Why is Gushing/Female Ejaculation Such a Mystery?

[MsQuote]

I'd like to get some thoughts/knowledge/insight on something that happened to me this weekend and I wrote about in my blog ...

Why is Gushing/Female Ejaculation Such a Mystery?

Thanks!

 

[monkeyman057]

Thoughts: Such an incredible turn-on.

Knowledge: Not much really, except for what I've read on Lit. But there's lots of material out there on the 'net.

Insight: Perhaps a few repeat performances with your partner would help shed some light on it? If not, at least it wasn't wasted time!

I really wish I had more to contribute, but unfortunately, this isn't something that I've got much experience with. Congrats on setting a new record for yourself though. Have fun trying to top it!

 

[OnceFuturePoly]

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You've checked out Try This and Report Back?

 

[MsQuote]

Thoughts: Such an incredible turn-on.

Knowledge: Not much really, except for what I've read on Lit. But there's lots of material out there on the 'net.

Insight: Perhaps a few repeat performances with your partner would help shed some light on it? If not, at least it wasn't wasted time!

I really wish I had more to contribute, but unfortunately, this isn't something that I've got much experience with. Congrats on setting a new record for yourself though. Have fun trying to top it!

Oh, let's say he knows what he's doing. Like I said, he's the only one who has taken me there.

My question isn't so much how it happens, but why from a physiological standpoint.

You've checked out Try This and Report Back?

That's a great post to share. It's not exactly an intuitive maneuver, and, you know, some guys have a thing about not wanting to ask for directions.

 

[jen_litgirl]

You've checked out Try This and Report Back?

I was just searching for that thread. A great resource.

In my experience, once you start squirting then the easier it becomes so be prepared to keep some towels by the bed for those spontaneous sessions. And enjoy!

 

[amofiga]

From what I've read, there are several theories as to what it is, but regardless, it's super hot to see/feel/taste a squirting/gushing orgasm. I've only known a few real squirters/gushers and only one could do it on my face. The others did however soak my balls (which is a really nice feeling) and the bed (which is a pain in the butt unless you put down towels first. I'd love to know the percentage of women who can actually squirt. From my very limited experience I'd say it was only maybe 10-15% and not every time for them. With two of them, it seemed that very hard pressure on the clit either when fucking or with the hand, was necessary but others say it's g-spot. I've tried the g-spot massage but with the women I knew, that didn't seem as reliable as hard pressure like when they were on top and really grinding hard into my pubic bone.

 

[MsQuote]

From what I've read, there are several theories as to what it is, but regardless, it's super hot to see/feel/taste a squirting/gushing orgasm. I've only known a few real squirters/gushers and only one could do it on my face. The others did however soak my balls (which is a really nice feeling) and the bed (which is a pain in the butt unless you put down towels first. I'd love to know the percentage of women who can actually squirt. From my very limited experience I'd say it was only maybe 10-15% and not every time for them. With two of them, it seemed that very hard pressure on the clit either when fucking or with the hand, was necessary but others say it's g-spot. I've tried the g-spot massage but with the women I knew, that didn't seem as reliable as hard pressure like when they were on top and really grinding hard into my pubic bone.

I've heard the same thing about the percentage of women who can squirt. However, I can tell you clitoral stimulation has nothing to do with gushing ... it's a totally different thing than having and orgasm and coming. It's a totally involuntary reaction and I have no notice of when it's going to happen. And, yes, very hard and deep pressure and penetration is always involved and it's not always a sure thing that it's going to happen ... at least for me. On the other hand, my b/f said he's only been with two women who could do that, and one of them could do it on demand. Lucky her!

 

[rbone04]

I've heard the same thing about the percentage of women who can squirt. However, I can tell you clitoral stimulation has nothing to do with gushing ... it's a totally different thing than having and orgasm and coming. It's a totally involuntary reaction and I have no notice of when it's going to happen. And, yes, very hard and deep pressure and penetration is always involved and it's not always a sure thing that it's going to happen ... at least for me. On the other hand, my b/f said he's only been with two women who could do that, and one of them could do it on demand. Lucky her!

I've been with a select few women who were squirters (and know some I want to be with )... Most did it only on occasion, and usually it was more of an "orgasmic flow" during a good, hard orgasm. My most recent, however, sprayed an unbelievable amount and distance time after time - even sometimes from clitoral stimulation alone - rarely could she control it. It was of course a MAJOR turn on for me, but it was to the point she would literally drench everything within a 12 foot radius of us. The only downside was the need for pre-sex preparation, otherwise be left with some serious cleanup afterwards.

It's crazy how different women's bodies are when it comes to not only what it is that gets them off, but how they respond when they do!

 

[Cookie123]

I've been with a select few women who were squirters (and know some I want to be with )... Most did it only on occasion, and usually it was more of an "orgasmic flow" during a good, hard orgasm. My most recent, however, sprayed an unbelievable amount and distance time after time - even sometimes from clitoral stimulation alone - rarely could she control it. It was of course a MAJOR turn on for me, but it was to the point she would literally drench everything within a 12 foot radius of us. The only downside was the need for pre-sex preparation, otherwise be left with some serious cleanup afterwards.

It's crazy how different women's bodies are when it comes to not only what it is that gets them off, but how they respond when they do!

No comment. Well, other than that comment. See you soon!!

 

[rbone04]

No comment. Well, other than that comment. See you soon!!

I see someone is paying attention

 

[Mr.G]

That's a great post to share. It's not exactly an intuitive maneuver, and, you know, some guys have a thing about not wanting to ask for directions.

Many have never discovered this for that very reason. Digital stimulation of the area normally mimics penetration and thrusting - NOT directed pressure onto one area. If you've never stumbled on this or read something like my TRY THIS thread how the hell would you know except by weird accident or extensive "research" with an equally horny and curious lover?

In my experience, once you start squirting then the easier it becomes so be prepared to keep some towels by the bed for those spontaneous sessions. And enjoy!

It IS a ton of fun to initiate a sexual response of that intensity with a lady who has never experienced it before BUT ... be careful what you wish for. I get emails all the time asking "How do I STOP?"

They have worked with a lover, discovered the GSPOT technique DOES work for them, can enjoy/endure G-Gasms until they pass out but feel they are failing somehow when they don't flood the basement in the process. GAWD how many women go through 40 YEARS of marriage and NEVER have ONE orgasm with their husbands and these women are having 100 or more in ONE NIGHT but email me asking what they're doing WRONG that she can't squirt too. Then when they DO they want to be able to turn it OFF because spontaneous sex is NEVER the SAME again.

As far as I know stopping squirting CAN happen but it takes a lot more effort / control than most women have. I think the faster the first G-Gasm hits from a cold start the LESS the Skeene glands get to fill and those are the little suckers who engorge and SPEW when the time is right. Produce G-Gasms and those never fully fill and do not ejaculate or not with the same intensity or volume than if you go through a 2 hour build up of G-poking without lettiung her cum. When she does and those glands are full ... the CAT will need water wings.

Long live the RESEARCH !!!

 

[joseph20]

Very Nice