Why Do People Submissive People Like To Be Violated?

[Brinnie]

I've never understood this one. Why do so many girls (and no guys) like to be objectified, used and abused?

 

[Seduce]

I heard lot of theories about females being masohists by nature....... when you observe some of them it may seem true....... personally I like being used to the certain point, but I hate when someone tries to abuse me.

 

[Brinnie]

I heard lot of theories about females being masohists by nature....... when you observe some of them it may seem true....... personally I like being used to the certain point, but I hate when someone tries to abuse me.

But nature makes no fucking sense.

 

[Joe King]

I've never understood this one. Why do so many girls (and no guys) like to be objectified, used and abused?

Because if someone is willing to use you, they are showing you the purest level of their own desire. No stops along the way to worry how you are feeling, or if you enjoy it too... just letting go, hitching up and going at it like you are all alone. No bumps in the road on the way to satisfaction. If done right, the usee usually feels pretty damn good anyhow, me personally, I am in love with seeing a girl let loose like that, sexually. I not a 'sub' or into abuse, but that aspect of the thing makes me incredibly horny.

 

[Seduce]

But nature makes no fucking sense.

I didnt say I agree with those theories.
Where I come from is still normal to raise a girl to be submissive and obeying little idiot with just one purpose in life - to get herself married and raise a family. Men can be as brutal as they want to those females, they never complain.

I had "lovely" experience once..... a fight with my ex ending in police telling me it is just a domestic misunderstanding and not their concern really....... my bruises were nothing much - it happens.

Needles to say, it was real and nasty fight, if I didnt defend myself with a broken bottle of beer I could get badly hurt.
Funny thing is he called police when I grabbed that bottle..... told them I attacked him.

 

[TaintedB]

Because if someone is willing to use you, they are showing you the purest level of their own desire. No stops along the way to worry how you are feeling, or if you enjoy it too... just letting go, hitching up and going at it like you are all alone. No bumps in the road on the way to satisfaction. If done right, the usee usually feels pretty damn good anyhow, me personally, I am in love with seeing a girl let loose like that, sexually. I not a 'sub' or into abuse, but that aspect of the thing makes me incredibly horny.

For a non-submissive, you have a damn good understanding of a very important aspect of the psychology!

 

[laughingbadger]

Nobody has VIOLATED me - that is hilarious! And where did you ever get the idea that guys don't like to be "objectified"...? Tell any male you know that he is a sex symbol and he will grin. As far as being "used" is concerned, try telling a man you just want to "use" him for sex! Possibly he won't mind TOO much!

 

[rosco rathbone]

I've never understood this one. Why do so many girls (and no guys) like to be objectified, used and abused?

No guys, eh?

 

[Marquis]

http://www.wackyb.co.nz/yh/wbyim59.gif Abuse is fun! http://www.wackyb.co.nz/yh/yb636.gif

 

[shy slave]

Why Do People Submissive People Like To Be Violated?

Do they

 

[AAkasha]

I've never understood this one. Why do so many girls (and no guys) like to be objectified, used and abused?

No guys like to be objectified? Guys LINE UP to be objectified. Since you did not specify "submissive" I am assuming you mean vanilla, or just women in general?

I think women overall do not like to be objectified, and men love it.

When women walk past a construction site and have unattractive workers whistle and say vulgar things, do most love it, or do most get annoyed?

When women are treated like a piece of meat on the first date and not respected, how many get offended, and how many love it?

When a total stranger on first meeting comes on strong, blatantly sexual, talks about her tits, says she must be a great fuck, do women stand there an d love it, or walk away?

When a woman gets a prank phone call from a guy jerking off, does she stay on the line and have phone sex with him just for fun?

I think less women are willing to accept/desire this treatment than men. If a carload of girls passes a guy in the street and they hang out the window and scream obscenities about him regarding his ass, you made his day.

If a woman comes onto a man like he is a piece of meat and treats him like a sex toy, he's probably loving every minute of it.

If a woman calls a random man on the phone and tells him she's naked and masturbating, not as many will just hang up the phone.

Men like to be objectified -- even the vanilla ones.

Akasha

 

[Marquis]

I hate being objectified, but I will use it as a tool to get what I want.

 

[Liana26]

And who the hell's to say that a submissive woman is more used, abused, and objectified than any other woman? Or any other person, for that matter. For whatever reason, Brinnie, I think you just don't get it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

And who the hell's to say that a submissive woman is more used, abused, and objectified than any other woman? Or any other person, for that matter. For whatever reason, Brinnie, I think you just don't get it.

LOL, they are just more honest about it (and with reason) and not easily put in a place where they feel they had no choice in the outcome at some point in the journey.

Catalina

 

[jwurst72]

My Two Cents...

I dont know why any other men have not chimed in yet, but here's my quick take. I would love to be objectified and used by males and or females for their own gratification. It gives me great pleasure to know that I did something for them that gave them pleasure.

 

[psyche1973]

I've never understood this one. Why do so many girls (and no guys) like to be objectified, used and abused?

ummm.. I don't get this question, especially because your tagline says "CUM ON MY 18 YEAR OLD FACE" That is objectifying yourself! At 18 I doubt you're doing it to stave off wrinkles! lol

I can't speak for anybody but myself, but I feel it's healthy for my S/O to take what he needs from time to time. He's not violating me or objectifying me in any way, although we may play that he is that's all drama. The man gives 110% for me in all ways and he deserves nothing less from me.

