Why I am not posting a personal ad....

[MissTaken]

I have been considering posting a personal ad here for some time. Today, taking the bull by the horns, I read through three pages of personals and was surprised to find that what I want is way out of the ordinary for lit.

I am really not sure if there is a place for my ad here, but basically, I was going to post that I want to get to know someone, see where it goes, move to real time and possibly find love, commitment and a future.

Silly, isn't it?

Best wishes to all. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Miss T

 

[callableborg]

MissT

Silly is not the word I would use.

This whole website seems to be a brainchild of the U.S. First Amendment. i.e. Free speech and a sort of 'do as you please' social anarchy.

If you think the 'Personals' forum is not really about personals try to figure how the 'Playground' is a discussion of material on the personals.

If you post you simply do it as 'a single gunman acting alone' not in collusion with anyone else or as part of a general pattern.

The forum categories at Lit. seem reasonable and are designed to funnel certain materials to specific areas but the 'residents' manage to sweep this sort of order aside. I often forget what thread comes with what forum because the content and the forum often dont match.

It is sort of 'quaint' to think the Personal Forum should be for personals but that is no reason for not posting. Bet is that in the diverse pop. of Lit. there are people who match or compliment yourself.

 

[MissTaken]

I dont' mean to sound critical.

Actually, my post was meant to be "tongue in cheek." Perhaps, getting a feel for anyone who may be interested?



Oops. I guess I wasn't clear enough.

 

[Lancecastor]

My guess is....

....that under the saucy surface of most Lit profiles there beats a heart and personality like most...after all, are we not people who are "human and need to be loved, just like everyone else does" ?(with apologies to Morrissey).

A quick glance at the thread titles under yours....

"Single lady hoping for a mate!"

"Sleepless in NSW, wanting..."

"I'm looking for more."

Clearly, you are not alone....and clearly, most assuredly, those with an interest in erotica and sexuality are not immune from wanting a partner, a mate, a companion, a friend, a trusted ally...whatever we're calling it this week...in fact, I sometimes....sometimes....suspect that the cooler sounding the profile, the more likely it is that a highly sensitive, warm, loving heart beats underneath, the emphasis on physical desire but a protective mask.

(Not a slight against those who successfully keep love and desire in watertight compartments, btw, not for a nanosexond.)

Me, I've spotted One here I know I'd dearly love to know, and hopefully will.

So, kudos to you, MissTaken, for being able to stand up and say it...even tongue in cheek, at least you can say not only what you want, but how you feel.

Sincerely;
Lance

 

[looking4fun]

Can't say I found what I am looking for, but I did want to drop you note & let you know. I love your title (above your AV) along with your AV.

Also I don't think you are asking for anything out of the ordinary. I sure most of the realtionship that start on Lit goes as you described.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: My guess is....

Me, I've spotted One here I know I'd dearly love to know, and hopefully will.



Sincerely;
Lance

Thank you, Lance.

Best wishes to you.

 

[MissTaken]

Can't say I found what I am looking for, but I did want to drop you note & let you know. I love your title (above your AV) along with your AV.

Also I don't think you are asking for anything out of the ordinary. I sure most of the realtionship that start on Lit goes as you described.

Thank you.

I change av's and titles with my mood.

Hmmmm I wonder what will be next?

 

[MizTabby]

loud and clear MissT

your words relayed exactly what you meant MissTaken, I just hope some nice gent is reading between the lines, all the best to you!

 

[MissTaken]

Thanks, Miz Tabby!

 

[intrigued]

Re: My guess is....

....that under the saucy surface of most Lit profiles there beats a heart and personality like most...after all, are we not people who are "human and need to be loved, just like everyone else does" ?(with apologies to Morrissey).

A quick glance at the thread titles under yours....

"Single lady hoping for a mate!"

"Sleepless in NSW, wanting..."

"I'm looking for more."

Clearly, you are not alone....and clearly, most assuredly, those with an interest in erotica and sexuality are not immune from wanting a partner, a mate, a companion, a friend, a trusted ally...whatever we're calling it this week...in fact, I sometimes....sometimes....suspect that the cooler sounding the profile, the more likely it is that a highly sensitive, warm, loving heart beats underneath, the emphasis on physical desire but a protective mask.

(Not a slight against those who successfully keep love and desire in watertight compartments, btw, not for a nanosexond.)

