Why is it so much easier..

[Prince Romeo]

..to get many people to hate you than to get one person to love you?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Because you can't cater to everyone, and by being yourself and standing up for what you believe in, you'll inevitably step on toes.

As for getting one person to love you, Love is big. Getting someone to like you is not so hard... getting them to love you includes the baring of your soul, and being completely vulnerable with the chance of rejection... and they could choose to love what they see, or they could walk away.

 

[ithaqua]

It is very easy to offend someone and can be done in a short time. You only need to make one statement.

To get someone to love you takes a long time, and familiarity. That's if you are even compatible. If not, then it never happens.

 

[JerseyBoy]

it only takes a sentence to convince the world you are an ass...

...it takes much longer for someone to discover that they love each and every aspect about you...that only comes with time. To try and hasten the natural progression can do only harm.

 

[Zmey]

You can't please everyone...

peace man

 

[Prince Romeo]

But what about the people that go out of their way to be hated? It seems they are just looking for some kind of "twisted love".

 

[Killswitch]

But what about the people that go out of their way to be hated? It seems they are just looking for some kind of "twisted love".

Twisted Love....isnt that where you fags put a noose around your necks and cut off the air flow, making all the blood go to your groin so you have a bigger orgasm?

Freaks.

 

[Lancecastor]

But what about the people that go out of their way to be hated? It seems they are just looking for some kind of "twisted love".

 

[glamorilla]

Twisted Love....isnt that where you fags put a noose around your necks and cut off the air flow, making all the blood go to your groin so you have a bigger orgasm?

Freaks.

silly~those are cock rings.

 

[JerseyBoy]

But what about the people that go out of their way to be hated? It seems they are just looking for some kind of "twisted love".

oh, the Hanns syndrome...there's a nobel prize in there somewhere

 

[Temptress_1960]

It's a cry for attention.

How sad that it's the only form of interaction that some folks are capable of.

 

[RosevilleCAguy]

But what about the people that go out of their way to be hated? It seems they are just looking for some kind of "twisted love".

Negative attention is better than no attention at all to some folks.

 

[Prince Romeo]

Its funny, but these people who struggle so hard to be hated, actually seem to wind up being "loved". It's pathetic that when something attracts enough attention, people actually find an interest in it. But to some people (besides the flies) even shit is fun to play with.

Some people find love in the same sex, others in the opposite. But if trying to be loved, by being hated isn't fucked up, I don't know what is.

 

[juicylips]

..to get many people to hate you than to get one person to love you?

Hate is easier to give into for some.

Others try to avoid love.

 

[SaucyWench]

Hate is a much easier emotion to deal with than love is, and some like to take the easy way out of life.

 

[J.B.]

why worry over it? they love you then they love you. They hate you, then they hate you.