why would he say this?

[sinnamongyrl]

ok,,,so a few days ago,,, abunch of us at work were just fucking off and talking.One of the men(USED to be one of my office mangers,,but works at a diff location now) kept looking at me.SO i am like"NICK,,is there something wrong?",,he says nooo,,,,no,,,nothing its ok.well after a few minutes,,,almost everyone cleared the room to go back to work.I am still standing there because i was printing a report.Then he goes"ya know,,, i will just bet you are a freak in the bedroom""men can tell ya know..and ill just bet you are smokin'.....you must fuck your husband sideways///".....ok,,now,,,WHY did he say this?was that just an awful try at a pickup line,,or do you think he can tell?.......GUYS,,can you tell if a woman is a freak or not?

 

[rcfstl]

bad pick up line,he wants you to be a freak in bed and he is making an inept move to get you to admit it so he can try and find out himself

 

[sinnamongyrl]

that is what i thought....i just cannot see why he would say that.I dont act freaky at work.I am actually kinda quiet.I do have the best customer service record out of 7 locations(I guess they think i am nice....boy do they have the wrong girl)

 

[Minnesota_Guy]

He sounds like a real loser and a jerk to me. I think he may be one of those guys that has already made up his mind about you and, no matter what you say, will use it to reinforce his thoughts. In other words, a closed minded, self centered, simpleton, whose best friend is the closest mirror.

 

[sinnamongyrl]

and i always thought he was sooo nice,maybe he is just horny,,,i dunno.he said its alwasy those sweet soft quite types that turn out to be freaky........what a tool!!!

 

[kevin2657]

fist question??

Is his assumption right?

 

[sinnamongyrl]

well hell yes but i just wanna know WHY he thought that way about me...

 

[kevin2657]

maybe

Maybe you give off unintentional hints, something that is natural wont seem freaky to you but to others it's more obvious. Lets face it your obviously much more verbal comfortable sexually then your average office girl.

 

[sinnamongyrl]

yeah,,see now THAT is what i thought.DAMN you are good.MAYBE he is right and can see right through me......now that i remeber,,he alwasy gave me the plushest schedule...alway bought my teas,stuff like that,YIKES,,,,do you think he can really tell?

 

[rcfstl]

He needs to get his act together and maybe if he would have been a little cooler he would have found out. Low key stealth mode gets them every time

 

[kevin2657]

It's not rocket science

It's human nature, why do you always look at good looking people, man or women.. it's human nature.. I don't think it takes much for the animal instincts in any of use to pick up on suttle differences

 

[kevin2657]

low key nothing

low key stealth mode keeps you jerking off every night

 

[sinnamongyrl]

He needs to get his act together and maybe if he would have been a little cooler he would have found out. Low key stealth mode gets them every time

if he wasnt married,,and i wasnt married,,I sure as hell would have come on to him..(well last year when we worked togther,,not now)

 

[Minnesota_Guy]

and i always thought he was sooo nice,maybe he is just horny,,,i dunno.he said its alwasy those sweet soft quite types that turn out to be freaky........what a tool!!!

I'm sure he's horny but thats irrelevant. I mean, who's not horny?
The "nice guy" routine is just a facade. It has to be if he'd say what he said to you. He's most likely just interested in his own satisfaction and doesn't care much about giving pleasure to the woman he's with.

If you feel safe with your husband/SO and want to screw like a banshee with him, thats fantastic. But for a guy you don't know intimately, to come up to you and say "I'll bet your a freak in bed" is just looking to fulfill his own desires.

Makes things tough for us genuine nice guys...

 

[comtec2005]

Sounds more like wishful thinking on his part, that and not a very smooth approach... lol

 

[sinnamongyrl]

you are right.,,thanks,,never thought about this.I love you guys,,,!!!!

 

[Eilan]

If this happened to me at work, then I'd call it sexual harassment. Other people's experiences/opinions may vary.

 

[kevin2657]

harrasment

It's with out a doubt sexual harrasement, but the question is was she Offended

 

[rcfstl]

well it has been reasonably successful so far for me, but you never now about that every night thing

 

[sinnamongyrl]

not offended,,and not threatned,i thought it was a little classless,,BUT this is a HUGE freakin' company(FORTUNE 500) and he would lose his job .etc like "that".....if i told on him.i just dont see how that would help.He has never done anything like that before and i doubt he would again....

 

[comtec2005]

It's with out a doubt sexual harrasement, but the question is was she Offended

Ah, but if she wasn't offended, is it harrasment???

 

[kevin2657]

Ok

Stay with what works for you bud, but I guess you don't know what your missing when your a hunter

 

[rcfstl]

guys are pigs

 

[kevin2657]

I don't think so

Ah, but if she wasn't offended, is it harrasment???

If she's not offended I don't think it's harrasment to her if she doesn't mind, but to another female around her could still turn her in... It happens

 

[rcfstl]

seen that before, object of harassment does not complain someone else does and the harasser is on the street. Caution at the office is a virtue. Someone told me once. Never get your meat where you make your bread,I keep that in mind