Why is there a BDSM Talk section and a BDSM Cafe section ?

From the stickies at the top of the two forums:

"In the Talk forum, our focus is on discussion of BDSM and it's associated sexuality and/or lifestyle choices in real life relationships, but also welcomes discussion of online experiences, and BDSM related fantasy."

"Welcome to the BDSM Cafe, a subforum of BDSM Talk, and a place where we can enjoy a latte, espresso or good Bordeaux and have conversation about pretty much anything. Posting of pictures, jokes and other fun stuff is allowed but please refrain from copyright violations."

Talk=serious BDSM discussion. Cafe=everything else. My rule of thumb is "When in doubt, put it in the cafe." ;)
 
BiBunny said:
Talk=serious BDSM discussion. Cafe=everything else. My rule of thumb is "When in doubt, put it in the cafe." ;)

That's a really good rule of thumb - people get so cranky if you put a non-bdsm related subject in the forum. Mostly cause their are people who dont' have time for fluff - poor souls - and this way they don't have to deal with it at all.
 
BiBunny said:
From the stickies at the top of the two forums:

"In the Talk forum, our focus is on discussion of BDSM and it's associated sexuality and/or lifestyle choices in real life relationships, but also welcomes discussion of online experiences, and BDSM related fantasy."

"Welcome to the BDSM Cafe, a subforum of BDSM Talk, and a place where we can enjoy a latte, espresso or good Bordeaux and have conversation about pretty much anything. Posting of pictures, jokes and other fun stuff is allowed but please refrain from copyright violations."

Talk=serious BDSM discussion. Cafe=everything else. My rule of thumb is "When in doubt, put it in the cafe." ;)


Thanks for the info! It's nice to have a better understanding of the rules. Have a good evening! :D
 
SpectreT said:
Was that one your idea? Been so long, I've kind of forgotten...
ohhhh do we know you ?

Edit Before the lynch mob with pitchforks arrive I better ammend this to say , guud to see you around SpecTend of edit
 
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SpectreT said:
Was that one your idea? Been so long, I've kind of forgotten...

Yeah, but it was MissTaken who actually did it. Created quite a stink when it happened.
 
WriterDom said:
Yeah, but it was MissTaken who actually did it. Created quite a stink when it happened.
Ah. Funny part is, it was an effort to quell the stink about the signal to noise ratio (i.e., fluff taking over), wasn't it?
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
ohhhh do we know you ?

Edit Before the lynch mob with pitchforks arrive I better ammend this to say , guud to see you around SpecTend of edit
Heh. Smartarse. :p :D
 
SpectreT said:
Was that one your idea? Been so long, I've kind of forgotten...


It's a SpectreT sighting!!

:)

I've been wondering where you wandered off too...
 
Shankara20 said:
she said it before I could, good to see you again....

darn her all to heck

:kiss:

Where is this 'heck' you speak off? Is it where pervy things happen all day? Can I be darned there?
 
graceanne said:
Where is this 'heck' you speak off? Is it where pervy things happen all day? Can I be darned there?
"Heck" is apparently where damaged socks go to get darned. What that has to do with Rebecca, I've not a clue... :D
 
SpectreT said:
"Heck" is apparently where damaged socks go to get darned. What that has to do with Rebecca, I've not a clue... :D

No they don't. When you're drying them, their's a huge worm hole that appears in your dryer. Then your socks dissapear and reappear in other people's dryers. And you get some of their socks.
 
CutieMouse said:
It's a SpectreT sighting!!

:)

I've been wondering where you wandered off too...
I tend to vanish from time to time; especially when things are unpredictable for me, schedule-wise.
 
Ohhh I -know- what Heck is , it's a place submissives go and are held as human erotic pretzels of unrequieted f**klust for all eternity. Sometimes just a week or two.
 
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