Why can't I get an orgasm??

[SexySex]

I hope this is the right board. I've just started having sex for the first time. The guy I'm with has no problems comming but I never reach orgasms. Anyone can give me some advice?

 

[wildthang]

Lots of foreplay.... Maybe you should ask him to do something (oral sex, fingering, using toys) to make you cum first every once in a while. Also, try some clitoral stimulation while having sex, or get yourself almost to climax (with his help if you can) and then start going at it, I'm guessing it just takes you longer to orgasm then it does him... Its not anything new I hate to say, you will find a lot of women deal with this... Also try getting a cock ring, it fits snug around the base of his penis and sort of slows the circulation so he doesn't climax so quickly. You should really talk to him about it though, just let him know it takes you a while to orgasm ( dont make him feel bad LOL we don't want to hurt his ego) but let him know that aren't climaxing when you have sex and that maybe you should try some other things so both of you can enjoy it ( Make sure you let him know it has nothing to do with him and his "technique" although it might LOL) Just have fun! and BE HONEST!

 

[Lady Tango]

I seldom reach my orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. I need lots of foreplay to get me going. I love oral sex and ideally once before he enters me and after he has cum inside to ensure my clitty gets its reward.

If I'm really aroused I take him in my mouth to get him erect again and after his first session he lasts much longer and I love being fucked with deep thrusts and longer he lasts the more intense are my orgasms.