Why do you masturbate?

[misspihla]

I answered to "how often" poll and then I started thinking that I actually masturbate just to relax, get sleep, sometimes because Im used to...

I can list at least:
- to deal arousal
- to enjoy
- boredom
- to get sleep
- relaxing
- comfort when sad or depressed


So what all reasons or motivations you people have to masturbate?

 

[M's girl]

When I'm sad or depressed the last thing on my mind will be sex, I'm sure. Luckily I'm not depressed or sad that often

Just a few times, now that you mention it, I did it to be able to fall asleep when I was wide awake and thought of a way to get more sleepy soon. Reading does the job; masturbating too.

I mainly do it when I'm horny... horny and M is not around

 

[misspihla]

When I'm sad or depressed the last thing on my mind will be sex, I'm sure. Luckily I'm not depressed or sad that often

Actually I wouldn't like to have proper sex either when I'm sad or depressed. But masturbating gives some kind of comfort. It helps taking mind away.

 

[midwestyankee]

Maybe it's a guy thing, but I've never thought there was much subtlety to it at all. With us it's never a matter of "why" but "why not?"

 

[KokopelliRises]

Maybe it's a guy thing, but I've never thought there was much subtlety to it at all. With us it's never a matter of "why" but "why not?"

I've noticed that with guys.

Why do I do it?

For fun when I'm bored.

Because I have extra time.

To fall asleep

To pleasure the visual senses of a partner

To get off.

Because I feel like it.

 

[M's girl]

Maybe it's a guy thing, but I've never thought there was much subtlety to it at all. With us it's never a matter of "why" but "why not?"

Yeah, but still.... I mean... you just start out of the blue because you can?

 

[Honeybee80]

Yeah, but still.... I mean... you just start out of the blue because you can?

I do!

 

[VFaulkon]

Why? Because if I didn't, I would asplode. Internally. With the boom.


Since I really have no other romantic or sexual outlet except my own daydreams and fantasies, freeing Willy is all I've got. On occasion, I can go several times a day, so thinking about not doing it at all makes me laugh uncontrollably.

 

[center_stage]

I do it because it's my only form of sexual pleasure at the moment. Plus, it feels great and when I am getting off to a visual it's even better. Sometimes I do it if I can't sleep, it relaxes me.

 

[Dreamliner]

It is enjoyable.

I especially enjoy masturbating with a partner...the visual erotic experience is simply fantastic.

 

[mellowyellows]

Probably for the orgasms....

 

[peekingone]

nothing like the mind playing out the session or even erotic chatting with someone on sexy topics if the chemistry is right. To make a fantasy thought into a conversasion makes for a wild thought process. So with that makes for great masturbation times. Similar to wonderful foreplay. oh and how it can get so naughty too

 

[StrapFantasy]

All of the above. If I had to pick only one, I think it'd be for the release.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Yeah, but still.... I mean... you just start out of the blue because you can?

Why not?

Actually, Willy's just been a bad bad boy and needs to be spanked!

 

[unapologetic]

In the past

At one point in the past, when I was in a horrible relationship, I occasionally masturbated for emotional reasons. It was one of the only ways I had at that time to feel better about myself. Thank god I don't have to do that any more.

 

[PertPerth]

When I was a teen, it was because I was horny.
When I turned 20, it was because I wanted to teach myself to orgasm. (It was a hard task, but I figured practise makes perfect )

Now, it's for many reasons. It's usually when I'm horny, boredom, stressed or to help me sleep. It's also quite emotional for me because I was sexually molested as a young girl and HATED my body and sexuallity for a long time. So, it's more than "getting off" for me...it's a time where I appreciate my body and being a woman.

Oh, and it's fun too!

 

[M's girl]

Why not?

Well, yes, why not, but what I mean is with me it's never like "what shall I do, bake a cake, read a book or hey, how about masturbating; that's fun too".....

I need to be horny first, that's what I meant.

 

[Cathleen]

It feels good, it's fun, I like to see what my imagination will show me, 'cuz I'm breathing, and gosh darn I like it!

 

[Brightdawn]

First....for the pleasure it gives me
then...it does help me fall asleep
it's very relaxing
and yes...why not?

 

[midwestyankee]

Yeah, but still.... I mean... you just start out of the blue because you can?

Ahh, M's, you caught me being flip.

For me it's mostly a matter of need and/or it's something that works for the moment within the relationship (i.e., when separated it's a part of phone sex, etc.). I just don't give it much thought is really all I meant by my first comment.

 

[knickerless]

For old times sake

 

[TheleHun]

.....

 

[Batch]

for the satisfaction
sometimes to avoid doing something else
to help me get back to sleep

to relax


and sometimes

why not

*soft smile*

 

[NippleMuncher]

Ahh, M's, you caught me being flip.

Oh no!! She's on to us!

Well, yes, why not, but what I mean is with me it's never like "what shall I do, bake a cake, read a book or hey, how about masturbating; that's fun too".....

But when you can masturbate, why would you WANT to bake a cake, read a book ...

I need to be horny first, that's what I meant.

If you were a man, this wouldn't be a problem ... We're horny all the time.

 

[misspihla]

If you were a man, this wouldn't be a problem ... We're horny all the time.

I kind of have noticed.

There's two ways how first yahoo chat with guys tend to go:

me: "I don't roleplay or cyber. And I don't like talking about too intimate stuff with people I don't know."
guy: "ok so ask me"
me: "I don't get to 'know someone' just by asking questions. It takes time."
guy: *silence*

OR

me: "I don't roleplay or cyber."
guy: *dead silence*