why women are called sluts

[sweetnpetite]

I think i've figured out why women are called sluts.

It must be because women are so much better at sex than men.

Not wanting to admit that women were better, the men of yor decided that they would make it bad for women to excell at such a thing.

I mean really- you know those porn movies where the woman fucks 52 men in one setting? Even if someone wanted to see a guy do that (I think it might be cool...) you could never find one who could!

Women can do more, can do it longer, know the subtle nuances better, use more variety (ie, they don't figure out what works and keep doing the same thing forever ). Womens' magazines give 'new sex tricks to use in bed' Mens' magazines stop with telling how to get her into the sack. Oh sure, there's the odd article here and there that goes beyond that. But not like one in every issue, advertised on the cover!

Women do it better

 

[woodnymph_O]

im laughing my ass off

but AMEN sister
I wish men could handle half of what a woman can .Hell I wish men could handle half of what a woman wants. In a recent conversation with my best friend she commented " i don't know why a woman would want to be a lesbian". I myself am straight, but none the less answered her.
"well for one it's probably nice to have someone to understand your sex drive, and have a chance in hell of matching it .
lol
just my opinion , but i know where you're comming from
nymphy

 

[Guest]

Erm... But it takes two (or more ) and a good slut can't be a good slut without a good man to bring that good sluttiness out of her.

 

[Guest]

a good slut can't be a good slut without a good man to bring that good sluttiness out of her.

Raises hand to offer assistance ...

 

[sweetnpetite]

Erm... But it takes two (or more ) and a good slut can't be a good slut without a good man to bring that good sluttiness out of her.

I think Destiny (and a few others) might disagree with you here!

 

[Evil Alpaca]

I think Destiny (and a few others) might disagree with you here!

A good catalyst then?

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Oh good!

Another "Men Are Jerks" thread!

---dr.M.

 

[shereads]

It's a bad thing?

There isn't a prize?!? Lying bastard.

 

[Guest]

I think Destiny (and a few others) might disagree with you here!

Well, yeah, I did think of that. Was just speaking from personal experience. No! What am I saying? Not very lady-like of me, was it?

Lou

P.S. Ted: I would take you up on that, but, um, well, yannow. Damn ocean.

 

[Guest]

Oh good!

Another "Men Are Jerks" thread!

---dr.M.

Hence my post.

I love men.

I'm also a creep.

Lou

 

[Guest]

A good catalyst then?

Exactly!

 

[domjoe]

"We then betook ourselves to the Mitre, where Johnson entertained a certain slut with his wit"


Boswell

 

[sweetnpetite]

Oh good!

Another "Men Are Jerks" thread!

---dr.M.

Er, no.

(some) Men of 'yore were jerks...

Men still stuck two centuries or more in the past are also jerks

Real men are great. Then again, maybe I'm just saying that to get you in bed

 

[sweetnpetite]

I read somewhere that only straight men think watching lesbians (or two women) are hot.

In the same way, I think it's mainly straight men who complain about men. Look at it this way- if we didn't like you so much (or *want* to like you so much) it wouldn't matter

Just because I complain about men- doens't mean I hate them.

Just because I complain about the US doesn't mean I hate it.

Just because I complain about Christianity doesn't mean I hate Christians.

Just because I point out the negative aspect of something doesn't mean there is nothing about it that I like.


Besides- I wasn't really complaining. Just pointing out that we're better at it, that's all.

 

[domjoe]

I watched, or rather I saw two lesbians doing it, it didn't get me hot. It got me very upset. One was my partner. I neither know nor wanted to know who the other was.

All I know is some people are real stinkers, and others are more or less okay. I'd say it was about 50/50 between the sexes.

 

[Belegon]

Real men are great. Then again, maybe I'm just saying that to get you in bed

all ya gotta do is wink...

seriously, I think the bit about magazines is a fair point but I also think it has to do with prideful attitudes and old taboos...guys DO NOT , in general, trade such things as techniques and secrets. Most guys I know would think nothing of telling who they had been with but would never consider how they had been with her.

Men who are comfortable here are the exception. By posting and not just reading we prove that, so those who respond here will be an unfair sample.

This is not to say that most women trade such things either. But I do not know that to be true or untrue. I am one of those exceptions, and my conversations are thus outside of the norm....

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Well, it would seem to me that if women's magazines have all these tips on what to do in bed, it's maybe because most women need them.

And on the other hand, anyone who relies on tips and tricks in bed is by my definition a lousy lover. I want to be treated like a lover in bed, not like a balky outboard engine. ("Let's see, I'll open the choke here, and put my hand over the intake there, now tickle the starter here... There! That should do it!") Tips and tricks are basically faking it.

You want to be good in bed? Three words: Respond, respond, respond.

That's it.

---dr.M.

 

[English Lady]

Well, it would seem to me that if women's magazines have all these tips on what to do in bed, it's maybe because women need them.

And on the other hand, anyone who relies on tips and tricks in bed is by my definition a lousy lover. I want to be treated like a lover in bed, not like a balky outboard engine. ("Let's see, I'll open the choke here, and put my hand over the intake there, now tickle the starter her... That should do it!") Tips and tricks are basically faking it.

You want to be good in bed? Three words: Respond, respond, respond.

That's it.

---dr.M.

I love you Dr M

 

[Guest]

I love you Dr M

I'm beginning to get some rather warm fuzzies towards him, too.

 

[shereads]

I want to be treated like a lover in bed, not like a balky outboard engine.

So motor oil is not a sex toy?

 

[sweetnpetite]

So motor oil is not a sex toy?

You can bring some over here, sher

and we can find out

My point is, women are intereted in how to do it better -- and I think that makes a better lover than someone who is only interested in how to get it done.

Respond is definatly a good method.

So is knowing hidden places to try touching, then paying attention to the response

I think a good blend is important. Willingness to try new things when what youre already doing works is also good. "If it ain't broke, don't fix it" isn't the best phylosophy for a sex life.

 

[Liar]

Women can do more, can do it longer, know the subtle nuances better, use more variety (ie, they don't figure out what works and keep doing the same thing forever ).

aaaaand

My point is, women are intereted in how to do it better.

I don't get it. I'm a woman?
Except for "do it longer", I admit I can't compete there.

Methinks you're generalizing, love.

Me also thinks you're wrong. A man is quite easy to satisfy. A woman is trickier. So men have to work harder to keep up. And you know, women can do it longer because all they have to do is lie there.

(Yes, that was me generalizing )


Now, back to that word. Sluttyness is a virtue. Bring on the motor oil.

#L

 

[English Lady]

I don't get it. I'm a woman?
Except for "do it longer", I admit I can't compete there.

Methinks you're generalizing, love.

Me also thinks you're wrong. A man is quite easy to satisfy. A woman is trickier. So men have to work harder to keep up. And you know, women can do it longer because all they have to do is lie there.

(Yes, that was me generalizing )


Now, back to that word. Sluttyness is a virtue. Bring on the motor oil.

#L

And I love you too!

 

[Guest]

 

[impressive]

I'm beginning to get some rather warm fuzzies towards him, too.

I think he'd be a great fuck.