Why Males Rule

[Recidiva]

Anyhooo...back on topic.

I think that a lot of women let men rule. I think that a lot of men THINK they rule when in actual fact, they don't. If you are married, then you know this already.

It's like that quote from My Big Fat Greek Wedding...

"The man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck...and the neck can turn the head any way she wants"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRh_30C8l6Y

Separate but equal in my opinion. I don't consider either gender superior, there are only individuals who do good stuff with it and those who don't.

I've seen a ridiculous amount of male and female bullshit, nobody gets a prize.

 

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[BotanyBoy]

OK, I did not know this, I thought you were just blowing smoke out your ass.

Most people don't believe it anyhow....sall good, it's just the internet.

I still think you are a lousy, trolling, piece of shit motherfucker however.

And I still think you're a sexist, presumptuous, femnazi shit licking jack wagon would would make for a better public fuck sack.

But I do apologize for my insensitive comment.

Now fuck off and have a nice day!

I appreciate the sentiment but I think it's neci who took the most offence....yes she's a little sensitive but that's why we all love her so much.

I'm practically impossible to offend and that's what pisses you off so fucking bad. If you farted in my office we might have a real problem but you're on the internet so good luck.... all I wanted was for you to explain your comment, and you blew it into this giant loop of bullshit n' woes.....gratz.

 

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[Recidiva]

Funny, I told a feminazi friend once who in good nature was lecturing me about all the things that girls could better than guys, I said, "oh yeah let me see you piss up that wall over there." I knew damn well I could piss over the top.

I know it was dumb, but funny.

Yup. Most of this stuff is just conversational stuff. "Hey, how about that weather. Hey, how about that sports team. Hey, how about them boobs."

I do statistics because I don't really can't extrapolate "one man" from "all male behavior" I also can't do it with women.

I can talk about tendencies, so yes, you are correct. That is one thing a man will probably do statistically much more effectively than a woman.

 

[Aphro]

Separate but equal in my opinion. I don't consider either gender superior, there are only individuals who do good stuff with it and those who don't.

I've seen a ridiculous amount of male and female bullshit, nobody gets a prize.

No, neither gender is superior. That's not what I am saying.

My point was that in many cases men might think they "rule" for want of a better word, when in actual fact they are being manipulated, and rather cleverly.

And of course, women are great at manipulation, right BB? Especially us feminazis.

 

[Recidiva]

No, neither gender is superior. That's not what I am saying.

My point was that in many cases men might think they "rule" for want of a better word, when in actual fact they are being manipulated, and rather cleverly.

And of course, women are great at manipulation, right BB? Especially us feminazis.

Yeah, and sometimes they're just getting the crap beat out of them with the refrigerator padlocked and isolated from friends and family.

And sometimes the woman is abusing the everloving hell out of a guy who feels that he socially can't complain because what he'll get for admitting that he's being abused by a woman is worse.

So yeah, it's based on actual circumstances.

Power behind the throne is also one of those things that is something I can't really relate to. I have my own damned throne, thank you. So it may be true for some, but I don't do it and it isn't my only option. Implies I'm married to someone dumb enough to fall for it.

That's why I do the separate but equal. Equal probably only if you choose or are chosen by a partner that is both capable of equality and power sharing in a creative way. It ain't easy, which is why there are so many ways to mess it up royally.

 

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[Aphro]

That's why I do the separate but equal. Equal probably only if you choose or are chosen by a partner that is both capable of equality and power sharing in a creative way. It ain't easy, which is why there are so many ways to mess it up royally.

Which is why marriage is definitely not for the faint of heart.

 

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[BotanyBoy]

Anyhooo...back on topic.

I think that a lot of women let men rule. I think that a lot of men THINK they rule when in actual fact, they don't. If you are married, then you know this already.

It's like that quote from My Big Fat Greek Wedding...

"The man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck...and the neck can turn the head any way she wants"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRh_30C8l6Y

And if you think for one second that either is actually in control or that it has anything to do with their genitals then you're fucking delusional. I mean how do gay guys function without a matriarchal figure to manage their stupid maleness right??? WE NEED A NECK !!!! Sexist piece of shit....

Sure there are the occasional circumstances where one is a puppet of the other and that goes both ways as far as gender goes but that is the exception not the rule....sexist piece of shit.

If you dissect the power dynamics of relationships of all kinds you will find that most are highly complex and rarely as clear cut as you're trying to make it out to be. Romantic relationships are even more intertwined....there is always give and take on SOME level, it may not be apparent or obvious but 99%+ chance it's there, and who's calling shots in and involving themselves in certain aspects of as part of a domestic partnership/marriage/family unit/tribe etc. may shock you. The gender roles your giving credit to (men being the head and women being the neck) are a crock of fucking shit....you sexist twat.

 

[Recidiva]

Which is why marriage is definitely not for the faint of heart.

Damned right. Which is why I think prostitution should be legal. Marriage is for the dedicated and interested and willing.

If you just want to have sex or a steady income source or social status or whatever dumbass reason incompatible people get married, please do NOT. DO NOT. Get married. please.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

No, neither gender is superior. That's not what I am saying.

My point was that in many cases men might think they "rule" for want of a better word, when in actual fact they are being manipulated, and rather cleverly.

And of course, women are great at manipulation, right BB? Especially us feminazis.

