Wife hinting at open relationship.

Ttggmmm

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Not really looking for relationship advice, more just wanting to write down what’s happening and hear other peoples experiences.

Wife and I have been together for 9 1/2 years, we have a pretty good sex life, but I have a much higher sex drive than her.

She’s very open to fantasy in bed, we often have mutual masturbation while we talk about bringing other people into our bed, playing in a hot tub, steam room, cinema, wherever we think it might happen, this often includes another couple, where we play i front of each other, or the guy with my wife and me with his, or bisexual fun,
I opened up to her a few years back that I’m bi, and I’ve told her of done if my past experiences.
We build this into our fantasies and I often Cum while she’s telling me that I’m sucking the guys cock, covered in her juices…….
She will also often cum when I tell her about the woman we’ve been playing with going down in her, or vice versa.

Recently, I’ve been working away from home, we have had some online fun, but she sent me a link to a radio show talking about open relationships and said it gave her an epiphany,
Upon pushing it further, she said she didn’t want an open marriage, but it would remove all the deceit from the relationship, as we’ve both been divorced because of cheating partners, I agree with her.
Continuing the subject, we fell into one of our fantasies, playing snd both getting very turned on and cumming very hard.

I would love to explore this further, the thought of watching her with another guy, or even sending her out in a date with a guy really turns me on, hearing about it later, and “reclaiming her” is a huge thing for me.

Anyone else in this situation?
 
My wife and I do that often…I’ll tell her a fantasy of a other guy fucking her while she’s playing with her toy and then she has me “reclaim” her. She tells me often how hot the fantasy is but we’ve never done it for real.
Do you think you ever would make it real?
 
.....We build this into our fantasies and I often Cum while she’s telling me that I’m sucking the guys cock,….... the thought of watching her with another guy, or even sending her out in a date with a guy really turns me on, hearing about it later, and “reclaiming her” is a huge thing for me.
Good post
The art of the life style to be embraced.
We have much to explore together online.
 
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Ttgggmmm,
I appreciate your share on this. Of the last year I also feel that this is such a hot fantasy. My wife would never go in this direction. I will just have to think about your original post and dream. Best of luck. PM me if you would ever like to chat about such things.
 
My wife and I are starting an open relationship. Mainly her idea but I have embraced it. I am meeting a woman tomorrow and she has 2 potential "dates" set up. Since this is all new we will see how this all plays out. She was raised Catholic and has guilt issues that she is struggling to get past. I'm not burdened with that issue but I have expressed angst about us as a couple drifting apart. She reassures me that that is not going to happen.
The problem for me is that almost any physical relationship will develop into an emotinoal one and then at best I'm caring for two people, but at worst I'm preferring one over the other.
 
The problem for me is that almost any physical relationship will develop into an emotinoal one and then at best I'm caring for two people, but at worst I'm preferring one over the other.
Then it probably isn't a situation for you to explore.
 
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