why cheat?

[dickE]

I forgot about that Never. Must have slipped my mind with all the people I'm fucking behind my husband's back.

Were I he.......................I'd turn around and show you my hard on, Babe.

 

[Sandia]

Re: Cheat

My (limited) experience is this:

Women cheat because they feel unwanted by their husbands and aren't sure if they're still desirable. Or they do it for revenge becasue their husbands have cheated.

Men cheat because they feel unwanted by their wives and aren't sure if they're still desirable. Or they do it for revenge becasue their wives have cheated.

Wow. For somebody who only registered in May, you're pretty fukkin smart.

Fukkin newbie.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

I think an anthropologist like Desmond Morris would say that human beings do not appear to be programmed genetically for fidelity of the "til death do us part" variety.

Of course, any good C&W singer, like George Jones or Tammy Wynette, is also helpful in understanding the phenomenon.

 

[PacificBlue]

I don't know why people cheat. I don't know why people lie about being married when asked directly. I don't understand the pure pleasure 'some' get in hurting others or attempting to destroy them.

Love seems elusive.

 

[RosevilleCAguy]

I don't know why people cheat. I don't know why people lie about being married when asked directly. I don't understand the pure pleasure 'some' get in hurting others or attempting to destroy them.

Love seems elusive.

One reason understanding may be escaping you is because logic is of limited use in understanding actions motivated by insanity of extreme self interest. I feel the same way myself and that is the only conclusion I have found.