Why does sex stop when he cums?

[socalgrl]

Me & the BF had a wonderful round of very hot sex and when he came, I could feel blast after blast filling me up. It was awesome, but I was not quite there yet and I had an overwhelming urge to move up, straddle his face (my fav way to get off), and reach orgasm. Problem is, that would mean his whole load would now be in his mouth and all over his face . Sounds awesome to me, but not his cup of tea

There have been plenty of times that I have cum all over his wonderful cock. Do We stop sex then????? Of course not!!!! In fact many times he brings that cock up to me to finish off (ok, I really like that )

Ok, I am just venting and I imagine this topic has been addressed here before, but just had to post

Thoughts? Comments??

 

[JackOffer]

Me & the BF had a wonderful round of very hot sex and when he came, I could feel blast after blast filling me up. It was awesome, but I was not quite there yet and I had an overwhelming urge to move up, straddle his face (my fav way to get off), and reach orgasm. Problem is, that would mean his whole load would now be in his mouth and all over his face . Sounds awesome to me, but not his cup of tea

There have been plenty of times that I have cum all over his wonderful cock. Do We stop sex then????? Of course not!!!! In fact many times he brings that cock up to me to finish off (ok, I really like that )

Ok, I am just venting and I imagine this topic has been addressed here before, but just had to post

Thoughts? Comments??

I alway suck my cum out of my lovers, male or female.

 

[screwher]

Well I don't really have to explain the whys and wherefores of the penis before and after sex. But I will say - Guys, remember chivalry isn't dead. The ladies cum first.

 

[socalgrl]

I alway suck my cum out of my lovers, male or female.

So naughty!!

 

[socalgrl]

Well I don't really have to explain the whys and wherefores of the penis before and after sex. But I will say - Guys, remember chivalry isn't dead. The ladies cum first.

Yeah, I get the physical aspect, but it is like:
Sex
SEx
SEX
CUM
Basketball
Hey, wait, I'm still here!!!

 

[Nezhul]

If eating his own cum from your pussy is not his cup of tea - then get some toys in the bedroom.
Make good use of them either before penetration, so that you are orgasmed enough by the time he cums - or use them after, if you are not quite finished.

Also he can suck on your clit when ylu lie on your back - then his cum will not enter his mouth.

Well, and last thing. Cum doesn't taste bad, I'm sure you know that. Most men are hesitant because of prejudices that somehow that makes them more gay or that it's very weird. But I'm sure you DO suck his dick after it has been in your pussy, and you have no problems with your cum juices all over it.
I would try to talk to him about it again. Try some things, get him comfrtable with them and move on. I'm not talking about "mouth full of cum while you straddle his face". Pick more relaxed positions, like on the back. Ask him to eat your pussy after he came inside. He'll see it's not that scary.

Also if he ever watched creampie porn he'll know that it's actually quite challenging to push the sperm out of the vagina back into the world. So there's really not much he would be eating anyway.

Good luck!

 

[Nezhul]

Well I don't really have to explain the whys and wherefores of the penis before and after sex. But I will say - Guys, remember chivalry isn't dead. The ladies cum first.

last, you meant?
As I got it, there's no problem with cumming first. There is one with being left hanging, so what she really wants it to cum last as well.

 

[roc23]

Yeah, I get the physical aspect, but it is like:
Sex
SEx
SEX
CUM
Basketball
Hey, wait, I'm still here!!!

That's not like me at all.
I don't watch basketball.

 

[30bandits]

dump him. i'll do whatever it takes to make you cum every single time if you like.

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

Good issue by OP.

Inexperienced guy, I'd suggest.

 

[JackOffer]

Yeah, I get the physical aspect, but it is like:
Sex
SEx
SEX
CUM
Basketball
Hey, wait, I'm still here!!!

The hell with basketball, give me more sex any time, with anyone who want to fuck.

 

[erinbrew]

Me & the BF had a wonderful round of very hot sex and when he came, I could feel blast after blast filling me up. It was awesome, but I was not quite there yet and I had an overwhelming urge to move up, straddle his face (my fav way to get off), and reach orgasm. Problem is, that would mean his whole load would now be in his mouth and all over his face . Sounds awesome to me, but not his cup of tea

There have been plenty of times that I have cum all over his wonderful cock. Do We stop sex then????? Of course not!!!! In fact many times he brings that cock up to me to finish off (ok, I really like that )

Ok, I am just venting and I imagine this topic has been addressed here before, but just had to post

Thoughts? Comments??

What's good for the goose ought to be good for the gander.