Me, I've spotted One here I know I'd dearly love to know, and hopefully will.

So, kudos to you, MissTaken, for being able to stand up and say it...even tongue in cheek, at least you can say not only what you want, but how you feel.

Sincerely;
Lance

I just want you to know that I love the way your mind works. As a matter of fact, I am quite taken with your exceptional ability to express yourself. Kudos to YOU.

MissTaken,
I have a personal of the very sort you described, it was hard on me to do it, but what do I really have to lose? Nada.....
The best to you~

Connie

 

[snoozebutton]

I must say i'm moved to speak by the thread. I wish you all the luck in the world in your search. It does bother me that we almost apoligize for being lonely. Every person goes thru it yet it's an emotion we're ashamed of and hide from others. Oops sorry steped on soap box there happy hunting and i wish you well.

 

[Ukin]

Most of us are alone..

MissTaken...I hope that you find what you seek.

I think that the majority of us are alone in this big wide world and as crass as it sounds, even some of the "Not Alone" Lit members are alone-if you catch what I mean.

I guess those lonly ones on here are all seeking someone, something...someone to spring out at us, someone to bring these bits of plastic, the monitors into lfe. Furthermore, we all seem to have things in common..unafraid to express our thoughts, our fantasies..albeit on paper through our writings.

I am of the belief that those who do manage to find the person to step out of the monitor to say..."Here I am" that meeting of like minds will be erotic, frantic and fun.

I do so hope that you...and the rest of us...find what we seek...until then, keep smiling

 

[Lancecastor]

Hmmm..this reverse psychology thing works wonders...

....doncha think? (he self-opines over a rather yummy tuna sandwitch, thanking you all in advance for his indulgence)

See how simply by saying "I don't think I want to really meet someone here."....you automatically and quickly met several people who have revealed themselves in exactly the way you suggested would not likely ever occur?

Hmmmm....you could be on to something here, MissTaken....mindif I try a couple and see if it works for me?

"LanceCastor is totally and completely against receiving tens of millions of dollars...real ones, not those fifty cent Canadian ones...via wire transfer to his cayman account. I truely hope this never, repeat, never happens."

"LanceCastor is dead set against meeting and falling with/for an artistic, knowing, demure, stable, happy, outerworld tiger/athome submissive, with a mane of brunette wavy hair and a smile that melts me, somewhere around 5'6 and 130 pounds when dripping wet and lightly, lovingly bound in chocolate brown silk cord."

If wishes were fishes.....halibut!

cheerios;
L

 

[Shaq]

I think most people who make personals are looking for sex and to live out fantasies...but that doesn't mean there aren't some who want to something longterm....

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Hmmm..this reverse psychology thing works wonders...

....doncha think? (he self-opines over a rather yummy tuna sandwitch, thanking you all in advance for his indulgence)

See how simply by saying "I don't think I want to really meet someone here."....you automatically and quickly met several people who have revealed themselves in exactly the way you suggested would not likely ever occur?

Hmmmm....you could be on to something here, MissTaken....mindif I try a couple and see if it works for me?

"LanceCastor is totally and completely against receiving tens of millions of dollars...real ones, not those fifty cent Canadian ones...via wire transfer to his cayman account. I truely hope this never, repeat, never happens."

"LanceCastor is dead set against meeting and falling with/for an artistic, knowing, demure, stable, happy, outerworld tiger/athome submissive, with a mane of brunette wavy hair and a smile that melts me, somewhere around 5'6 and 130 pounds when dripping wet and lightly, lovingly bound in chocolate brown silk cord."

If wishes were fishes.....halibut!

cheerios;
L

How about a short, chocolate mane and a few more than 130 pounds?



The artistic, demure submissive part is easy!

Yes, the reverse psychologically is gathering a bit of momentum.

 

[MissTaken]

I think most people who make personals are looking for sex and to live out fantasies...but that doesn't mean there aren't some who want to something longterm....

I guess that depends on the perspective of the writer and reader.

I do agree, that it seems that admitting to being lonely seems to be taboo. Silly. We all feel that way sometimes.

No, we aren't all looking for a long term relationship, but if we are, we should say so.

I love sex and fantasies being played out. Assumably, anyone who does settle down with me will have an incredible imagination and tremendous amount of stamina!

 

[Shaq]

I guess that depends on the perspective of the writer and reader.

I do agree, that it seems that admitting to being lonely seems to be taboo. Silly. We all feel that way sometimes.

