Why men want photos but won't give out?

[cyn1959]

Hi everyone,

I've gotten some mail from different guys and they always want photos of me, which I, being a terribly horny exhibitionist, am happy to send.

But honestly, it doesn't last forever. the well runs dry, as they say. After sending a few pics of myself, intimate ones at that, doesn't it seem that the gys ought to send at least one back?

I mean, how can you get to "know" someone without seeing his or her face...or other parts...

Cynthia Z.

 

[Spinaroonie]

Sounds to me like they really aren't intereted in you at all, just your unmentionables.

 

[Mr C]

that's probably true, also women are naturally just prettier, it's a known fact.

 

[BlkPnthr]

While this doesn't apply to EVERY male out there, on the net you're going to run into a lot of HNG's (Horny Net Geeks) who want nothing more than to get off to something a little more real than the regular porn sites. They don't care about the women once thier desire/need is fulfilled. This also applies in the real world.

 

[Black_Bird]

The rule I have is simple: You want a picture, you give a picuture. I think it's only fair that way. If you applied that rule to yourself, then you would be getting more pictures... http://www.contrabandent.com/cwm/s/cwm/alien/haa.gif

 

[Coven911]

Many don't, but a lot do as well!

Being a guy who likes to see what is here, I have NO problem either posting or sending my pics to those that request them. But that is me.

Like most of you, I have found that a web cam can be VERY addicting!

*LOL*

Just my circles worth!

Coven911

 

[SexyChele]

I've had this happen a couple of times. Now I don't give in. If a guy asks for a pic, they will either get a facial shot or I direct them to my web site. (also only face shots) Normally, while they tell me "how pretty" I am, they quickly move on to wanting something more intimate. I tell them when they send me a pic of them, then I will decide if they are worth my effort to send something more revealing.

Most times I never get a response, but sometimes the excuses are truly ridiculous!

Be prepared to send a face shot (if you want that shown), but don't send anything else unless/until they send you something.

Of course, there is the classic - go out on the web, download a few great shots of some hot women, and when you get some a**hole who won't send you a pic, send him one of those. See if he is smart enough to catch on. Chances are, he won't be.

 

[Mr C]

I suppose there are enough "real" shots around that it's become impossible to ever know for sure unless you really have a repetoir.

But what are some of these ridiculous excuses? I need a laugh...

 

[Renagade21]

WOW~~

WOw i was just reading alll the above posts and i must say, finally some smart ladies!! If i am asking for a ladys pic i usuallu make a deal i will send mine and she sends hers, it seem fair. sorry for the typing errors my keyboard needs to be replaced,, any how, i am here to saw wwell done and good job to all you ladies who stand firm and take such a stand.

I am also here to offer and one who wants to see me ,a pic, face shot of course, can do so by going to my profile. Then if you like what you see e-mail me a face pic of you. an we will see what transpires. It is hard to find honest ladies out there that care so much as these people who posted here do.. any coments or just want to yell at me?? e-mail me at renagade23@eudoramail.com


thanx again..

 

[SexyChele]

I suppose there are enough "real" shots around that it's become impossible to ever know for sure unless you really have a repetoir.

But what are some of these ridiculous excuses? I need a laugh...

Well, just a few:

5. "All the pictures of me are truly bad". (So.......either they are butt ugly, or their friends are camera-challenged)

4. "I would send you something, but my ex took all the pictures of me when we broke up." (Why? So she could use them for a dartboard?)

3. "I can't figure out how to work the self-timer on the digital camera." (Good lord - it took me 3 seconds to figure it out on mine, are they truly that stupid?)

2. "My digital camera needs batteries." (Too poor to afford batteries, are we? Or don't we get away from the computer long enough to see the outside world?)

1. (and my all time favorite) "I haven't been able to figure out how to make the scanner work." (I mean, yes, it did take me an hour to figure out how to run my scanner, but it's not that difficult. And the guy who told me this kept up with this excuse over a period of 3 weeks, so I guess #3 would apply here as well!)

 

[Mr C]

that's great.

 

[Tyrael]

Well, just a few:

5. "All the pictures of me are truly bad". (So.......either they are butt ugly, or their friends are camera-challenged)

4. "I would send you something, but my ex took all the pictures of me when we broke up." (Why? So she could use them for a dartboard?)

3. "I can't figure out how to work the self-timer on the digital camera." (Good lord - it took me 3 seconds to figure it out on mine, are they truly that stupid?)

2. "My digital camera needs batteries." (Too poor to afford batteries, are we? Or don't we get away from the computer long enough to see the outside world?)

