Why are we here?

[lilchocobaby]

I wonder what draws us here, we kinky/freaky people who crave the anonymous contact of others who crave our same thing.

Why do we hide behind these screens? perhaps our fear of the intimacy that we crave.

Its so safe here, in this place of yearning, swirling need. Yet we want to touch and be touched, don't we? I mean, I want a real connection before I leave, don't you.

I want to love and be loved to distraction, with my kink/freakishness acknowledged, don't you?

 

[rombo034]

Momentous questions... not easy to answer to. But the search for that goal is an answer itself.

 

[SmileyGirl]

"It's so safe here"
You really are a noob!!

 

[lilchocobaby]

"It's so safe here"
You really are a noob!!

LOL, whats a noob? Do you only want to live a safe existence? interesting

 

[ThereAre4Lights]

I can see the safety here inasmuch as if your contact is limited to online only, you're really only as vulnerable as you choose to make yourself.

With that said, some people will try to get one to drop their guard, succeed, and abuse that vulnerability.

Other than that, if someone types "I steal your lunch money" you're only affected if you choose to respond with "Hey, give it back!"

 

[piddlyass]

I wonder what draws us here, we kinky/freaky people who crave the anonymous contact of others who crave our same thing.

Why do we hide behind these screens? perhaps our fear of the intimacy that we crave.

Its so safe here, in this place of yearning, swirling need. Yet we want to touch and be touched, don't we? I mean, I want a real connection before I leave, don't you.

I want to love and be loved to distraction, with my kink/freakishness acknowledged, don't you?

I crave human contact and socialization. I'm here because I won't go looking for it here. I won't suffer the inevitable disappointment. I'm not tall enough, not smart enough, not rich enough, too nice, too sensitive, too available.
I know I won't be loved. There is no special someone waiting for me. I would appreciate being liked.

 

[wildchild24143]

I think it's fun to play without having to face rejection

 

[SmileyGirl]

LOL, whats a noob? Do you only want to live a safe existence? interesting

Well I suppose it's how you interpret safe People hide on here because they can be anything they want to be. So yes I keep myself safe by not falling for the bullshit they copy and paste

 

[lilchocobaby]

I crave human contact and socialization. I'm here because I won't go looking for it here. I won't suffer the inevitable disappointment. I'm not tall enough, not smart enough, not rich enough, too nice, too sensitive, too available.
I know I won't be loved. There is no special someone waiting for me. I would appreciate being liked.

Your response breaks my heart…but, I see your truth. I hope you find someone who believes you are tall enough, rich enough, smart enough and most importantly "enough" for you> Peace

 

[MacGuffinn]

Why? I don't remember.

 

[lilchocobaby]

Why? I don't remember.

Then you've been here way too long

 

[btlooking]

Here looking

I'm looking for a lady that want to chat with a guy expressing her sexual want with out really doing it

 

[Paul_Chance]

I like the convenience, being able to play on my own schedule from wherever I happen to be. I'm also fond of the anonymity - it allows me to relax and just enjoy myself. Finally, I love erotically charged words and interplay. Special bonus - some cool people.

 

[MacGuffinn]

Then you've been here way too long

No fucking kidding. I want a beer.

 

[lilchocobaby]

No fucking kidding. I want a beer.

LOL, I do too

 

[xanderra]

This place is great for people coming out of there shell and to learn new things about themselves. Yes this place can be safe as long as you play it safe. Now if the question is why are we here on earth that is a different answer

 

[EctoJohn]

Yet we want to touch and be touched, don't we? I mean, I want a real connection before I leave, don't you.

I want to love and be loved to distraction, with my kink/freakishness acknowledged, don't you?

Yes to both of these.

The older I get, the further out of reach that sort of happiness seems.

 

[SexyHeavyLady]

I am here as I enjoy getting men off. Simple as that. I live to serve mens needs as weird as that sounds for people.

 

[ExiledWelshman]

I am here as I enjoy getting men off. Simple as that. I live to serve mens needs as weird as that sounds for people.

Where do I sign up?

 

[ProfQ1955]

Ah grass hopper it is the journey to utopia that drives us. As utopia can only be defined by you.

 

[cumunder]

Just stopped in one day to see if I could find a friend to fuck around with and sonofabitch I found many sexy kink fun friends. Really glad to be here and always down for some hot fun

 

[tnh_06]

Why?

Why? probably because we thought we married the person that would be all of those things, and we found out after we were married that they were not all those things and that we will not be accepted for who we are, instead, we are ignored. So we come here looking for something we will never find, but at least we can feel like we're looking.

 

[cainm13]

Why am I here? I ask myself that often after coming back to Lit after 5 years hiatus.

To talk and connect. Blurt out sexual innuendos to people without any type of regard. The people here can take it, at least that's what I think.

Being here is the same as any other place, a bar, wedding, campus. If I just find that 1 person to talk, connect, joke, that's all you need. If not, be rejected and keep trying. Rejection, humiliation, embarrassment; that can all happen in the comfort behind a computer. There isn't anything invested, but some time.

 

[RuneBlade]

The thrill of the chase, the banter and innuendo, and the opportunity to be a complete smartass sometimes.

 

[ThereAre4Lights]

There are as many answers to the real question as there are people to provide said answer. Some people come for the snark, some people come for the conversations, and some are just here to raise hell.

In the end, as long as you're having fun and aren't hurting anyone, your answer is the right one.