Why the Hell??

[Guest]

Just a question for everyone that posts here on Lit. I have been lurking here for a long time..I won't register because I don't want to. I like reading what people have to say but that is about it. I have noticed and read that alot of you are married with children, but yet you stay on til the wee hours of the morning. Why do you do that? Don't you ever not want to spend time with your children to hold them close to you especially with everything going on in the world these days! It is sad to see wives neglecting their hubbies so they can sit on Lit and post all day long. I know that I am going to catch hell for posting this. But I think it is something that needs to be brought up. Do you ever feel guilty sitting here. Do you wonder where your kids are and if they are safe? What are your thoughts? Just wondering if you don't feel guilty sometimes!

 

[Freya]

Just a question for everyone that posts here on Lit. I have been lurking here for a long time..I won't register because I don't want to. I like reading what people have to say but that is about it. I have noticed and read that alot of you are married with children, but yet you stay on til the wee hours of the morning. Why do you do that? Don't you ever not want to spend time with your children to hold them close to you especially with everything going on in the world these days! It is sad to see wives neglecting their hubbies so they can sit on Lit and post all day long. I know that I am going to catch hell for posting this. But I think it is something that needs to be brought up. Do you ever feel guilty sitting here. Do you wonder where your kids are and if they are safe? What are your thoughts? Just wondering if you don't feel guilty sometimes!

I don't suppose it's crossed your mind that maybe some of those marriages aren't happy...and that this is an escape for some? That people can find great support from others in here...possibly others in a similar situation. That talking about some of the problems that get talked about on here are not necessarily suitable for coffee break conversation. Pull your head out of your ass, realize that what you see is not always the reality and stop being so fuckin condescending towards people you don't know and don't know anything about.

 

[mbb308]

My 15 YO son is at a Devil Rays game tonight with his mother and stepfather. I've e-mailed him today, talked to him on the phone today, and just came home to a message from him. I know exactly where my son is - 800 miles from me. What a feat, hunh??? Not too shabby for a non-custodial parent, either!!!

I have found that when I spend 60% of my time minding my own business, and the other 40% keeping my nose out of other peoples' business, my life goes a whole lot more smoothly.

You tend to yours, and we'll tend to ours. Thank you so much for your concern, and for your consideration in this matter.

 

[spankableBelle]

Just a question for everyone that posts here on Lit. I have been lurking here for a long time..I won't register because I don't want to. I like reading what people have to say but that is about it. I have noticed and read that alot of you are married with children, but yet you stay on til the wee hours of the morning. Why do you do that? Don't you ever not want to spend time with your children to hold them close to you especially with everything going on in the world these days! It is sad to see wives neglecting their hubbies so they can sit on Lit and post all day long. I know that I am going to catch hell for posting this. But I think it is something that needs to be brought up. Do you ever feel guilty sitting here. Do you wonder where your kids are and if they are safe? What are your thoughts? Just wondering if you don't feel guilty sometimes!

Neglected hubbies? Oh please, darlin'... You don't think that there are neglected wives? And why are you singling out women as being the only ones on here posting until the wee hours of the morning? If i'm correct, i've seen plenty of the opposite sex here, that are married as well, with kids until the wee hours of the morning...why don't they get the same question? All in the spirit of fairness of course...

It's sad to see anyone neglecting anyone, but it's a reality for most everyday. What about the marriages that aren't happy? Where one was neglected long before ever showing up at Lit? What about the husband that sits in front of the television all during baseball and football season all day both Saturday and Sunday? Isn't that neglectful of the wife? Or are men in general not guilty of neglect? It must be the fault of the wife, right?

No, i don't feel guilty sitting here posting. Do you think his ass feels guilty about being in front of the tv all damn weekend, Monday nights, and any other night watching ball games? Do you think he cares that i'm alive and breathing until the post game interviews and press conferences are over? Do you think he pays attention to the kids during all of this? No chance! No, i don't wonder where my kids are and what they're doing because i know at all times.

So, yes, get your head out of your ass before you make such a generalized statement...

