Why size matters......

[chimpanzieeed]

This sceniero:

After sex with Meili, the next day I see Meilis friends whispering each others ears, looking at me, them using thier fingers to show the length of sumthing. Eventually like a virus, it spreads around my dorm building, then eventually throughout the University!
My main point is that you girls tell each other EVERYTHING!!

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

its not about SIZE its all about the technique if guys don't haven't that they ain't got nuttin
and as far as gurl-talk you's men talk too

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

You just have to give women something else to talk about...like your personality, for instance.

 

[abiamarie]

Ask her about it. Maybe she was just playing a trick on you. Did it happen on April Fools?
Or maybe she's always like that and you should talk about it and perhaps never see her again.

 

[dickE]

unless she has to use both hands to explain, she's likely chatting about something else. Your delusions of grandeur precede yourself, me thinks.

 

[Xtrnr]

Why size matters

The post is about size! The question was not about how it's used. If you had two partners, one having a large dick, and knowing how to please you and the other having a smaller dick, but also knowing how please you - would you not choose the partner that made you feel and experience the greatest pleasure?
So size would matter?

 

[PinkOrchid]

Re: Why size matters

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Explain to me again why we should reduce a human being to a single body part?

 

[wellnow]

Of course size matters. What else is new?

Ladies manifest this on most, if not all, of the forums on Lit.

From what I read here, the important dimension is thickness much more so than length. If you are of average thickness, have a few redeeming qualities and are completely dedicated to pleasing her over yourself, I don't think you will ever have a problem although you may not do as well in the "one night stand" category. If you're a needle dick, it'll probably be a bit more difficult. I don't think many ladies are excited by anything much less than about a 5" circumference. You will probably want to be spending a lot of quality time in the bush to be able to compete and become proficient with toys for her pleasure.

As aptly pointed out previously, your dick is only one body part. During the development of a relationship it and its size become less and less important.

Ladies please correct me if the above is incorrect. This opinion is derived from what I've been reading on some of the threads and my own experiences through the years.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

oh for goodness sakes, are we back to this again?

Grow up, all, and realize a man is more than a penis.

If I had two lovers, one with a big dick, one with a small, and both knew how to please me... it would not be his dick that would be the choosing factor. It would be intelligence, kindness, sweetness, etc.

But then, all of you men who allow yourselves to be equated with a small body part (in relation to the whole body, the penis is relatively small), that's your loss, and you're shortchanging yourselves.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[pw27]

size doesn't matter as long as a guy knows how to use it, although I will say girth is better than length(at least for me).

Btw, I agree with Johnny Mayberry.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I seem to be the resident expert on the subject...seeing as how I have a 'small' member, perhaps. Every woman I have been with(and there have been many, unfortunately) has enjoyed sex with me, to my knowledge. My size was plenty, but teh kicker was that they found being with me to be a turn-on by itself, before they ever saw or touched my penis. When there is an emotional connection with another person, the whole person, the 'little' details seem to become irrelevant. And, sure, some women [/i]prefer[/i] a larger penis, but nobody expects their partner to be physically perfect.

 

[sheath]

Re: Why size matters

The post is about size! The question was not about how it's used. If you had two partners, one having a large dick, and knowing how to please you and the other having a smaller dick, but also knowing how please you - would you not choose the partner that made you feel and experience the greatest pleasure?
So size would matter?

I agree with Orchid. It would all come down to other qualities. If he can't carry on an intelligent conversation, make me laugh, and make me feel like the center of his world, who cares how big his cock is? It's so irrelevent, it's silly.

So if I had to choose, his penis size would be a very low consideration on the priority list.

S.

 

[ammre]

dood. it's not how big it is but how you use it... most likely she's jsut being a bitch or you weren't giving her enough sexual attention (and maybe even an orgasm) for her to be satisfied with your performance... so she told roumers about your size...

 

[watergirl]

Once again, Johnny Mayberry, I adore you.

It isn't the size, it isn't the size, it isn't the size!

For god's sake. chimpanzieeed - If anything, average to slightly smaller means I can give a more mind-blowing blow job... and that gets me off. Also, bigger dicks are more painful in my ass, and geez, that's not what it's really about. I like pleasantly sore the next day, not ruptured!

And, as Johnny Mayberry wisely says, if you've got a personality, she won't have to talk about your size or lack thereof!

Sheeeeesh. Boys.

 

[RomanHans]

Explain to me again why we should reduce a human being to a single body part?

Dude, why do you have to go and make things so complicated? It's so much more reassuring to think that all I need is a ruler to determine if I'm a good lover or not!

I think that this question recurs due to the classic saying 'you make what you measure'--if a guy obsesses about penis size, then he can focus on just trying to work on that one aspect instead of having to worry about actually pleasing his partner in a more comprehensive fashion. BTW, for anyone who needs a bigger penis, I have a few e-mails I can forward to you that say that they can help!

Roman

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Good point, Roman. I guess if a guy says he has a small penis, he feels that covers it, and he never has to try again.