Why do do many straight white guys want to watch their wives / GF suck black cock?

[AAnderssen]

Don’t get me wrong, I am all for this. I think it’s great and a real turn on. And I have had my own experience of this. It’s just really popular on here and in porn and I get the ww/bm thing, but why are so many straight white guts into watching their wives blow black guys? I’m sure there some fascinating social psychology going on but I thought it worth asking on here.
Can someone explain it to me?
Simple language please.

 

[AsiaRoamer]

The colour contrast is so intense.

 

[LupusDei]

I think there's several powerful archetypes playing together in this, in different ways and different intensities for different people. That of a Bull. That of the Other. That of the Slave ascended in power. That of a sacrifice, or also wastefulness, the "ruining" of the woman, the pretended act perceived worse than death. One thing that should be remembered, this is firmly fantasy land, even when play-acted in real world with actors portraying themselves.

Well, I live in place so much off the high road that I, with some stretch of my memory, could count all the black men I have seen on the street in passing in all my life. For the first few dozen blacks in our city (a local metropolis of just less than a million) a running tally was being held. That was over a quarter of century ago. Blacks have been know but rare oddity here at very least all the way back back to Hanseatic League traders followed their mercenary crusader here in thirteen century establishing a node in their routes extending to the Spain and south of Mediterranean. Now we have even a young and very beautiful woman singer with remarkably dark skin, who, as far I know, do list her nationality as Latvian. But that's all just an unnecessary long aside to tell that the unique aspects of blackness in the phenomena is for me, frankly, strictly theoretical.

But incidentally, I do have had some experience in real relationships approaching the situation approximately, but the bull wasn't black, of course. Curiously, the incident ended all three relationships and led close to a suicide attempt by the bull, but we were young and didn't quite understand what we were doing. With right amount of prior communication and necessary level of abstraction it could have worked, maybe.

There's certain thrill to be had by admitting superiority of the Other. As more different the Other, as least superior it is in nominal expectations, as more improbable the coupling, as stronger the associated emotions. There's no logical preamble for true alien sex, but the black is as close approximation as the subconscious mind is able to accept. Then there's the prejudices of racism and slavery past, the automatically assigned sub-human status, breached by placing him over a supposedly superior while woman. Then there's the greatness of the perfect body, different, yet easily recognizable as possible, and possibly better, self. I do believe we have instincts as species craving betterment above even selfishness and in that context, the whites are possibly just an inbred oddity.

 

[connielovespleasure]

Here's how I see it, I think that its a submissive and humiliation thing for the man, he see's the black lover as a more powerful and potent and superior lover than himself so he is very humiliated by that but in the same manner he gets very sexually excited from it and that's why he keeps coming back for more, just a thought

 

[cuck72]

Here's how I see it, I think that its a submissive and humiliation thing for the man, he see's the black lover as a more powerful and potent and superior lover than himself so he is very humiliated by that but in the same manner he gets very sexually excited from it and that's why he keeps coming back for more, just a thought

Well I guess you figured me out. I know this might sound wrong, but I also just get excited thinking of those black men making the white guy submit, and loving to humiliate him. So I get into the white guy faggot slave fantasy, just like the black man getting off on cuckolding the white husband / BF.

 

[Muwarr90]

Well I guess you figured me out. I know this might sound wrong, but I also just get excited thinking of those black men making the white guy submit, and loving to humiliate him. So I get into the white guy faggot slave fantasy, just like the black man getting off on cuckolding the white husband / BF.

Do other "power reversal", for the want of a better phrase, versions of cuckolding turn you on to the same extent? Exampes like an underling at work dominating you and your wife?

 

[midwestmomlvr]

While I have absolutely NO interest in watching/sharing my wife with a man of a specific race (I.e. BBC), I am VERY interested in watching/sharing her with another man. The idea of watching her suck a nice cock and seeing the look on her face when he pounds her and makes her cum drives me absolutely crazy. So sexy.

 

[Knoturnal]

Don’t get me wrong, I am all for this. I think it’s great and a real turn on. And I have had my own experience of this. It’s just really popular on here and in porn and I get the ww/bm thing, but why are so many straight white guts into watching their wives blow black guys? I’m sure there some fascinating social psychology going on but I thought it worth asking on here.
Can someone explain it to me?
Simple language please.

