Why do women like anal sex?

Will527

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I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
 
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Not better, just different. I've not had a real cock in my ass, only toys.
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
I love DP.. 🥵
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
Id prefer him 🤩
What's your favorite position?
I lay on my side
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
If there's penetration in my pussy and clit stimulation
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Idk, never felt that before..
 
Anal is just different. I like the intense sting and pressure to start and then the relaxation sets in and its just divine.
I like it often and in my current relationship I chose not to choose when anything happens.
Yes, I can cum from anal and it is amazing. Though I have been trained to cum on Masters command sooooo..
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
yes..yes..yes..to all.
 
Most don't. It's a myth that most do. Although I would suggest that most men would like to think most women do.
I'm not skeptical that most women enjoy it, assuming they're trying it for the right reasons - which is to say, their own enjoyment and not to merely please a partner.

I'm a heterosexual male and I thoroughly enjoy it when my wife pegs me. Why do I enjoy it? ..Because it simply feels awesome - plain and simple. ..Every time she does it to me I wonder to myself, "why would ANYONE not enjoy this feeling?" She loves it too but mostly with one her dildos b/c I'm very girthy (6.25") whereas the girth of her preferred dildo is the same as an average penis (5.15"). ..She has enjoyed my cock in her ass a few times, but it takes a LOT of pre-work (stretching, using toys of increasing girth, etc.). So when she wants anal, it's generally just easier for both of us to use her dildos.

I will say that the "inserter" of the cock/dildo/butt plug, etc.. has to move very slowly and LISTEN intently to the receiver. ..Go very slow and for the love of pete - USE LOTS OF LUBE!

Since menopause some of my wife's easiest orgasms have come from manually stimulating her clitoris with shallow vaginal insertion of her dildo AND a modest sized butt plug in her ass..

Has she ever cum from just from a dick/ dildo in her ass? ..I don't believe so, but it helps get her revved up. ..That's for sure.
 
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I grew up in a really conservative family and my mom put the fear of God in me about getting pregnant. So when I started having sex, it was strictly oral and anal. It was like that for the first year or so and I came to really enjoy it. So anal sex has always been a regular part of my sex life. I had anal sex with pretty much every partner I ever had.
 
Please refer to the thread." WHY MEN LIKE ANAL SEX" are we at the point where we just swap out sexes to start a new thread 🤔
Men do have different internal parts that contribute to their enjoyment of anal sex. I think the prostate does quite a bit for men in that department.

That being said, my wife used to enjoy anal quite a bit when we were dating and she was fun, and a girl I know prefers anal and can cum from it with no vaginal or clitoral stimulation.
 
Men do have different internal parts that contribute to their enjoyment of anal sex. I think the prostate does quite a bit for men in that department.
quite a few men these days no longer have a prostate (removed due to prostate cancer) yet, still enjoy receptive anal sex, so I don't think it's only b/c of the prostate that it feels good.
 
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I like talking about anal almost as much as getting it, and it's almost exclusively the porn I watch. To answer the OP questions:

Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
"Better" is a loaded word. It's different, and sometimes that difference is outrageously good. I will say it's a little more work to have "good" anal sex than less taboo kinds. Bad butt sex can have a long tail. And something that would be a lot of fun in my vagina could be incompatible with anal play, including a huge dick.

Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
I like it to always be an option, but I don't require it or prefer it exclusively

Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
I am honestly good either way but I tell you there's a particular thrill that I get at the way a guy reacts when I say, unprompted, "I want you in my ass."

What's your favorite position?
Prone bone is my favorite but some guys have trouble keeping their cock inside that way, and I'm not into stovepiping, so then I like it on my side, preferably with him straddling my lower leg and my other leg lifted

Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Absolutely. I never came so hard as I do when I can feel him spurting in my ass, I don't have the words...

Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Ambivalent. I'm not into it but I don't hate it so if he wants to, hey, go to town.
 
