberated" lifestyle.
I've always enjoyed chatting to the many women I've met through my adventures, about their transition from a normal, monogamous, dutiful wife into, for want of a better word, a "swinger". All of them expressed they'd always had the fantasy of another guy but kept it secret. They also expressed the wish that once they made the decision to have another guy they wondered why they waited so long and wish they'd made the transition earlier. Most of the women in my sample were married and in hotwife type situations with their husbands but many were meeting guys for affairs without their husbands knowledge. Most seemed happy for their husbands to explore as well, like you say their main concern was about health and hygiene.
I've also found that the biggest barrier to a woman making the transition from dutiful wife to hotwife is "Will he lose respect for me if I do this?" It seems women who maintain the straight and narrow lifestyle do so because of insecurities about what their husbands will think of them if they do it. Women who have faith in their husbands love for them have less problem making the transition.

 

[Islander55]

Islander55, Your insights and observations intrigue me, especially as they largely mirror my own.
Like you I've got no official stats to back up my views formed over about 40 years of involvement in the "sexually liberated" lifestyle.
I've always enjoyed chatting to the many women I've met through my adventures, about their transition from a normal, monogamous, dutiful wife into, for want of a better word, a "swinger". All of them expressed they'd always had the fantasy of another guy but kept it secret. They also expressed the wish that once they made the decision to have another guy they wondered why they waited so long and wish they'd made the transition earlier. Most of the women in my sample were married and in hotwife type situations with their husbands but many were meeting guys for affairs without their husbands knowledge. Most seemed happy for their husbands to explore as well, like you say their main concern was about health and hygiene.
I've also found that the biggest barrier to a woman making the transition from dutiful wife to hotwife is "Will he lose respect for me if I do this?" It seems women who maintain the straight and narrow lifestyle do so because of insecurities about what their husbands will think of them if they do it. Women who have faith in their husbands love for them have less problem making the transition.

You make a lot of good points and I think we are pretty much in agreement. The societal taboos for women having other lovers is still much stronger for women than men so it is a bigger jump for women. I really did not get into the lifestyle until we retired but I never considered myself monogamous either. Early in life there are many things demanding your attention such as work and family and it was easy for me to let those things dominate my life and settle for simple marital sex. Now there is nothing wrong with marital sex and my sex life was reasonably good. Over time you tend to get into a sexual rut and it was just as much my fault as his. That is where some variety with a new lover can really spice things up. In my case I did cheat a couple of times in my 40's. Nothing that I sought out but they happened and I did not regret them. So when we retired and had some serious discussions on sex, I had no problem agreeing to a swinging or hotwife lifestyle. I am in my 60's and I think that this is a good age to pursue this lifestyle. You have time and pregnancy is not an issue.

 

[bjlatx]

I’ll be sharing my wife in just a couple of hours and we have a play date scheduled with another bull later this week!

 

[haventdonethat]

once they made the decision to have another guy they wondered why they waited so long and wish they'd made the transition earlier.

Exactly this ^^^!
I have quoted my wife on a few threads about her words after the first time . . .
"I don't know why I waited so long".

 

[GECuck]

I'm blessed and cursed.
Sharing may partner is a life-long kink. Finally, in mid-life, I found a partner who shared this incredibly intense turn-on. We did a lot of hotwifing. She took 8 - 10 playmates while we were in the lifestyle. We parted ways for unrelated reasons and I have no desire to re-connect with her. But God, I miss the intensity of sharing her - the thrill of finding new playmates, watching her take other men, hearing her sounds of pleasure with them. I still get aroused by it and would love to talk about it with anyone who has shared the experience, and wants to learn more. My Kik is ExpRiderUS

I couldn’t find you on kik

 

[lookinaround88]

We did some soft swinging in London in our late 20s-early 30s. Only about 4-5 times. It was extremely exciting. My experience was a bit different from many of those described here. My wife wasn’t really interested in other men, and didn’t become interested in other men, either. And I wasn’t so interested in other women, though the novelty was fun, of course. For me, the whole thing was about the two of us doing something exciting and daring together. Seeing how excited other guys would get about her was a huge turn on, seeing her transition from being really shy and nervous while being pushed to her knees or while having her top be taken off to being used like a slut was amazingly hot. She never minded watching other women suck my cock, either. She knew how much I was in love with her, and vice versa, so neither of us felt threatened. There was no cuck/bull element, something we both find ti be a huge turn off.
Swinging was about us.
We then had kids and moved far out to the country, so all of our opportunities pretty much dried up. I really miss us going on those kinds of adventures together, though!