WHY is it...

[ARaynes]

You know, I once thought that women were the world's worse backstabbers, or busybodies...

Then I met men!

I sit here and for months tell my husband I want a divorce. HE cries and carries on saying he wants to work it out. So I say okay, even though I am the world's unhappiest woman. I try, telling him he will have to change if he wants me to stay, blah blah blah.

The months go by and I take on another lover, which he knows about. I get pregnant (not by choice) and know the baby isn't his. He has a caniption fit! Saying that I cheated and lied to him.
Then he says, "But I still love you and we can work it out!" Not listening to the fact that we have been trying to work it out and I am not anywhere near wanting to stay with him.

I lose the baby and he fucks this girl the night of the miscarriage instead of comforts me! Ok, fine, that means we are broken up right?

NOOOO! He wants to work it out STILL!

Finally, I just let him think what he wants.....

And he goes running to this other girl, "She lied to me, cheated on me. I hate her! I am so getting her out of my house once she has a job and car!"

WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?!

I want to leave, and am forced to stay, but yet when he wants to he can badmouth me to fuck knows who and say I am outta here? FUCK THAT!

Men are shitty creatures......so much for the try on the real side...give me a woman anyday!

So why is it no one can ever tell you exactly what they want? Why is it that TRUTH doesn't get held in such high regard?

 

[Starblayde]

Contrary to popular belief, the Y chromosome is not the route of all evil.


Assholes carrying said chromosome do not represent the population as a whole.

 

[ARaynes]

Ok, I will give you that. I have met a few that aren't....


But still....why can't anyone ever be really blatently honest?

If I ask if my butt looks big, I wanna hear, "Yes, dear, your ass is big!" if it looks big.

Not, No not at all and then I win the "Butt of JLo Contest" at the mall!

 

[Starblayde]

"does this dress make me look fat?"


"no, its your arse and belly that make you look fat."


*slap*


*anger for rest of shopping trip and no sex for a week*


see my point?

 

[Guest]

So why is it no one can ever tell you exactly what they want? Why is it that TRUTH doesn't get held in such high regard?

Because the truth hurts.

 

[ARaynes]

LOL.....

Okay, yeah....

But some of us want honesty...

Just gotta find it...

Like that though! LOL....

 

[brokenbrainwave]

wait

you are not happy

he convinces you to stay

you screwed around

you got knocked up

the child is not his

you loose, for which I do feel sympathy for, the child

he is SUPPOSED to comfort you

instead he screws someone

now, and here is the kicker, you're actually complaining about anything????

fuck, the two of you probably deserve each other


Legal Disclaimer: Rarely am I very harsh like this. It is saved to the truly deserving.

 

[RawHumor]

Your ass looks big.


Glad I could help!

 

[plasticman33]

Re: wait

you are not happy

he convinces you to stay

you screwed around

you got knocked up

the child is not his

you loose, for which I do feel sympathy for, the child

he is SUPPOSED to comfort you

instead he screws someone

now, and here is the kicker, you're actually complaining about anything????

fuck, the two of you probably deserve each other


Legal Disclaimer: Rarely am I very harsh like this. It is saved to the truly deserving.

Exactly!

 

[Guest]

I WANT A LOT OF SHAGGING!

 

[ARaynes]

Re: wait

you are not happy

he convinces you to stay

Was no convincing, he told me I was staying....

No, I don't deserve someone that will badmouth me behind my back. At least have the balls to say it to my face.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

Re: Re: wait

No, I don't deserve someone that will badmouth me behind my back. At least have the balls to say it to my face.

this I fully agree with. That aspect was extremely cowardly of him.

 

[someplace]

*hand AR my flame retardant raincoat*

{{{{HUGS}}}} I know things have been difficult lately. I'm so sorry about your loss. It's hell when it all happens at once sometime, but I sincerely hope you'll be able to get on a path now that leads to more peace and happiness. You know where to find me if you need me.

 

[His_kitty]

Contrary to popular belief, the Y chromosome is not the route of all evil.


Assholes carrying said chromosome do not represent the population as a whole.

LMAO



Yeah, this is just one of the reasons why I missed ya.

 

[Starblayde]

LMAO



Yeah, this is just one of the reasons why I missed ya.

Who loves ya, baby?

 

[ARaynes]

*hand AR my flame retardant raincoat*

{{{{HUGS}}}} I know things have been difficult lately. I'm so sorry about your loss. It's hell when it all happens at once sometime, but I sincerely hope you'll be able to get on a path now that leads to more peace and happiness. You know where to find me if you need me.

Thanks dear....*puts the raincoat on* Needed that too! LOL

Nah, I don't mind the flaming, I know I screwed someone else (Even though I don't think it is concidered cheating when your husband says it is okay, but I will forgive the ignorance of some people) I just wish life wasn't so 'behind rose colored glasses.'

Thank you for being there dear! I am planning on coming to see you two before the end of the year.....

*hugs*

 

[Eve32]

Re: wait

you are not happy

he convinces you to stay

you screwed around

you got knocked up

the child is not his

you loose, for which I do feel sympathy for, the child

he is SUPPOSED to comfort you

instead he screws someone

now, and here is the kicker, you're actually complaining about anything????

fuck, the two of you probably deserve each other


Legal Disclaimer: Rarely am I very harsh like this. It is saved to the truly deserving.

Way to sum up. Gotta admire the effciency.

 

[RawHumor]

Re: Re: wait

Was no convincing, he told me I was staying....

How does that work, exactly? Did he threaten you?

 

[ARaynes]

No, but said I wasn't leaving either....

I tried to walk out and he forced me to stay.....

Used my son against me....

I don't want my son hurt in this, so I do what I have to to protect him

 

[Calamity Jane]

No, but said I wasn't leaving either....

I tried to walk out and he forced me to stay.....

Used my son against me....

I don't want my son hurt in this, so I do what I have to to protect him

Short of chaining you to a wall, how does someone force you to stay? If you really want to leave, take your son and walk out the door.

 

[ARaynes]

He would take my son away from me.....

I have lost a lot of things in my life and he knows that my son is the most important issue in my life....

He would make sure I would never see him agian...and I don't want that.

 

[Calamity Jane]

He would take my son away from me.....

I have lost a lot of things in my life and he knows that my son is the most important issue in my life....

He would make sure I would never see him agian...and I don't want that.

If he has you convinced of that, I suppose you should just resign yourself to living with him forever.

 

[Lust Engine]

No, but said I wasn't leaving either....

I tried to walk out and he forced me to stay.....

Used my son against me....

I don't want my son hurt in this, so I do what I have to to protect him

How is keeping your son in a possibly abusive environment protecting him? I'm sure he knows his mom & dad are squabbling. That affects him!

Step up to the plate, the both of you guys! When the BOTH of you agreed to have this child, he should be priority one! Don't go fucking around on one another- think this woud make your son proud?

C'mon...he fucked up, you fucked up. Be honest with yourselves & hone up to some responsibility here. Don't go around tossing blame.

 

[Lust Engine]

If he has you convinced of that, I suppose you should just resign yourself to living with him forever.

It sounds as simple as that to me.

These are your choices according to you. What kind of sacrifices are you willing to make for your son? It's your call.

 

[ARaynes]

We have decided to split up now....He was keeping me here, but we know we are seperating now...



Forgot to put that in the first post!