why

[Willing and Unsure]

do you believe in fate/destiny (if you do)?

 

[Pyper]

People believe all kinds of crazy things.

 

[scylis]

b/c, in their minds, it relieves some of the pressure to make the right decision...

 

[Pyper]

Excellent answer, scylis!

 

[MysteryJKR]

*hugs again* you know with every thread you make your getting hugs from me right.

I think we control what happens to us. or our destinies.

Depending on what we do when we are confronted with a situation or when certain people come into our lives. we could ignore things, or not take things farther and we might regret it someday. anything that we do can change the outcome of our lives or the way we think of ourselves and our life in general.

Willing your a real sweetie. I can tell your doing a lot of thinking right now. You know where I be if ya need a shoulder hun.

 

[Chuckus]

do you believe in fate/destiny (if you do)?

Well actually I do believe in fate/destiny although in a different way. We choose our own fate/destiny by the choices we make in our own lives. There are many paths which lead to different outcomes, yet when we make a choice our fate/destiny is altered by that decision. Damn this probably sounds off the wall doesn't it?

 

[Guest]

Willing hon.....
need to talk? Or someone to listen?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

thanx jaded... but i'm doing ok... i just have lots of questions right now and no one to ask... so i ask in the place i think i'll get lots of responses to them and different ones at that.. i know most of the questions i've been asking are somewhat opinionated questions, but the answers i've been getting are very helpful.

 

[Guest]

well
if Ya ever need to talk... I am but a PM away

 

[Bluenose]

Well said Chuckus and i Have to agrre with what you said.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

thanx Jaded... i'll remember that

*hugs you* you're such a sweetheart

 

[Chuckus]

Well said Chuckus and i Have to agrre with what you said.

Thanks. I didn't know if that made any sense to anyone other than me.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

bump this up for some more responses

 

[Low-light]

I think there is a need to feel a part of something bigger than yourself. I also think that it gives a sense of relief to the angst people might feel. If things will work out how they are "supposed" to, it's very reassuring when things go bad.

I'm not sure if I believe on fate, or if I do, exactly what it is. Seems like there is sometimes, but it works in really fucked up ways.

 

[beckbabe]

The whole fate concept sticks in my craw. (has anyone seen my craw?...oh never mind) It seems to be a convenient way for people to say, "It was meant to be", no matter what happens. The theory seems to go; it just happened, so it must've been meant to be. I have major issues with this mindset.