why are there no nice women on here??

[veryshy19m]

Hi
Im a 20 year old guy from uk. I love erotic email exchange and e pals. I have met a few people on here and they have suddenly stopped emailing me for no reason. They seem interested and then they just stop.
Are there any nice women who would like to exchange erotic or normal emails?? I wont ask for pic etc as I am not interested in looks etc. I just want a someone to chat to, confide in and have fun with...which appears to be not availible on here.
Hopefully Im wrong and I can meet someone on here. If you are interested then plz pm me and then I will give you my email addy and we can get to know each other better

xxshyguyxx


*Looking to be proven wrong*

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

Ladies

Actually there are a myriad of lovely ladies here just takes some time,also if like me and look pitifull enough etc.But good luck to you
greetings Bachlum Chaam

 

[Guest]

Starting off negative won't help you find women. Sorry to say...

 

[veryshy19m]

i know its bad to start off sorbid but its the truth. I have had one good experience from ehre and i have had about 6 bad....the ratio isnt good. If you tell truth you stand a better chance of gettin what you would like. I dont like, I dont like liers. I jst say things straight forward. I know to some peeps that that isnt good but i cant help it :-/ it in my nature.

Ty for reply chumm. ) hopefully we all get what we would like )

 

[veryshy19m]

chamm* sry

 

[Guest]

Well, good luck with your search anyway. Not "all" women are like that. Just like not "all" men are "bad" or whatever. Stereotypes don't get people far.

There are many wonderful people at Lit. I suggest you try to get to know some of us through friendships as well. (There are many wonderful threads and posts throughout all of Lit's boards.)

 

[veryshy19m]

I know what you mean, I realise I sounded like I was sterotyping people on here and that wasnt my intention. I know that I worded my title wrong..its should have been Why cant I find any nice women on here?? I am sure that most are very nice but I dont know how to meet them.
I've never been good at that sort of thing, I dont know anyone on the chat and I just cant figure out how to approach people....I have tried before with no success. I thank you for your imput and I hope I find what im looking for as I wish everyone on here that.

Heres to hope

thank you

XxshyguyxX

 

[veryshy19m]

bah I new I had gone wrong about this. I hope someone does see this and thinks I am what they are looking for.....

XxshyguyxX

 

[Guest]

If you think it would help you could always start a new ad.

 

[SlayerZ1]

There are many nice woman on this site.

But it wont endear you to any of them whilst this thread is here.

 

[dragonhearted]

bah I new I had gone wrong about this. I hope someone does see this and thinks I am what they are looking for.....

XxshyguyxX

Welllllll....I wish I lived in the UK...but I don't....I live in Maine, USA.

 

[pop_54]

Patience

Be patient friend, I know what you're trying to say, but Rome wasn't built in a day, and you won't find meaningful contact in a day or two.

The problem of e-mail contacts writing once, then never again is common, it's nothing wrong with you or the other person, after one letter some girls decide you aren't what they're looking for. Maybe your subject matter isn't horny enough for them.
For some it may be too horny.
It would be nice if they replied and told you this, but not everyone has this level of confidence.

Some girls think they need a friend then change their mind, perhaps hubby catches them at it, hehe, or they find love or distraction elsewhere.

A girl or guy may advertise for a friend and find one straight away, but very unusual.

Also for every serious request for contact, there are 3 chancers who don't really mean it, guys and girls in this category.

Just keep trying, forget this thread now and open another with a nice invitation and brief description of your preferences.

pops.............

 

[veryshy19m]

wow thank you everyone. Your imput has made such a difference. I really want to thank bless for her imput and pop. You two really have made me think differently about lit. I think I will definately start a new thread although I have had one pm which might turn out promising. I hope so. Thank you all so much.
XxshyguyxX

 

[melligrl]

If you're just looking to chat I'm around. I do tend to ignore and threads that don't start with Texas since that's where I'm at.

I'm sorry that you had a bad experience. . . for me it was the opposite. I mad a short post and while none of the reponses were from anywhere near me I have made a few friends that I really enjoy chatting with.

Feel free to pm me or contact me in any way. I'm always open to making a new friend.

 

[stehorn]

Don't worry about it mate, It's harder for blokes on here anyway due to the competition. When you've posted enough try putting up an avatar with a massive cock, six pack stomach, and massive pecks that seems to work for a lot of women on here. Try having a sense of humour as well with em, because if they haven't it's there problem. Oh and be prepared to be patronised a bit now and then, send loads of ims and never get a reply, post and never receive a reply even when some of em say they will get back to you, but above all laugh because that's what it's all about at the end of the day. and if all else fail's consider a sex change because their's no shortage of blokes on here, and it would be interesting to see what it feels like from a womens point of view, sex that is. Oh and playing with ones self as her majesty might say.

