Wife is having affair
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hardcollege4
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Don't you think she'll leave you eventually?
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That's, what I would think also! And then what?
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InaNYMinute
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OP,
Three years??? Why don't you just admit it and come out as a cuck already so your wife won't have to sneak around. Hell you might even get off more being there and watching your wife get nailed by the other guy
Three years??? Why don't you just admit it and come out as a cuck already so your wife won't have to sneak around. Hell you might even get off more being there and watching your wife get nailed by the other guy
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I encourage my wife to go out and have her fun with other guys but she is satisfied with going to house parties and small get togethers with me. I love to watch her and also have my own fun.
I encourage my wife to go out and have her fun with other guys but she is satisfied with going to house parties and small get togethers with me. I love to watch her and also have my own fun.
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Guess the wife just isn't getting sanctification at home... I wonder at what point does the OP draw the line at trust, I mean she's giving the most sacred thing away behind his back?
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If she ever says she's pregnant, get a paternity test, lest you pay to raise some other guy's spawn.
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Wife cannot get pregnant. As far as being a cuckhold , probably and probably not. Our sex is terrific and we enjoy having our friends in the lifestyle.
Wife cannot get pregnant. As far as being a cuckhold , probably and probably not. Our sex is terrific and we enjoy having our friends in the lifestyle.
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Why not tell her? Be honest and talk through your thoughts and desires. It occurs to me that this situation could - just possibly - work out perfectly for everyone involved.
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well that's a new twist....I'd guess, she in't cheating in her mind
You are in a win win, leave it alone!
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Great advice. He likes it so much that he wanted to post and share his feeling with us. There is nothing to do but continue to post about it so we can all get our rocks off. Please add some pictures of her.
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My wife is having an affair with a black guy she works with. I'm not sure what to do about it. She's 45 and having her mid life crisis. My main concerns are that I know he's a player and she isn't his only so STD's worry me and she is still having periods so I know she can get pregnant. I know this guy has gotten another teacher pregnant already. Glad to chat if anyone wants to
My wife is having an affair with a black guy she works with. I'm not sure what to do about it. She's 45 and having her mid life crisis. My main concerns are that I know he's a player and she isn't his only so STD's worry me and she is still having periods so I know she can get pregnant. I know this guy has gotten another teacher pregnant already. Glad to chat if anyone wants to
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Why would anyone in the right mind want to save a marriage with someone who is getting hammered by somebody else?
It's so insulting and degrading, man the fuck up and do what needs to be done. Don't even give her the satisfaction of divorce, just get your stuff and go, go and start life over and enjoy it while it lasts. We only get one shot at it so why spend it being abused and embarrassed. Fuck her off and embrace life.
It's so insulting and degrading, man the fuck up and do what needs to be done. Don't even give her the satisfaction of divorce, just get your stuff and go, go and start life over and enjoy it while it lasts. We only get one shot at it so why spend it being abused and embarrassed. Fuck her off and embrace life.
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What advice would you give someone else to do if they were in that situation....
Then follow your own advice and do that
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Situations like this bother me quite a bit. It's one thing for a couple to discuss and agree to it, but it's entirely another for one to sneak around. That, to me, is selfish because someone like that is typically jealous and would definitely have a problem with it if the roles were reversed. My wife thought I didn't know she was fucking my best friend years ago and apparently wanted to bring this hot blonde into our bedroom, again she thought I had no idea, but had second thoughts about it the moment the chick made her move and told her to go home. The girl was drunk and came onto me several times when the wife went to the restroom at the bar and basically spilled the beans. I played ignorant to see if she would actually go through with it, knowing how jealous she was and still is. A week later she went off on the chick when she caught her peeping on me in the bathroom. I knew she was there and gave her a good show, as I stroked my cock.
Of course, she still played around with the hot blond and continued to fuck my friend for a while longer. About a month later, after the friendship with the hot blonde dissolved, my friend cooked up a scheme to break my wife and I up (at first I thought he felt guilty or something) and set up a threesome with this hot brunette he met at a bar. The setup was perfect, front door left cracked open and everything. My wife walked in after we had finished and I was sitting on the bed with the brunette, both still naked and my friend sitting in a chair by the door in his boxers. My wife flipped the fuck out, I just laughed and said "what?!". Then she started hitting my friend and saying "I thought you were my friend!', until the brunette threatened to kick her ass.
She flipped out some more and long story short, we ended up continuing the argument at home. She denied that she had been fucking my friend all along but finally confessed to it last year, I was right all along, but I didn't need her confession (the idiot told me in a drunken stupor). I banged a few more girls before that event and I realized it just made me feel worse, that's not who I am, and the heavy drinking was seriously impacting my life. I still think about it and it wasn't her only affair. There's been one other that I know about, but I suspect there have been more. However, I can't just accuse her without evidence and she is being more transparent to gain my trust again. These affairs happened many years ago though, during our first few years of marriage.
For those of you who have made the lifestyle work for you, I think it's great. I don't think I could ever bring myself to do it though.
Of course, she still played around with the hot blond and continued to fuck my friend for a while longer. About a month later, after the friendship with the hot blonde dissolved, my friend cooked up a scheme to break my wife and I up (at first I thought he felt guilty or something) and set up a threesome with this hot brunette he met at a bar. The setup was perfect, front door left cracked open and everything. My wife walked in after we had finished and I was sitting on the bed with the brunette, both still naked and my friend sitting in a chair by the door in his boxers. My wife flipped the fuck out, I just laughed and said "what?!". Then she started hitting my friend and saying "I thought you were my friend!', until the brunette threatened to kick her ass.
She flipped out some more and long story short, we ended up continuing the argument at home. She denied that she had been fucking my friend all along but finally confessed to it last year, I was right all along, but I didn't need her confession (the idiot told me in a drunken stupor). I banged a few more girls before that event and I realized it just made me feel worse, that's not who I am, and the heavy drinking was seriously impacting my life. I still think about it and it wasn't her only affair. There's been one other that I know about, but I suspect there have been more. However, I can't just accuse her without evidence and she is being more transparent to gain my trust again. These affairs happened many years ago though, during our first few years of marriage.
For those of you who have made the lifestyle work for you, I think it's great. I don't think I could ever bring myself to do it though.
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Of what importance is it that he is a "black" guy? I don't like to give advice to racists, but also don't want to jump to conclusions.
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I would like to field this one....The guy happens to be black so he called him the black guy.
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OP, if you like the fact that she is fucking another man then what is the real issue? If it is tearing you apart (which I doubt or you'd not be jerking off thinking about it) then do something about it. Either way I doubt that any real worthwhile advice is gonna be found on the internet. Decide what you want from marriage in general and yours in particular and then focus on achieving that.
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I like your thinking guy. There is probably a lot of complex issues involved and a lot of very alien territory for hubby to get over but in the end-----
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Wife fucking the black guy
Really! A black guy is fucking your wife?! I mean how common is that in the arena of cuckolds and wife sharers?
You come to the internet for advice!!!!
I think you really want someone to feed your fantasy. Sort of like small penis issues except in this instance it's your whole head!
Really! A black guy is fucking your wife?! I mean how common is that in the arena of cuckolds and wife sharers?
You come to the internet for advice!!!!
I think you really want someone to feed your fantasy. Sort of like small penis issues except in this instance it's your whole head!
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