 

[sortacurious]

Just a question for everyone that posts here on Lit. I have been lurking here for a long time..I won't register because I don't want to. I like reading what people have to say but that is about it. I have noticed and read that alot of you are married with children, but yet you stay on til the wee hours of the morning. Why do you do that? Don't you ever not want to spend time with your children to hold them close to you especially with everything going on in the world these days! It is sad to see wives neglecting their hubbies so they can sit on Lit and post all day long. I know that I am going to catch hell for posting this. But I think it is something that needs to be brought up. Do you ever feel guilty sitting here. Do you wonder where your kids are and if they are safe? What are your thoughts? Just wondering if you don't feel guilty sometimes!

I'm guessing you are a man, because you are only referring to women that you see neglecting their husbands. Afterall there are both married and single...men and women her.

I gotta tell you, this is not only extremely judgemental on your part, by also chickenshit. Anyone can hide behind the unregistered post and not face consequences for their actions or words. Does that make you feel secure? All nice and cozy and safe now? Does mommy tuck you in at night with nice glass of milk and some cookies telling you someday you'll meet someone that will tolerate your type? (she's lying, if so) Maybe in your perfect safe anonymous little world, nobody's marriage has problems, or the thought of a spouse encouraging their partner to explore their sexuality doesn't exsist. Theives and rapists try to hide their identities too. Does that make the damage, the assault any less disgusting? Or the emotions that their actions cause any less real? In my eyes, you are no better. You are in the same sick, waste of oxygen, gene-pool polluting, category. I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.

I think Freud would most likely link your need for hiding with shame...erectile disfunction perhaps? Or a pitiful nearly non-exsistant dick? Or maybe you just never experienced a real woman?

If you are telling the truth (which I doubt) and do not post at all, then you haven't even interacted with the same people you are judging. Who made you relationship/parenting God? Have you even paid attention to the posts that the very people you are judging make? I think not. It's past your bedtime, little one...let the real adults with real lives to deal with them however they choose.

Opinions are like assholes, and some assholes just can't resist spewing their sewage. In the future, aim for a toilet instead of people. All you succeeded in doing was leaving the shit to run down your own legs. Pathetic.

 

[Cipher]

Unregistered,

How do you know that all of the people that sit here all day and night are married??? i'm not married. i have no children. this is my "get away" from my Real Life friends, sometimes RL friends just can't relate to me, and talking to people on here is just comforting.

I can't repsond more because i guess i have no business posting here to begin with, however, if i was married, and things weren't going smoothly and i needed to talk, i'd come to a board like this to talk, and just for a little bit forget that my life was at a low point. Since you lurk and read what is being posted, then you should know that some people's lives aren't as perfect as others. Maybe thier kids are at thier dad's / mom's/ aunts, whatever the case maybe, and these people are unwinding. Do you have kids, a spouse??? Do you know where your kids are, and what thier doing??? or maybe if these people aren't worried about thier marriages, or children,(which i'm sure they are) maybe you shouldn't be either. How about that???


Hi Spank!!!

 

[Ukin]

How I agree with all the above comments...especially Freya..you are an ignorant, rude and condescending bastard.

If you don't like the heat...piss off out of the kitchen

 

[redelicious]

Just a question for everyone that posts here on Lit. I have been lurking here for a long time..I won't register because I don't want to. I like reading what people have to say but that is about it. I have noticed and read that alot of you are married with children, but yet you stay on til the wee hours of the morning. Why do you do that? Don't you ever not want to spend time with your children to hold them close to you especially with everything going on in the world these days! It is sad to see wives neglecting their hubbies so they can sit on Lit and post all day long. I know that I am going to catch hell for posting this. But I think it is something that needs to be brought up. Do you ever feel guilty sitting here. Do you wonder where your kids are and if they are safe? What are your thoughts? Just wondering if you don't feel guilty sometimes!

Well, this post could have been written to me directly, so I'll answer:

First of all, I usually only post when my child is asleep. He tends to sleep late himself, so that is how I am able to rest. I am a stay at home mom to a 15 month old. When he is up he generally has my undevided attention. He is a brilliant, inquisitive, well-behaved, darling little boy and I will be more then happy to take most of the credit for that.

