wife and best friend

[trouble4131]

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[Cigan]

Are we talking about blowing each other post marriage, or before you and your wife were really serious. That makes a big difference. If this is pre involvement with your wife then I would say let her in on the state of things and see what she thinks, just be very careful about how you let her know. If you have been sexually involved with your friend since you have been in a dedicated relationship with your wife, then I wouldn't persue it. Too much potential for emotional harm, and above all ifyou have been involved with your friend since being committed to your wife. For the love of god don't do it any more without her permission. That's just begging for trouble.

 

[thickspear]

In the story section this stuff happens all the time and works out great. In the real life section, this has a lot more potential for serious damage than for orgasms.

If you're all ok with a threesome it's possible for you to show her your new hobby without terrible repurcussions. Let us know what happens.

 

[sdedalus]

You should subtly start testing the barriers... don't rush it, you can probably make it happen, if that's what you want. But you are seriously talking about at least 6 months of work or more.