Why guys like phone

steakbean

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Two words: authenticity and risk.

Male looking for regular, discrete phone fun in a small world. Must be in the continental U.S.

All possibilites considered...
 
Two words: authenticity and risk.

Male looking for regular, discrete phone fun in a small world. Must be in the continental U.S.

All possibilites considered...

I would have thought the two words would be "Better Orgasm". Proving men and women want different things when it comes to good phone I guess.
 
Good.better...best?

I would have thought the two words would be "Better Orgasm". Proving men and women want different things when it comes to good phone I guess.

Maybe we should "visit" on the phone sometime & see who has the BEST orgasm ? :devil:
 
I always thought guys wanted phone sex because they couldn't get any other type of sex.
 
tx 4 the luv

Thanks for the replies! Yes some, and maybe many, guys want phone sex because they are having a temporary drought with women, but we all know that anyone who wants to have actual sex in the real, as opposed to virtual, world can find someone eventually. It is not that hard to do. For those having difficulty in that area pick a woman who is likely to repsond to you, be nice, take her out to eat or something, and bust a friendly move. If a woman does not repsond or says anything but yes, kindly move on to the next one. Trust me it will not take long to find one, and hopefully you and the one you find will get to really liking or even loving each other in no time. This approach is far less likely to be effective if you are trying to bang a supermodel who can't take a breath or walk across a room without 25 guys hitting on her.

As for me, I rationalize that cyber and phone do not constitute cheating on my gf. This is only slightly different than those who rationalize that real world sexual encounters that do not include intercourse are not cheating.

The fact is cyber/phone is safer than sleeping around not only because of diseases, but also the likelihood of getting caught by a partner is reduced.

Phone sex is better than cyber because it reduces the risk of an embarrassing photo or video getting into the public sphere. Phone sex is closer, more intimate, and as a result more exciting.

It is also much easier to get to know someone a little bit on the phone than over an internet or IM connection. Over time ppl might actually get to know each other well and come to care deeply for one another especially over the phone.

And yes phone sex does feel better. Maybe it is because it can leave both of my hands free for things other than typing. :)

I actually prefer to talk on the phone about many things including sex and gettting each other off. It is also possible to hang out on the phone and online at the same time. Like any social encountoer no one is obligated to engage in sexual talk on the phone just because they agreed to a call. A woman can always say she does not feel like it on the phone the same as anywhere else. And for women it is even safer than a real date with someone you do not know well yet. No one ever got forced to say something they did not want to say on the phone with a stranger who might be on the other side of the country.

Fact is we all assume that a refusal to talk on the phone idicates someone would be unable to demonstrate their authenticity over the phone. Of course, a live interactive chat with a web cam could also suffice, but simply not as much fun to me personally and it entails more risk of public embarrassment.

How 'bout it, any takers out there on the possiblity of a phone/cyber love affair? Or even a phone friendship?

Again, tx 4 the luv every1
 
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I always thought guys wanted phone sex because they couldn't get any other type of sex.

You know my secret. How embarrassing!
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Fact is we all assume that a refusal to talk on the phone idicates someone would be unable to demonstrate their authenticity over the phone. Of course, a live interactive chat with a web cam could also suffice, but simply not as much fun to me personally and it entails more risk of public embarrassment.
Why not use skype? No long-distance charges and nobody has to give out their phone number. Just leave your cam off if public embarrassment is a concern.

On another note, I finally figured out that you were saying that guys preferred phone to cyber because the orgasms were better. Thought you were promoting phone over real life at first and that was a bit of a head-scratcher.
 
Why not use skype? No long-distance charges and nobody has to give out their phone number..

Google Voice offers a free unlisted phone number and free calls anywhere in the USA & Canada.
 
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