Every marriage is a civil contract where the important things are decided up front: Who manages the kids, who fixes the water heater, who gets drunk and who drives, who takes the bullet when trouble comes.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Every marriage is a civil contract where the important things are decided up front: Who manages the kids, who fixes the water heater, who gets drunk and who drives, who takes the bullet when trouble comes.

You shut up with that realist shit....cynical old white man!! It's about true love!!!









http://images.wikia.com/mlp/images/4/4a/Dolls_Laughing.gif

 

[Aphro]

And if you think for one second that either is actually in control or that it has anything to do with their genitals then you're fucking delusional. I mean how do gay guys function without a matriarchal figure to manage their stupid maleness right??? WE NEED A NECK !!!! Sexist piece of shit....

Sure there are the occasional circumstances where one is a puppet of the other and that goes both ways as far as gender goes but that is the exception not the rule....sexist piece of shit.

If you dissect the power dynamics of relationships of all kinds you will find they are all very dynamic, most highly complex and rarely as clear cut as you're trying to make it out to be. Romantic relationships are even more intertwined....there is always give and take on SOME level, it may not be apparent or obvious but 99%+ chance it's there, and who's calling shots in and involving themselves in certain aspects of as part of a domestic partnership/marriage/family unit/tribe etc. may shock you. The gender roles your giving credit to (men being the head and women being the neck) are a crock of fucking shit....you sexist twat.

Something we can actually discuss, minus all the sexist piece of shit twat stuff.

Yes, relationships are super complex, and every single one is different. In same sex relationships, whether gay men or women, there is usually one partner who seems to be more controlling. It isn't gender specific, I agree.

However, I'm looking at it form the perspective of James initial post about Why Men Rule and it being all about the testosterone. My point is, it's not about the testosterone at all. I actually agree with you, it's all down to the dynamics of the relationship in question.

I still stand by my point that there are plenty of men who, if asked, would say they are the "head" of the household (50's terminology, I don't know what else to replace that with) and yet, if we were to dissect the dynamic of their marriage, we might find that they are being made to feel like they are...but they are not. This is psychology, not me trying to be all girl-power man bashing. Seriously. I don't have an agenda in that regard.

I hear you Recidiva, in the idea of men who are abused. I don't doubt that, though I suspect the incidence is much much less. The refrigerator analogy was interesting...sounds like you may have experience or insight?

 

[BotanyBoy]

Now you agree with me...fuckin' super...is there a position you're NOT going to take on this thread??

Position...hahahahahaha
http://scatteredsmotheredandcovered.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/pic1.jpg

 

[Aphro]

Now you agree with me...fuckin' super...is there a position you're NOT going to take on this thread??

Position...hahahahahaha
http://scatteredsmotheredandcovered.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/pic1.jpg

OK, I take that back. We cannot have a discussion.

Off topic: Do you spend an inordinate amount of time looking for bizarre gifs and jpegs? It seems that most of your responses seem to consist of some sort of picture that doesn't necessarily relate to the thread or the answer to a question.

 

[neci]

i'm just stalking pussy.

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/6430830848/h2B5C7780/

vette gets shit, because it would make the col smile in his grave.

i don't think i've ever given aj too much shit.

bb's still dealing with his demons. he gets a pass, because he's earned it. for now anyways.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You shut up with that realist shit....cynical old white man!! It's about true love!!!









http://images.wikia.com/mlp/images/4/4a/Dolls_Laughing.gif

Couples usta come see me for marital counseling, theyd sit on my sofa holding hands, and she'd be showing me her goodtime, or he'd go pee and she'd want a hug while he was gone. Or she'd let it out that she hadn't made a truck payment or house payment in months, to leave him with. Its all true love.

 

[BotanyBoy]

OK, I take that back. We cannot have a discussion.

You're right I don't usually do well with folks who have a 1950's outlook on gender roles.

Off topic: Do you spend an inordinate amount of time looking for bizarre gifs and jpegs?

Yea.

It seems that most of your responses seem to consist of some sort of picture that doesn't necessarily relate to the thread or the answer to a question.

Then you lack imagination...what a boring lay you must be.

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bb's still dealing with his demons. he gets a pass, because he's earned it. for now anyways.

Don't cut me slack...I'm ok being an asshole, esp when sexist pieces of shit are the ones I'm pissing off.

Couples usta come see me for marital counseling, theyd sit on my sofa holding hands, and she'd be showing me her goodtime, or he'd go pee and she'd want a hug while he was gone. Or she'd let it out that she hadn't made a truck payment or house payment in months, to leave him with. Its all true love.

Yea it is lol.

 

[neci]

Don't cut me slack...I'm ok being an asshole, esp when sexist pieces of shit are the ones I'm pissing off.

i just want to get high with you and see all 2 inches of your manhood. i can't help it. if you could beat me why you're at it and call me a slut... nah. i like you, because you remind me of some of the guys i grew up with. that's all.

 

[BotanyBoy]

i just want to get high with you and see all 2 inches of your manhood. i can't help it.

I KNEW IT!!!

if you could beat me why you're at it and call me a slut...

It's not abuse if she's begging for it

nah. i like you, because you remind me of some of the guys i grew up with. that's all.

Fair enough =)

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

NECI needs a new name, how about MARY JO MALONE?

 

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[JAMESBJOHNSON]

How about Willis?

Oh my!