Why is it hard to find an older woman?

[jray74]

Seriously, why is it hard for a younger guy (such as myself) to find an older woman? One would think it shouldn't be hard, but maybe I'm missing something? Any thoughts?

 

[Eilan]

There are women out there who are looking for guys like you. Or so I've been told.

Younger guys don't appeal to me for a variety of reasons--I've been spoiled by my (older) hubby, I'm not interested in having to "teach" anyone, and I'm not interested in being a notch on someone's bedpost just because of my age.

Other ladies' mileage, obviously, may vary.

Good luck.

 

[A_Kefka]

Eilan,
Young guys wanting to be with older women isn't always about just having been with her because she was older. I've been with a few women who were older than me. It wasn't that being older made them more appealing to me, but I didn't let it get in my way either. It was more that I wante dsomeone older because at the time women my age that I was interested in were annoying, always playing mind games.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Well, they're more likely to be married, and, believe it or not, some of them like having men with experience. *shrug*

I'm a young guy who is attracted to women of all ages, but I don't treat older women like a fetish.

 

[Agent 86]

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Possibly an ad such as yours makes them feel like a "collectible" or a "commodity" for a 24 year old young man.

Some ladies prefer to think of themselves as "mature" or "experienced" and get turned off with the fetish label of "older".

Wanna borrow my club?
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[firstclassmale]

older is nicer

I am older lol.and have no need for younger ladies..just prefer a mature woman that loves sex for the pure enjoyment it brings and knows a few things too..

 

[Eilan]

Eilan,
Young guys wanting to be with older women isn't always about just having been with her because she was older.

Around here it seems to be.

Just sayin'.

 

[ctguyx]

When I was a very inexperienced 25 year old ,I had a brief romance with a woman who was in her early 50's. The thing that surprised me at first was her aggression when we made love for the first time. Frankly it was almost intimidating ,but to this day i relish the short time we were together and think of it at times when im alone. She was a wonderful lover!

 

[cndallas]

when you're as old as I am there aren't many left.

 

[jray74]

When I was a very inexperienced 25 year old ,I had a brief romance with a woman who was in her early 50's. The thing that surprised me at first was her aggression when we made love for the first time. Frankly it was almost intimidating ,but to this day i relish the short time we were together and think of it at times when im alone. She was a wonderful lover!

You see, that's something I would like to experience. Sounds like a wonderful thing, something you will never forget.

 

[ctguyx]

I will definitely remember it.....my only regret is that I didnt know more about pleasing her and treating her well. She was sooooo much in tune with herself!
I would love to have another opportunity to be with a mature woman and make her happy in every way.
BTW- she was a friends mom.

 

[Miss Sixxy]

Older women may just feel younger men in general are too immature - although, I must admit I've had thoughts about seducing a younger man myself. I'm not terribly old - 32

 

[Venne]

id love to find an older women in sc that just wants to be pleased. i love to hear a woman cum that gets me off. if there are any out there send me a pm

 

[jray74]

Older women may just feel younger men in general are too immature - although, I must admit I've had thoughts about seducing a younger man myself. I'm not terribly old - 32

Not all younger guys are immature, but I'm curious as to why you feel they are immature?

 

[zotique]

Guess?

Because us older guys got 'em first and we're keeping them.

 

[pink]

Not all younger guys are immature, but I'm curious as to why you feel they are immature?

They say they are not immature but when faced with difficult situations, they show it. i let one in, not long ago and when things got rough, he cut and run.

 

[Miss Sixxy]

Not all younger guys are immature, but I'm curious as to why you feel they are immature?

Honestly, I don't feel that they are. I was just giving a possible reason for why younger men have a hard time finding an older woman. That preconceived notion that young men are immature

 

[krazeekat]

They say they are not immature but when faced with difficult situations, they show it. i let one in, not long ago and when things got rough, he cut and run.

Pink...I love the new AV!