Why in RL is it so. . . . . . . .

pleasteasme

*Endangered Species*
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Why oh why in Real Life is it so darn difficult to find a good man?

I am a good person

I have a decent job

I have my own place to live

I drive a nice vehicle

I feel 'sucessful' in my life other than the relationship department


Why can't I find a good man that meets the criteria that I feel I have met *above*?????
 
Grinning... stop looking for the one that might rock your world. Sometimes, a good friend may become the one to fufill your dreams. It happens.

Good luck :rose:
 
Arden said:
Grinning... stop looking for the one that might rock your world. Sometimes, a good friend may become the one to fufill your dreams. It happens.

Good luck :rose:

That is a very sweet thought Arden, thank you! I am hoping, waiting, wishing. . . .we will see :)
 
Never lose hope. No matter who we are, or what influences the choices that we make, love is always a possibility.
 
It's not just the ladies that experience that...so do the guys! Trust me! Good Luck....AA
 
alwaysawake said:
It's not just the ladies that experience that...so do the guys! Trust me! Good Luck....AA

Good to know I am not the only frustrated one. . . . . and I don't just me SF *although a bit of that too* ;)

Love the song in your sig line, one of my favs right now!!!!

:)
 
pleasteasme said:
Good to know I am not the only frustrated one. . . . . and I don't just me SF *although a bit of that too* ;)

Love the song in your sig line, one of my favs right now!!!!

:)
Good guys are out there! Maybe you are looking too hard or in the wrong places? I know a lot of guys who are feeling the same way you are. When you least expect it, you will find that special person. Good luck!:rose:
 
http://www.dgreetings.com/newimages/goodluck/luck4.gif

Like others have said,
LOVE JUST HAPPENS
Dont go looking for it
and it will find you.
Like arden said
it might be a friend. a coworker,someone you see everyday
when you least expect it,it just will happen
There is a new song out that says it all

Somebody
(Dave Berg/Sam Tate/Annie Tate)

At a diner down on Broadway they make small talk
When she brings his eggs and fills his coffee cup
He jokes about his love life
And tells her he's 'bout ready to give up
That's when she says,"I've been there before
But keep on lookin' 'cause maybe who you're lookin' for is..."

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody

Across town in a crowded elevator
He can't forget the things that waitress said
He usually reads the paper
But today he reads a strangers face instead
It's that blue-eyed girl from two floors up
Maybe she's the one maybe he could fall in love with

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody

Now they laugh about the moment that it happened
A moment they'd both missed until that day
When he saw his future in her eyes
Instead of just another friendly face
And he wonders why he searched so long
When she was always there at that diner waiting on

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right on by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody
 
omahaman2 said:
http://www.dgreetings.com/newimages/goodluck/luck4.gif

Like others have said,
LOVE JUST HAPPENS
Dont go looking for it
and it will find you.
Like arden said
it might be a friend. a coworker,someone you see everyday
when you least expect it,it just will happen
There is a new song out that says it all

Somebody
(Dave Berg/Sam Tate/Annie Tate)

At a diner down on Broadway they make small talk
When she brings his eggs and fills his coffee cup
He jokes about his love life
And tells her he's 'bout ready to give up
That's when she says,"I've been there before
But keep on lookin' 'cause maybe who you're lookin' for is..."

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody

Across town in a crowded elevator
He can't forget the things that waitress said
He usually reads the paper
But today he reads a strangers face instead
It's that blue-eyed girl from two floors up
Maybe she's the one maybe he could fall in love with

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody

Now they laugh about the moment that it happened
A moment they'd both missed until that day
When he saw his future in her eyes
Instead of just another friendly face
And he wonders why he searched so long
When she was always there at that diner waiting on

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right on by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody


omahaman2~

Thank you for the words of encouragement!

I guess I am just very frustrated right now. . . . .and a little bit lonely. I have some really good friends that if they gave the signal. . . . I would be *there* :rolleyes: So far, I am only a 'friend' in their eyes. . . . oh well, maybe someday. . . .

Chin up, positive thinking. . . . :)
 
I think we all go through that at times. But when you least expect it someone will come along and knock your socks off!

I am waiting too!
 
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