No, we aren't all looking for a long term relationship, but if we are, we should say so.

I love sex and fantasies being played out. Assumably, anyone who does settle down with me will have an incredible imagination and tremendous amount of stamina!

I have great imagination...but the stamina of a chainsmoker...

 

[MissTaken]

Shaq?

With the right incentive you just might find the energy?

 

[Up Too Late]

I have been considering posting a personal ad here for some time. Today, taking the bull by the horns, I read through three pages of personals and was surprised to find that what I want is way out of the ordinary for lit.

I am really not sure if there is a place for my ad here, but basically, I was going to post that I want to get to know someone, see where it goes, move to real time and possibly find love, commitment and a future.

Silly, isn't it?

Best wishes to all. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Miss T

I agree.....I was thinking about it too, but I dont' know how serious people are here. I know guys want to meet woman and have sex, plain and simple, and being a guy that has crossed my mind, and yes more than once. But I would also like to meet someone who I can share life experiences with. Maybe not marriage off the bat, but someone who would like to come over and cuddle on the couch, watch movie, wash dishes together,throw frisbee, do every days stuff.

yup I want a real girlfriend, we can play around in our underware and make faces at each other....oh well.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Why I am not posting a personal ad....

I agree.....I was thinking about it too, but I dont' know how serious people are here. I know guys want to meet woman and have sex, plain and simple, and being a guy that has crossed my mind, and yes more than once. But I would also like to meet someone who I can share life experiences with. Maybe not marriage off the bat, but someone who would like to come over and cuddle on the couch, watch movie, wash dishes together,throw frisbee, do every days stuff.

yup I want a real girlfriend, we can play around in our underware and make faces at each other....oh well.

Ditto!

You wrote it better than I could have!



Give a try! I find that even my tongue in cheek effort is introducing me some new friends.

 

[Up Too Late]

Re: Re: Re: Why I am not posting a personal ad....

Ditto!

You wrote it better than I could have!



Give a try! I find that even my tongue in cheek effort is introducing me some new friends.

ahh...we'll see, I'm having fun here, and I won't rule out the possibility of meeting people. I've met people from the internet before, nothing really solidified though. But I'm open. What about you? How's it going?

 

[seether]

I agree.....I was thinking about it too, but I dont' know how serious people are here. I know guys want to meet woman and have sex, plain and simple, and being a guy that has crossed my mind, and yes more than once. But I would also like to meet someone who I can share life experiences with. Maybe not marriage off the bat, but someone who would like to come over and cuddle on the couch, watch movie, wash dishes together,throw frisbee, do every days stuff.

yup I want a real girlfriend, we can play around in our underware and make faces at each other....oh well.

Wow! i love it when a guy gathers up the courage to admit to being different to other guys..especially on that topic. i don't see that often enough in real life.

i agree with you - those little things like "playing around" are some of the nicest about a relationship - just enjoying spending time with each other and being yourselves. i now realise just how special they are.... (ooh, how sweet!)

hmm good thing you mentioned throwing frisbees - a little easier than catching = P

best of luck with finding a "real" girlfriend - i'm sure it's just as difficult as finding a real boyfriend!

 

[Up Too Late]

Wow! i love it when a guy gathers up the courage to admit to being different to other guys..especially on that topic. i don't see that often enough in real life.

i agree with you - those little things like "playing around" are some of the nicest about a relationship - just enjoying spending time with each other and being yourselves. i now realise just how special they are.... (ooh, how sweet!)

hmm good thing you mentioned throwing frisbees - a little easier than catching = P

best of luck with finding a "real" girlfriend - i'm sure it's just as difficult as finding a real boyfriend!

Well I've got my eyes open, trying to get back in the saddle, haven't found anyone yet
But I haven't lost hope.


....catching a frisbee isn't hard, I can teach you.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Why I am not posting a personal ad....

ahh...we'll see, I'm having fun here, and I won't rule out the possibility of meeting people. I've met people from the internet before, nothing really solidified though. But I'm open. What about you? How's it going?

It is going okay, cant' complain.

Just by being visible on the boards, I have made some wonderful friends. Some, I have met and some I intend to meet.

Then, in addition to my regular silly ass posts, I find that this thread is introducing me to more folks.

There are more serious minded people out there than one would first think!

 

[seether]

Silly, isn't it?


Miss T

ingenious, really!