A fascinating question that bothers me almost every time I have anal sex. First thing is that more than vaginal sex it is sooo important that I have prepared myself for the experience and that the guy knows what he is doing and is very respectful of my enjoyment. If anal sex is likely to happen I will use a butt plug for 30 mins a few hours beforehand. I will also be careful to wash myself out much as possible( a poop covered dick is not v sexy). Lots, and I mean lots, of lube is essential and I need warming up with two or three fingers in my butt to relax my sphincter before I can take the full. length of a guy's dick. Also go slow on entry. I have only once in my life been so aroused(having followed all the above rules) that I enjoyed a single thrusting entry, and I was very surprised at that too. If the session is to continue get him to thoroughly (and I mean thoroughly-UTI's are painful) wash his dick. OK enough on technique but the real fascination with anal(at least for me) is mental. Guys get so much pleasure from it which is a real buzz. I also love the feeling of cum in my butt and the way it drips out after sex. I can only orgasm during anal sex if I, or he stimulates my clitoris. I definitely feel violated after anal sex, not in the way that It hurt, but definitely used and dirty. I like that feeling although I do worry about what that says about me. Enough for now but just to finish I would say I am glad that anal sex is one of my reportoire of options, it has certainly livened up my relationships on more than one occasion.
 
I have had anal sex a number of times over the years. Early on it was a form of birth control. I tend to enjoy variety so anal sex is different and a welcome change now and then. And yes I have had orgasms just from anal fucking. I have talked to a number of guys about anal and I think the big thrill for them is that the woman is willing to let them fuck her ass. I guess it is like swallowing their cum. Something that they are excited that a woman will do for them.
 
Over the years as I aged-up the Lovers I was with did too. Eventually through the menopause years. The Lovers I was with all stayed very sexual and sensual during and after menopause. They all enjoyed sexploration too. Anal is one thing that four of them wanted to try. These four had never had anal and asked if I were interested. To be clear, I wasn't seeing all four at the same time. This happened over some time span.

We had lots of pillow talks about virgin anal sex. I'd readup some and shared ideas. Lots of the advice in this thread.

What we agreed on was that the Lady sets the pace and is control. I would not thrust or push unless she asked.

Laying on our sides worked best

Generous use of lube

Fingers used in increments. Rubbing fingertips on her and when she liked she would push back onto,first, my pinky. Work up to two fingers. Then ready for my cock.

She would line me up and start to push back. I would lie still for her. Gentle and slow. Whew...nice to remember them now.

In time she would push back and have me push into her.

It wasn't easy but I hled my orgasm until she wanted me to cum

SOOOO wild!

All of the Lovers really liked anal. They would want to do it more as they got comfortable with our techniques. They all sooooo loved the anal orgasm. I did too....mmmm
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Both my hubby and I take and give anal and we love it. I was once told that only the clit has more nerve endings that your ass so that is why there is an amazing intensity to being fucked in the ass. Of course there is very much the "taboo" aspect of it as well.
Yes it needs prep but i totally think it is worth it. The full feeling is amazing especially if you can manage to take a cock with some size. After I am loose I do like a good deep pounding and having a guy cum in my ass is just the best.
 
When a man asks me if I like anal sex, my reply is "I dont like it, I love it, now bent over and show me that ass!" Their tone suddenly changes!

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Sounds good to me
 
The first time anal it was horrible.

We learned how to foreplay with my asshole and I found I like it.

I like that it's naughty and that most women won't do it.

Playing with a married friend one morning and he accidentally pulled out of my pussy. When he lined back up, how was on my asshole. I told him yes. He pushed in, as I pushed back onto him.
It was only the second time.

My favorite was a college graduate last year.
I was 57, he was 24 - just finished his Masters degree.
I invited him to fuck my ass. I was his first. I wanted to be sure he never forgets me.
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
It's a different kind of full and it is very stimulating
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
I enjoy it immensely. Maybe about 50/50. Depends on mood, etc.
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
Since I tend to be more submissive, I get turned on when he wants it. But I also want it, too, so ...
What's your favorite position?
Doggy style for sure. Then maybe missionary.
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Yes, did the first time.
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Love foreplay and that's a if he wants to, yes, sure.
 
I have had anal sex a number of times over the years. Early on it was a form of birth control. I tend to enjoy variety so anal sex is different and a welcome change now and then. And yes I have had orgasms just from anal fucking. I have talked to a number of guys about anal and I think the big thrill for them is that the woman is willing to let them fuck her ass. I guess it is like swallowing their cum. Something that they are excited that a woman will do for them.
More interesting if the women's husband doesn't get to Fuck her Ass.
 
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