Can you show some threads where it’s popular here. I know it’s popular in many porn sites and I’ve seen you on articles talking about it before but maybe I just haven’t noticed but was wondering the amount or count of expression on this site?
Thanks

 

[dp4shelly]

Common in porn

The concept is common in porn but not very common in real life. Most men are not turned on by the idea of watching their wife have any kind of sex with any other guy. My husband enjoys sharing me and the "hotwife" concept is growing. Nevertheless, overall few men are currently into it. Of those that are most are not driven by some racial issue. My husband enjoys watching me have sex with guys but there is no specific racial issue or desire. It is just the visual thrill of seeing me having sex with another guy. Neither of us care what color cock I am sucking or fucking. If we did care about that it would indicate some kind of racial issue. So, guys that want to watch their wife with a black guy are a subset of a minority group that just want to see their wife having sex. So it really is not a common desire out side of the fake portrayal of sex that is common in porn.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Most people into cuckold/hotwife fantasies are not so much into any specific racial aspect of it. They have no preference towards black or white, in other words. Which, in my opinion (and it is just my opinion, I don't want to sound judgemental) is how it should be; I personally am really not into fetishizing any particular ethnic group.

 

[PaxNurgle]

This country is racially weak and homosexuality is on the rise which is scary. I would never let my wife get fucked by another man especially a "brotha." Sloppy seconds are not tasty. This shit needs to end. As a Trump supporter I stand with dignity for all things virtuous. So a no to Afros pounding my wife.

hmmm... so here is Verybusy/Busybody's newest username, huh? He creates a new account nearly every couple days now. And typically posts the same kind of incel racist crap.

I don't want to be judgemental.... except in cases like this.

 

[BBCfan]

The idea of my wife sucking and getting fucked by a BBC is super hot to fantasize about as it feeds into my BBC fetish perfectly.
May not like it in reality though.

I don't it's that common either. Likely very fringe .

 

[Jcam1980s]

Mine wouldn't be up for it in reality but i would be. I'd love one to cum inside her bare. For me its stereotypical, huge cock etc and my wife has the most perfect ladybits ive ever seen and she's so tight. So to see her take a full bbc and watch it pulse a load into her would be amazing. I'm only 6.5' but im girthy and she has to ease me in, and usually orgasms once all of me is in. So to imagine her agony/ecstasy face of a bbc filling her. Wow.

 

[stickygirl]

Don’t get me wrong, I am all for this. I think it’s great and a real turn on. And I have had my own experience of this. It’s just really popular on here and in porn and I get the ww/bm thing, but why are so many straight white guts into watching their wives blow black guys? I’m sure there some fascinating social psychology going on but I thought it worth asking on here.
Can someone explain it to me?
Simple language please.

Maybe it's because of the virgin/slut stereotype that many men have? Historically, black men are associated with bad things, so maybe there's an element of the woman being 'punished' because virgins, and loving it because slut? but pfft adfghjkl idkwtf

 

[LauraWilling]

All of these comments are very interesting and I am sure valid, but there is another thought. I have enjoyed being with black men since the first time I was with one. There was none of the reasons mentioned. I just liked him a lot and he was very nice and protective of me where I worked at the time. He was just a very nice man and very sexy to me like any man I would be attracted to.

When I got married (white man) he was an avid voyeur and we had an open, shared wife marriage. He enjoyed watching me with men and sometimes women of any color. If there was any preference to a black man with me, he never said so or showed any sign of it. I just enjoyed sex with men of any color that I was attracted to or offered to. I hope that makes some sense .

 

[UK_Jill45]

When we started meeting other couples and singles colour wasn't something I really thought about at the time. My husband mentioned it a couple of times and it was around the time I started watching porn with him. A few times the films would be a black guy and a white girl and I did find it more interesting than say white on white. I mentioned it to him and he said he would enjoy it as an experience. It didn't take long before I had the experience of a black guy. This was part of a meet at a party and it was a great experience to have and hubby enjoyed watching me. We had a couple more meets after that but we don't actively seek out black guys to meet. At the same time though we certainly wouldn't rule it out in the future.

 

[BBCfan]

Mine wouldn't be up for it in reality but i would be. I'd love one to cum inside her bare. For me its stereotypical, huge cock etc and my wife has the most perfect ladybits ive ever seen and she's so tight. So to see her take a full bbc and watch it pulse a load into her would be amazing. I'm only 6.5' but im girthy and she has to ease me in, and usually orgasms once all of me is in. So to imagine her agony/ecstasy face of a bbc filling her. Wow.

My wife has had many BBC's as she dated tall black guys for years. She values monogamy so has no interest in my fantasy .

It's like you said , to see the ecstasy on her face from being filled. I have a pretty big dick and a few times I've fucked women with small, tight vaginas. To have to ease in and see the look of pleasure/ecstasy on their faces as you fill and stretch them a bit is awesome.

