why cheat?

[CarKeys]

My opinion (guy), I won't ever do it. NEVER ever. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't EVER do it. I just don't understand why guys cheat, I understand even less why girls cheat. Maybe I'm in the minority?

 

[RosevilleCAguy]

My opinion (guy), I won't ever do it. NEVER ever. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't EVER do it. I just don't understand why guys cheat, I understand even less why girls cheat. Maybe I'm in the minority?

I don' t think you are in the minority, far from it. I would not be so absolutist about it though. Any time human beings are involved in anything, there is a possiblity of our inherent frailties casuing failure.

Your personal view is quite admirable though.

 

[Rubyfruit]

... I understand even less why girls cheat.

Why do you understand even less why girls cheat?

 

[Rick DeVille]

My opinion (guy), I won't ever do it. NEVER ever. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't EVER do it. I just don't understand why guys cheat, I understand even less why girls cheat. Maybe I'm in the minority?

Still a virgin - appropriate

 

[CarKeys]

Still a virgin - appropriate

Perhaps on this board, but not in real life.

 

[Never]

Women don't have a sex drive and all they desire in life is to find one man and live with him happily ever after.

Gee Ruby, doncha know that by now?

 

[Lost Cause]

That's what I asked my last two ex's..

Their basic reply was they thought I didn't care about them because I didn't try and control them! When I love someone, I want them to be the best that they want to be, to seek their highest goal without needing my approval. To them, I guess if I don't treat them like property, I don't care!
I quit trying to figure it out, it doesn't make sense, and you'll end up with a brain hemmorage!

 

[Rubyfruit]

I forgot about that Never. Must have slipped my mind with all the people I'm fucking behind my husband's back.

 

[Never]

I laughed at that, therefore, I'm a hypocrite.
But you're still an angel, right?

 

[Rubyfruit]

Absolutely.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

My opinion (guy), I won't ever do it. NEVER ever. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't EVER do it.

I hope you get to live by what you wrote....

P.S. How old are you????

 

[Eumenides]

My opinion (guy), I won't ever do it. NEVER ever. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't EVER do it. I just don't understand why guys cheat, I understand even less why girls cheat. Maybe I'm in the minority?

My opinion (gal) is that men say they won't, but at least ninety percent of them do.

And women are just as susceptible to temptation as men. Why put them on some fidelity pedestal?

Just wait till that first temptation starts gnawing away at you, invading your dreams, your concentration...

But, perhaps you are above that. In which case, I say Feliz para Tu!

 

[Meltzer]

at least ninety percent do?

come on now! give us more credit than that. Granted the thought has caught my attention once or twice but id never really do it.

 

[Eumenides]

I retract my statement.

Ninety percent of the men I found have.

 

[Meltzer]

i'm sorry to here that.

 

[Never]

Meltzer:
"i'm sorry to here that."

Spelling buddy sez:
I'm sorry to hear that.

 

[Meltzer]

thanx spellin buddi. yOu shure r hElPfull.

 

[Never]

Meltzer:
"thanx spellin buddi. yOu shure r hElPfull."

Thanks spellin' buddy. You sure are helpful.

Spelling buddy sez:
You're welcome.

 

[Meltzer]

word.

 

[Weird Harold]

My opinion (guy), I won't ever do it. NEVER ever. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't EVER do it. I just don't understand why guys cheat, I understand even less why girls cheat. Maybe I'm in the minority?

What I told my ex-wife before were married: "I won't go looking for sex, but I'm only human. If some woman shoves it in my face, I'm going to eat it and if she drops in my lap, I'm going to fuck it."

Personally, I think that anyone who says they will NEVER (bad word that) cheat think that they're more than human. How long someone has to rub you nose in it before youtake a lick may vary, but my basic sttement is true for all but people with the most exceptional self-control. (or a severe lack of hormones.)

 

[NoJo]

Cheat

My opinion (guy), I won't ever do it. NEVER ever. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't EVER do it. I just don't understand why guys cheat, I understand even less why girls cheat. Maybe I'm in the minority?

My (limited) experience is this:

Women cheat because they feel unwanted by their husbands and aren't sure if they're still desirable. Or they do it for revenge becasue their husbands have cheated.

Men cheat because they feel unwanted by their wives and aren't sure if they're still desirable. Or they do it for revenge becasue their wives have cheated.

 

[MNGuy]

Sometimes, it is as simple as too much alcohol.

 

[Cheyenne]

wow, talk about a black and white view of the world.

Never is a very very long time.

 

[lavender]

 

[peachykeen]

define "cheat"...

I have no desire at this point in time to actually physically be with someone other than my husband. Why would I, he's just too adorable and good to me?

But I do love cybering with other people and I am by nature a big flirt. For some, that would be cheating, but I don't see it that way.

Who knows what the future will bring? For now I'm pleased with what I've got. And I'm pretty sure he is too.