That said, if I cum first when my wife and I are having sex, which of course does happen on occasion, that doesn't mean it's basketball time. It's time to give her whatever she needs. Usually she likes a risque story, as I touch her, nibble her nipples, run a finger toward her pussy or ass...

I can't imagine wanting to be anywhere else.

kik = @hohnerG

 

[Klinkster]

But I will say - Guys, remember chivalry isn't dead. The ladies cum first.

Nope....just the opposite with us! I almost always cum first!
After that, I dive in face first, and she really cums! That makes me hard again, and, so I start over, and cum again!

Betcha can't eat just one!

 

[13Fantasies]

My goal is to get the woman there first, one way or another.

 

[Klinkster]

Me & the BF had a wonderful round of very hot sex and when he came, I could feel blast after blast filling me up. It was awesome, but I was not quite there yet and I had an overwhelming urge to move up, straddle his face (my fav way to get off), and reach orgasm. Problem is, that would mean his whole load would now be in his mouth and all over his face . Sounds awesome to me, but not his cup of tea

First time I went down on my wife after cumming in her, it was just one of those spontaneous things.
She came like crazy! Never saw her cum so hard!
Turns out it was a fantasy she had, for years, but was afraid to ask.

I know, if she would have asked....I would have done it, long before I did, at least once. Turned out, it wasn't so bad, and I loved the way it made her cum!

 

[StormyWindows]

My motto is the lady always cums first. I also used to just screw through my orgams, kept on going...but know sometimes I do sometimes I dont...

 

[geronimo_appleby]

because, biologically, he's fulfilled nature's imperative. at a basic level, his mission is to procreate. once he's dumped it, that's it.

 

[bone251]

Please read my stories in my signature.

 

[nexttome]

After orgasm comes food, drink, a little tv and then back to finish the job. Why be in such a hurry?

 

[Carnevil9]

Well I don't really have to explain the whys and wherefores of the penis before and after sex. But I will say - Guys, remember chivalry isn't dead. The ladies cum first.

Truth!

Remember what the great Sam Kinnison used to say: "Make her cum twice before she can even see your dick!"

 

[JackOffer]

So naughty!!

I'd be happy to fuck you both and suck the cum out of you both.

 

[TJX]

Try to look at it this way, a man is like a quarter mile drag race and a woman is like the indy 500. After that quarter mile is done no matter how much he wants that dragster isn't going to take a victory lap. The woman can go extra laps but is going to take a while to get there. That being said perhaps he should wait till the 500 laps are done before starting his 6 second drag race. Lol

 

[starider07]

Hey

It's all squirrel moments they are talking about and there is truth to it. But it goes further. Sometimes us guys want the kinky sexy stuff but don't do it in return.
Yes it's terribly unfair for you. I only wish I had a beauty like you and test your limits and you test mine as well.
Sometimes we need a push from our lover who makes us do something. Other times it takes a dramatic awakening.
Yet other times it just doesn't happen.
Seems many of us want a prim and proper women in public(not me) and a porn star in the bedroom(me) but don't follow thru ourselves.
If you find this same wild and maybe kinky wants and desires across the board and he fails to help you with them you need the face to face serious heart to heart about it as it will cause issues. If not then you will just deal with it but it won't go away. It will have to be dealt with somehow.
Ultimately it will be your choice on the actions you take but do something

 

[pplwatching]

As much as I always try to make sure my wife cums first, sometimes it doesn't work out that way. At those times a little communication goes a long way. While I get that not being able to continue with PiV is frustrating for you, if he's too sensitive to continue or softens up then you need to tell him if you want to orgasm. My wife doesn't always want to, and she'll stop me if I try to help her finish and it's not right for her. I have my fingers, mouth, and a dildo to keep her fire burning when she does want more. She likes to feel my weight on her while I finger her or she does.

If you let him know that you need to finish and he doesn't care then that's not biological, just a bad lover. The other alternative is more foreplay to get you ready to orgasm sooner.

 

[just4friends]

Tie him down

Show him how much YOU enjoy it!!
If that doesn't change his view (mmmm from between your thighs) as it being something that turns YOU on... dump his ass
Or
Spit his cum out on his tummy for the next month after he cums in your mouth
Why should you eat what he thinks is gross?

You swallow! He should swallow yours and his...
Make him GULP to keep up!

As for why?? After we cum, we go docile so you can move to the next guy without upsetting us. Or... to let our spunk do its thing without being churned to butter??

Take control!! Fuck his face or grab that nice strapon that gets you to cum and fuck his ass! Show him how he should fuck you. He wants your ass? Then his ass is yours