1. (and my all time favorite) "I haven't been able to figure out how to make the scanner work." (I mean, yes, it did take me an hour to figure out how to run my scanner, but it's not that difficult. And the guy who told me this kept up with this excuse over a period of 3 weeks, so I guess #3 would apply here as well!)

I got some to add to your list!

6. "I don't own a camera and no one will let me borrow theirs." - I've heard it a time or two.

7. "I keep forgetting to go get the film developed." or "I never remember to go buy film for the camera."

 

[Mensa]

We're waiting.

If SexyChele did a little housecleaning we would be able to send her pm's. How long will it take her to figure that one out?

 

[SexyChele]

Re: We're waiting.

If SexyChele did a little housecleaning we would be able to send her pm's. How long will it take her to figure that one out?

She already has, sweets! I'm all cleaned out, just waiting to be filled!

 

[RawHumor]

Excuses

The most common one is "I have no way of getting in onto the computer/ no way of getting it scanned."

Most places that develop film these days (at least in the U.S.) will scan a picture onto a disk for you. Walmart even does it.

Granted, you can't get naughty pics scanned at Walmart, but at least you can get a few normal ones done.

 

[Sabineteas]

Pictures

I've found that guys want pictures and I am sure we all know why they want them. If they are willing to send something to me, I am happy to send a clothed picture to them.

Personally, I think women are more exhibitionistic than men. I don't know if it is true, it's just my opinion.

Men take advantage of that. Do I make sense?

 

[JazzManJim]

I'd just like to note that, based on two of my avs, including

<------------- This one right here.

You ladies all owe me two pictures.

Oh all right. You guys do, too. Just in the interest of fairness. But, to be honest, I just want to see what Chele and Sabine look like since I've been reading their posts for lo these many months. And what guy could pass up horny exhibitionist photos, really?

 

[KillerMuffin]

I save my exhibitionism for the shower. I don't like to be used like a piece of meat. I want someone to have a connection with me mentally before the spew cum in my cyber direction. I want to have value for who I am. I want to be worth something more than a jerk on the cock. I want there to be some kind of investment in me as a person. I want to be respected for who I am not because I have big tits or I'm willing to flash pussy. That and the StudMuffin will kill someone.

 

[Calamity Jane]

If all the email consists of is a request for a photo, I generally direct them to my yahoo profile. I don't feel the need to tell them that the pic there is 8 years old, I figure the chances of them looking it up are pretty slim.

I send pics to people who send them to me. I've only sent naughty pics to a select few that I'd been talking to for awhile, and who I'd developed some sort of relationship with.

The excuses are funny though. There's no reason in the world that you can't get photos onto a computer. Wouldn't a simple "I'm not comfortable sending photos' suffice?

 

[lovetoread]

I never sent pics out. I received one or two from them,but those were not asked for.

To me that spoiled the whole fantasy thing.

 

[tn_8tiv]

I never hesitate to send pictures. If a woman offers that's great and if she requests one, I'll send it. I can't understand how guys would not be willing to reciprocate unless they have something to hide.

By the way PCG...you only sent me the horse! (Just kidding)

 

[Ginny]

"All the pictures of me are truly bad". (So.......either they are butt ugly, or their friends are camera-challenged)

<laughing>....i love the expression butt ugly....

 

[cymbidia]

I almost never send pics out either. Why should i?

I don't do online or long distance sexual relationships. At all. Ever. Not for years (with one glaring exception).

Anyone with whom i'd begin to imagine having any kinda sexual relationship with would be in my immediate geographical area and be able to see me for him/her self as we as we had coffee.

Anyone else wouldn't have any need to see me, and would certainly have no need to see my pink parts.

Well, there were all those piercing pics last year, pics of my pierced nipples and labia and clit hood, but a lot of you just winced and passed them by, i know.

Anyway, no one ever asks me for pics (except one person) so it's a moot point. I don't get propositions from strangers in my PM box, either.

Should i be concerned or glad?

 

[JLatino]

wow. lots of strong opinions on the matter.

well, i simply started out by posting pics of myself on the boards. later on i had a few woman ask me if it was okay to send me private pics which i of course said yes to. they were trying to be fair i guess. and i can appreciate that. and those who can't send me pix for whatever reason have opted to send me words, which i like just as much.

i have to say that it's a lot more enjoyable to have an interactive relationship on the boards. and i really don't care where they are from. why hold it against someone if they don't happen to live near you? you wouldn't even know them at all if it wasn't for the board. that's kinda the whole point, isn't it? meeting people of similar interests? as kinky as they might be

so the point is: find a way to have fun on the boards. everyone does it differently. trade pics...chat...don't post pics...whatever. just have fun. period.