As for the wives who neglect their husbands, first of all there are plenty of husbands and fathers here, so where is their lecture? Secondly, I wouldn't be here had I not been neglected myself. Since you have probably read all my posts, you should know that.

Speaking of reading all these posts from neglecting wives, how is it that YOU have the time?

 

[MissTaken]

I wonder what unregistered is neglecting while he posts at lit.


We all neglect something.

Even me, who is single and alone, sans kidlings tonight.

I should be picking up around the house.

 

[Arden]

He's probably an undercover reporter for the 700 Club, writing a piece on the wages of sin on the internet... How much in-depth research do you need sweetie?...

So, why do you hang out here? To make yourself believe that you are better than all of us? Does being Unregistered mean you never have to say you're sorry? What a coward.

Maybe you came here because your wife won't have you any more? Are you looking for a fuck? You'll have to do yourself, 'cause no one here would want you.

So, please, go away...

Be sure to close the door on your way out... and as you head down the hallway, Romper Room will be the fourth door to the left! Perhaps you might play better in that enviornment, dear...

 

[1sexylady]

Just a question for everyone that posts here on Lit. I have been lurking here for a long time..I won't register because I don't want to. I like reading what people have to say but that is about it. I have noticed and read that alot of you are married with children, but yet you stay on til the wee hours of the morning. Why do you do that? Don't you ever not want to spend time with your children to hold them close to you especially with everything going on in the world these days! It is sad to see wives neglecting their hubbies so they can sit on Lit and post all day long. I know that I am going to catch hell for posting this. But I think it is something that needs to be brought up. Do you ever feel guilty sitting here. Do you wonder where your kids are and if they are safe? What are your thoughts? Just wondering if you don't feel guilty sometimes!

What makes you think our children are all soooo young that they can't fend for themselfs....?? Some of us can't sleep at night and we stay on because we are all over the age of 18 and can...then again there are different time zones to consider and people from other countries..... I feel guilty for nothing I do....it is called CHOICES and we all make them.... You choose to hide behind the name of *UNREGISTERED* so you must negect your children, husband/wife and stay on here late at night to know what everyone else does....

 

[ub6ibfine]

well said

 

[Cipher]

Re: Re: Why the Hell??

What makes you think our children are all soooo young that they can't fend for themselfs....?? Some of us can't sleep at night and we stay on because we are all over the age of 18 and can...then again there are different time zones to consider and people from other countries..... I feel guilty for nothing I do....it is called CHOICES and we all make them.... You choose to hide behind the name of *UNREGISTERED* so you must negect your children, husband/wife and stay on here late at night to know what everyone else does....

Whoop there it is..LoL

Hey girly!!!

I wish i could reply more to this thread..but i have no children, and i have no hubby, and no wife..one day i might tho, maybe i'll have my chance then eh??
..believe you me..i'll have tons to say then..LoL

 

[1sexylady]

Re: Re: Re: Why the Hell??

Whoop there it is..LoL

Hey girly!!!

I wish i could reply more to this thread..but i have no children, and i have no hubby, and no wife..one day i might tho, maybe i'll have my chance then eh??
..believe you me..i'll have tons to say then..LoL

Hopefully Cipher you will....

Then you can really bitch like the rest of us...or look for answers to help it along....or find a unregistered person too chicken to be someone but criticize everyone... Gosh look what you have to look forward too....

How are you by the way???? I have been busy doing things like going to the shore with my son and doing laundry and cooking dinner and cleaning the house....so when I want to relax I come here late at night when my house is quiet and post....

 

[Cipher]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Why the Hell??

Hopefully Cipher you will....

Then you can really bitch like the rest of us...or look for answers to help it along....or find a unregistered person too chicken to be someone but criticize everyone... Gosh look what you have to look forward too....

How are you by the way???? I have been busy doing things like going to the shore with my son and doing laundry and cooking dinner and cleaning the house....so when I want to relax I come here late at night when my house is quiet and post....