We have awesome sex and her pussy is awesome but I'm sometimes aware she can and has accommodated many porn size BBC's countless times. Would be hot to witness it but I respect her values and our marriage so I'll play it out with a cock sheath or dildo.

 

[BBCfan]

A long time ago my wife resisted the fantasy, but I think she was worried what I was really up to. She's also a BBW, and for me that fantasy, or stereotype porn, is incredibly hot. For me though, I know my wife is into big cocks, and most black co is are huge, I know in porn they are, but that's where our fantasies lie. For me its giving her that which I cannot with my 5 in small white cock.

So how do you and her play out the fantasy?

 

[Runbow]

I don’t want to say it’s racism...

But it’s racism.

 

[Mtnmike]

All of these comments are very interesting and I am sure valid, but there is another thought. I have enjoyed being with black men since the first time I was with one. There was none of the reasons mentioned. I just liked him a lot and he was very nice and protective of me where I worked at the time. He was just a very nice man and very sexy to me like any man I would be attracted to.

When I got married (white man) he was an avid voyeur and we had an open, shared wife marriage. He enjoyed watching me with en and sometimes women of any color. If there was any preference to a black mane with me. he never said so or showed any sign of it. I just enjoyed sex with men of any color that I was attracted to or offered to. I hope that makes some sense .

Yes that makes perfect sense LW, I'm the same way with women. I don't seek any one type, like you it's the attraction. I will say most of my friends think I'm a little nuts cause I would sleep with different races. O well, their loss I say.

 

[Mtnmike]

When we started meeting other couples and singles colour wasn't something I really thought about at the time. My husband mentioned it a couple of times and it was around the time I started watching porn with him. A few times the films would be a black guy and a white girl and I did find it more interesting than say white on white. I mentioned it to him and he said he would enjoy it as an experience. It didn't take long before I had the experience of a black guy. This was part of a meet at a party and it was a great experience to have and hubby enjoyed watching me. We had a couple more meets after that but we don't actively seek out black guys to meet. At the same time though we certainly wouldn't rule it out in the future.

Good for you two, people are people no matter what color they are. There's good and bad in every race, it's just skin color anyway.

 

[CandK_inSE]

Yes that makes perfect sense LW, I'm the same way with women. I don't seek any one type, like you it's the attraction. I will say most of my friends think I'm a little nuts cause I would sleep with different races. O well, their loss I say.

Me and my wife aren’t interested in sex with others. That said, either one of us would have dated someone of any race if there was attraction, common interests, etc. Who cares how people are attracted to each other.

The whole porn category about this just screams stereotyped racism to me.

My wife is a nurse. She’s seen all types of men’s penises. She says there’s no truth to the myth that black men are bigger.

 

[OldFred65]

I love seeing my wife get fucked by any cock of any color. If they will fuck me, too, that is even better.

 

[EeStag]

For some reason you specify sucking only, but it also extends to fucking. Why do something only halfway without the obvious conclusion?

My girlfriend and I have a deal to share her with black men. We find BBC’s for her on vacations and she brings them back to our hotel for either threesomes or to fuck her while I watch, and she has also had a black fuckbuddy from her gym that she has visited for booty calls after their workouts before coming home.

For me it’s all about naughtiness and taboo.
The biggest turn-on for me on is a woman acting naughty and ’slutty’, which is what this is all about. After being with a prudish partner, it’s one of the biggest and most liberating joys in life for me. The taboo that surrounds interracial sex makes it even more slutty. A white girl with a BBC, according to the general public, is pretty much the epitome of slutty behaviour. Which we have mixed feelings about in the sense that we are not racists, but at the same time it helps us fetishise interracial relations for our own good.

Apart from that, it looks just great visually - from a neutral standpoint it should be obvious why some people think that the skin contrast simply looks good. Dark brown skin versus her pale white skin, masculinity versus femininity. Having your woman desired by other men even elevates your own status according to my view. Why would you want to hide her? Letting other men enjoy her body is also an act of ownership for me even if others want to see it differently. She is encouraged to enjoy other cocks, but will always return to me, and without my permission this would not happen in the first place.

 

[lovesexfun]

Don’t get me wrong, I am all for this. I think it’s great and a real turn on. And I have had my own experience of this. It’s just really popular on here and in porn and I get the ww/bm thing, but why are so many straight white guts into watching their wives blow black guys? I’m sure there some fascinating social psychology going on but I thought it worth asking on here.
Can someone explain it to me?
Simple language please.

because we want her to see in immense pleasure and when we look at her face of pain/pleasure it gives us even more pleasure.