"Originally Posted by Joe King
Because if someone is willing to use you, they are showing you the purest level of their own desire. No stops along the way to worry how you are feeling, or if you enjoy it too... just letting go, hitching up and going at it like you are all alone. No bumps in the road on the way to satisfaction. If done right, the usee usually feels pretty damn good anyhow"

AMEN!
I absolutely love how you put it!

 

[Joe King]

For a non-submissive, you have a damn good understanding of a very important aspect of the psychology!

"Originally Posted by Joe King
Because if someone is willing to use you, they are showing you the purest level of their own desire. No stops along the way to worry how you are feeling, or if you enjoy it too... just letting go, hitching up and going at it like you are all alone. No bumps in the road on the way to satisfaction. If done right, the usee usually feels pretty damn good anyhow"

AMEN!
I absolutely love how you put it!

*gulp*

Maybe I AM a sub, after all! time to do some exploring, I suppose

 

[phetish]

I've never understood this one. Why do so many girls (and no guys) like to be objectified, used and abused?

I like to be abused to a certain extent. mostly verbally. more along the lines of humiliation. maybe it's 'cuz my mother was abusive, but I don't remember much that happened before I was 7 so I can't say that's the only reason.

Any attention, even negative, is better than none @ all for a lot of people.

I like to abuse more than to be abused, but I'll save that for another thread.

 

[Etoile]

Because if someone is willing to use you, they are showing you the purest level of their own desire. No stops along the way to worry how you are feeling, or if you enjoy it too... just letting go, hitching up and going at it like you are all alone. No bumps in the road on the way to satisfaction. If done right, the usee usually feels pretty damn good anyhow, me personally, I am in love with seeing a girl let loose like that, sexually. I not a 'sub' or into abuse, but that aspect of the thing makes me incredibly horny.

That is incredibly wise. I need to share that with some people. Thank you.

Any attention, even negative, is better than none @ all for a lot of people.

An excellent point.

 

[TaintedB]

Joe King is a hard act to follow, but I just thought of something else to add to this. Some submissives (I am one) get a sexual thrill from having our personal space invaded in the rudest and and most aggressive ways. The ultimate sexual violation is usually rape, although certain individuals may have specific things that feel more violating than that. But anything that expresses contempt for the social niceties or ignores the usual cultural awareness of a person's ownership of her own body can be considered violating.

I think violation is at the core of why so many submissives find face slapping hot. Slapping often comes at an unexpected time, not after a long ritualistic prep that involves lying down or bending over, being tied, getting out an implement, etc. Boom, it just happens. You mind has not time to prepare for it and the shock and pain of the invasion is thrilling and erotically charged.

 

[Little Bird]

I think violation is at the core of why so many submissives find face slapping hot. Slapping often comes at an unexpected time, not after a long ritualistic prep that involves lying down or bending over, being tied, getting out an implement, etc. Boom, it just happens. You mind has not time to prepare for it and the shock and pain of the invasion is thrilling and erotically charged.

It's also a kind of punishment that is used in daily life. You'll most probably never find anyone who ties their kids (or who ever) to a wall and take out the whip. Slapping is much more authentic.

 

[amasterfound]

I don't see it as being abused, objectifing, or violating me. I enjoying the feel of my Master's hand spanking me. It is the same as when you got a spanking as a kid you knew that deep down someone loved you enough to punish you when you had done wrong. I also like to be a slave because it gives you a chance to be free and let loose and not worry about the outcomes. If he says that it is ok for you to do it, it is because he said so not what the rest of people think or feels.

I am more free being a slave then when I am not. I am more loved too because he takes the time to make sure that I have what I need, see to it that I am taken care of, and punished when I have down wrong. I show him my love and thanks by making sure that5 he is taken care of, and does not want for anything. the way I see it is it's a "WIN, WIN SITUATION"!

 

[mysteryinc]

It's subjective what each person regards as abuse. I find personal questions MUCH more violating than any physical violation. I HATE being objectified mainly because I hate attention. Used and abused... I get off on what some people would consider abuse. I love being beaten and love face slapping because it feels intense, spontaneous and that way I feel the man is stronger than me, without needing any instrument or weapon or whatever.
Why I like it? Hmmm, maybe I do like attention

 

[O'Mac]

I've never understood this one. Why do so many girls (and no guys) like to be objectified, used and abused?

Simply put: They find pleasure out of it.

To get to the root of the matter, I suppose every case would be different but perhaps we can chalk it up to upbringing and social taboos. If you take a very clinical point of view, it's all really about helping you find a better mate to produce offspring with. The human animal will easily break social conventions if it means increasing the chances to reproduce.

Again that's a very clinical way of looking at it, but who's to say really?

 

[shy slave]

Joe King is a hard act to follow, but I just thought of something else to add to this. Some submissives (I am one) get a sexual thrill from having our personal space invaded in the rudest and and most aggressive ways. The ultimate sexual violation is usually rape, although certain individuals may have specific things that feel more violating than that. But anything that expresses contempt for the social niceties or ignores the usual cultural awareness of a person's ownership of her own body can be considered violating.

I think violation is at the core of why so many submissives find face slapping hot. Slapping often comes at an unexpected time, not after a long ritualistic prep that involves lying down or bending over, being tied, getting out an implement, etc. Boom, it just happens. You mind has not time to prepare for it and the shock and pain of the invasion is thrilling and erotically charged.

Face slapping..

Mmmmm