I am doing okay thanks!!! Nice to hear u get a bit of free time at night, i haven't been by momma's kitchen in a while since i baked last time..maybe this week i'll bake again i do see mommadiva on the no sex thread pretty much every day tho..i need to find ur hiding spots so i can drop by to say hi
See ya later girly

 

[1sexylady]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why the Hell??

I am doing okay thanks!!! Nice to hear u get a bit of free time at night, i haven't been by momma's kitchen in a while since i baked last time..maybe this week i'll bake again i do see mommadiva on the no sex thread pretty much every day tho..i need to find ur hiding spots so i can drop by to say hi
See ya later girly

Yeah those muffins were good..so get to baking and stop posting on these threads late at night...damnnnn... Momma goes back and forth...hard to keep up with her... If you want to find me look at my sig...you will... See ya later cutie..

 

[Cipher]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why the Hell??

Yeah those muffins were good..so get to baking and stop posting on these threads late at night...damnnnn... Momma goes back and forth...hard to keep up with her... If you want to find me look at my sig...you will... See ya later cutie..

Massage parlor??? that's a thread??? maybe i'll go take a peek

 

[SecretScribe]

Dear Mr. Unregistered ...

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I won't bother to further castigate you for your post, others have already done it very well. But I will address your statement about why you don't register. If it is to protect your privacy ... sorry, you are out of luck. Look in the lower right hand corner of each post, right there in the very corner ... where it says "IP: logged". Yes, that's right. The internet address you have posted from. It is tagged to every message you make. It's actually far more personal to you than anything most people use when registering (unless you are very honest when you register).

It's just there for the forum admins in case of real trouble ... and I'm afraid you'll never measure up to that.

Just a thought for you ... Have a nice day. Bye!!!

 

[1sexylady]

Re: Dear Mr. Unregistered ...

I won't bother to further castigate you for your post, others have already done it very well. But I will address your statement about why you don't register. If it is to protect your privacy ... sorry, you are out of luck. Look in the lower right hand corner of each post, right there in the very corner ... where it says "IP: logged". Yes, that's right. The internet address you have posted from. It is tagged to every message you make. It's actually far more personal to you than anything most people use when registering (unless you are very honest when you register).

It's just there for the forum admins in case of real trouble ... and I'm afraid you'll never measure up to that.

Just a thought for you ... Have a nice day. Bye!!!

Standing up and clapping.....good point... There's my smile....

 

[Hot4Heels]

Gee is my wife negliting me when she is sitting besides me posting.

 

[ub6ibfine]

this person is gettin shot down from everyone

 

[alwaysawake]

Re: Dear Mr. Unregistered ...

I won't bother to further castigate you for your post, others have already done it very well. But I will address your statement about why you don't register. If it is to protect your privacy ... sorry, you are out of luck. Look in the lower right hand corner of each post, right there in the very corner ... where it says "IP: logged". Yes, that's right. The internet address you have posted from. It is tagged to every message you make. It's actually far more personal to you than anything most people use when registering (unless you are very honest when you register).

It's just there for the forum admins in case of real trouble ... and I'm afraid you'll never measure up to that.

Just a thought for you ... Have a nice day. Bye!!!

Bravo! Well said! I make it a point never to say anything here that I wouldn't say to anybody directly to their face. The anonymous part is OK as long as your aren't afraid to stand behind your opinions and take the constructive criticism as an adult. "nuff said--AA

 

[SecretScribe]

Re: Re: Dear Mr. Unregistered ...

Standing up and clapping.....good point... There's my smile....

*bows*

 

[PassionsEcho]

Re: Re: Re: Dear Mr. Unregistered ...

Actually I think some would be amazed at what the source codes on each page reveal about each individual poster...

I also felt I needed to add to this in continuance of another post of mine...I despise people that make assumptions such as unregistered as to who may be neglecting a damn thing here. You don't "know" these people, you have no idea if they are neglecting anything. You can only assume...assumptions don't make very good arguing points.

 

[mbb308]

This boy should have wandered into a biker bar and said in a very load voice, "Who's the cocksucker riding that piece of shit Harley I just backed over with my pick-up?!?"

But then, of course, he didn't hang around for his evisceration, did he???