 

[Guest]

Don't worry about it mate, It's harder for blokes on here anyway due to the competition. When you've posted enough try putting up an avatar with a massive cock, six pack stomach, and massive pecks that seems to work for a lot of women on here.

Don't you mean "it seems to work for a lot of men on here"? I've never seen a feminine screen name (meaning a woman here) with an avatar of a large cock, etc.

 

[SlayerZ1]

Don't you mean "it seems to work for a lot of men on here"? I've never seen a feminine screen name (meaning a woman here) with an avatar of a large cock, etc.

Me thinks thats what he meant... but dont quote me on that.

*hug*

 

[SlayerZ1]

Don't worry about it mate, It's harder for blokes on here anyway due to the competition. When you've posted enough try putting up an avatar with a massive cock, six pack stomach, and massive pecks that seems to work for a lot of women on here. Try having a sense of humour as well with em, because if they haven't it's there problem. Oh and be prepared to be patronised a bit now and then, send loads of ims and never get a reply, post and never receive a reply even when some of em say they will get back to you, but above all laugh because that's what it's all about at the end of the day. and if all else fail's consider a sex change because their's no shortage of blokes on here, and it would be interesting to see what it feels like from a womens point of view, sex that is. Oh and playing with ones self as her majesty might say.

That sounded really bitter.

 

[stehorn]

Well obviously you'd have to remove the picture and put a female picture up if that didn't work. It's not bitter just a laugh really. but never mind if you don't understand my sense of humour, it wasn't meant to come out like that anyway.

 

[NyteCruzr]

That sounded really bitter.

It is bloody amazing how something that is more truth than fiction is labeled bitter. Lets face it, chicks prefer bad boys to anything else. Then after they are used up they might want to settle for something milder. And as for what the "bloke" said about putting up avatars with big cock, abs and such. It is like any other form of "out there" advertising, it captures attention and in this case it captures that of the female set. Am I saying they are easy.....nope, only as easy as they want to be.

From my experience and it didn't begin just yesterday, nice gets you nothing. Nice sucks, no woman wants nice any more. Try opening a door for one, you may be iced on the spot. Women today seem to see nice as weak and outdated. Manners, who uses them any more? Who even understands them any more, women? Like hell. I have had quite enough of the alleged nice female, they are extinct.

 

[Guest]

It is bloody amazing how something that is more truth than fiction is labeled bitter.

So, it is "more thruth than fiction that there are no nice women on Lit"?

I beg to differ here. I do not agree with you. There are many, many nice women here at Lit. I happen to be one and know several.

Sterotyping anyone or anything gets you no where. It just so happens that I am a woman who does NOT "prefer" bad boys...

 

[stehorn]

Well someone understands me, oh how nice, now it's just finding a women that does. I won't hold out much hope on here though, because at the end of the day some of the women on here know everything, and are right using bitches so it's just your luck to find a decent one, and some men are so bloody submissive, there's no hope for em. So I say to the shy guy, be nasty because that's what they want, and if they get bored there's always some other one to use the same as they use you around the next corner, and there's plenty of other sites to find a nice one, this is the wrong place to find nice, only if you want sex do you come here, and this is truth not a fairy tail. unless someones got one and I'm sure they will have. Someone on here will have probably been happily married 10 years or more because of lit.

 

[Guest]

You have a lot of issues. I see why you can't find a woman, Stehorn.



But, don't worry Veryshy. We don't act that way to all men out there. Nice people get treated nicely. Rude assed mother fuckers get treated rudely.

 

[ranajja]

howdy...

When you've posted enough try putting up an avatar with a massive cock, six pack stomach, and massive pecks that seems to work for a lot of women on here

Nawwww, pecks and peckers do nothing for me.

But a nice ass, now, that's another story...


Seriously, gentlemen, why don't you try your hand at the SRP/ORP board? There's many a female that gets turned on by a well turned phrase, or two...and many a Litster that has turned me on, not from direct interaction, but because I like to read what they write.

Really, it's not a competition of looks, but of how well you can use words to touch the most sensitive, sensual places...the mind...the imagination...I just loooooove a story that makes me, mmmmm, squirm...

 

[Guest]

Really, it's not a competition of looks, but of how well you can use words to touch the most sensitive, sensual places...the mind...the imagination...I just loooooove a story that makes me, mmmmm, squirm...

Ohhhhhh so true!