This may have been done before but its a fascinating subject with many different views , why do us guys get a real turn on from seeing our wife with another man ? its as horny as hell and would be interested to hear from others how it works for them , below is a copy of a post from another forum , this is not my work and have permission to post this and i think it sums up many of the positive reasons why its such a turn on.
It seems to me that it works on all sorts of levels. You have the husband’s thrill that he has power over the other man and his wife – it was his choice whether his wife has sex with him and he can stop it at any time – effectively saying “this is my ball and you’ll only play with it as long as I allow you to!”
Then you have the wife’s thrill at the power she has not over just one man but two. She has both of these men eating out of her hand, the new man because to him she is a whole new sexual object and he wants her badly, and her husband because she knows he’s either jealous or so aroused that he could burst and she knows she can take all of that away if she wants to – just by stopping
Then you have the new man, the stranger – his thrill is obvious not only is he having no strings attached sex but he is doing it with a married woman – a taboo – and more over he’s doing it in front of her husband and from the moment he kisses her he immediately assumes that he has power over another male, the husband. This woman has chosen to have sex with him over her husband and so long as he’s half way decent he knows he’s making this woman feel 10 times better than her husband can – just because he’s new, he’s different and he’s going to put the effort in! so he walks away thinking “it may be your ball but you’ll never play with it as well as I just have”
But then that’s all a bit too close to physcho babble for me I think its more to do with the fact that we are all guilty of taking things for granted. That beautiful young girl you flirted with and seduced when you were a boy inevitably and quickly becomes “the wife” or “the mother of you child” or even worse “just the bird who does the shopping, spends my money and nags me stupid” its only when another man sees her as beautiful and sexy that you begin to appreciate what you have – you become proud “that’s my girl that guy is lusting after” and all of a sudden you realise that guy will fantasise about the night he had sex with your wife for the rest of his life, you don’t need to fantasise, you have the real thing. And that to me is SEXY
It seems to me that it works on all sorts of levels. You have the husband’s thrill that he has power over the other man and his wife – it was his choice whether his wife has sex with him and he can stop it at any time – effectively saying “this is my ball and you’ll only play with it as long as I allow you to!”
Then you have the wife’s thrill at the power she has not over just one man but two. She has both of these men eating out of her hand, the new man because to him she is a whole new sexual object and he wants her badly, and her husband because she knows he’s either jealous or so aroused that he could burst and she knows she can take all of that away if she wants to – just by stopping
Then you have the new man, the stranger – his thrill is obvious not only is he having no strings attached sex but he is doing it with a married woman – a taboo – and more over he’s doing it in front of her husband and from the moment he kisses her he immediately assumes that he has power over another male, the husband. This woman has chosen to have sex with him over her husband and so long as he’s half way decent he knows he’s making this woman feel 10 times better than her husband can – just because he’s new, he’s different and he’s going to put the effort in! so he walks away thinking “it may be your ball but you’ll never play with it as well as I just have”
But then that’s all a bit too close to physcho babble for me I think its more to do with the fact that we are all guilty of taking things for granted. That beautiful young girl you flirted with and seduced when you were a boy inevitably and quickly becomes “the wife” or “the mother of you child” or even worse “just the bird who does the shopping, spends my money and nags me stupid” its only when another man sees her as beautiful and sexy that you begin to appreciate what you have – you become proud “that’s my girl that guy is lusting after” and all of a sudden you realise that guy will fantasise about the night he had sex with your wife for the rest of his life, you don’t need to fantasise, you have the real thing. And that to me is SEXY
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