why are men being into a cuckold?

[toetyper]

Explain it to me

 

[bigmane]

Well I think a lot of men are,
it's like woman worship to me.

I like women, I like them to enjoy
themselves.

 

[bigmane]

If she wants a gangbang, she can.

That word, is it not getting a bit old now?

 

[Dribble]

I hate labels. I also dont need to understand what turns someone else on....all i need to know is what turns me on

 

[bigmane]

I agree, also with this.

Is it not a bit sexist to imagine your wife
doesn't have fantasies about other guys?

If she wants to, I say let her do it.

It's not very nice to take any other view,
is it?

 

[notredame43]

mental illness

or closeted homosexual. which is just stupid to me as being hay today isnt a big deal. a college classmate had his now ex wife try forcing this disgusting shit on him . it ended with her fuck buddy now unable to get an erection again, her getting a broken nose and because he recorded it , both got arrested and charged. got jail time as well. he got everything in the divorce, she lives with family and her children refuse to speak with her at supervised visits. yeah fucked up isn't it

 

[submissivegent]

Hard to say for anyone else. For me, I've got a pretty big fetish for control and denial. When my wife cuckolds me it's a tidy extension of that.

 

[davenjenn]

As a hot wife, I think it is just a recognition by my wonderful husband that he can’t satisfy all my needs and that he can have vicarious pleasure through my dalliances

 

[submissivegent]

...and that's the sort of thing I hope my wife thinks as well. Combined with chastity, it's a pretty powerful combination.

 

[scott6251]

As a hot wife, I think it is just a recognition by my wonderful husband that he can’t satisfy all my needs and that he can have vicarious pleasure through my dalliances

That's our situation also

 

[davenjenn]

...and that's the sort of thing I hope my wife thinks as well. Combined with chastity, it's a pretty powerful combination.

Not all hot wives require their men to be chaste. But many do. And yes, it is a very powerful combination

 

[submissivegent]

I'm quite fond of it.

 

[davenjenn]

I'm quite fond of it.

Does your wife have many lovers? Has she ever let you watch?

My husband is not entirely celibate

 

[bigmane]

I don't get this chaste thing.

Give me a hairy pussy, somewhere to blast off and I'm okay.

That always struck me as going way too far.

I always need a shag.

 

[submissivegent]

Does your wife have many lovers? Has she ever let you watch?

My husband is not entirely celibate

She only has one at a time. No, I've not been invited, and I don't think i want to be at the moment - I sort of like the mystery, I guess?

As to the reply about being chaste - I guess I like it because I enjoy being controlled. Also, a long buildup makes for pretty intense payoff.

 

[OpenMouth]

I think for a lot of men it starts with 'I wish my wife was more into sex' and the fantasy - I stress fantasy - progresses from there. It's probably quite rare in real life.

 

[submissivegent]

Kind of funny, but mere minutes after posting here about this, my wife just informed me that she is going to her "boyfriend's" this evening and I should lock up.

Ask and ye shall receive, I guess, haha.

 

[jaF0]

Explain it to me

Well, you could read the other thread that's only halfway down the page: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1422894

 

[davenjenn]

She only has one at a time. No, I've not been invited, and I don't think i want to be at the moment - I sort of like the mystery, I guess?

As to the reply about being chaste - I guess I like it because I enjoy being controlled. Also, a long buildup makes for pretty intense payoff.

I admit I feel a little jealous sometimes. But I keep it under control

 

[submissivegent]

I admit I feel a little jealous sometimes. But I keep it under control

Yeah, I do hear that about the jealousy. But I guess that's part of it.

Being a submissive fellow is often confusing.

 

[davenjenn]

Yeah, I do hear that about the jealousy. But I guess that's part of it.

Being a submissive fellow is often confusing.

I’m interested. Did you always find yourself attracted to women who went with other men?

 

[submissivegent]

I’m interested. Did you always find yourself attracted to women who went with other men?

Not as such. It just sort of evolved over the years between my wife and I. I've always had the submissive bdsm fantasies, which she has accommodated, but never really enjoyed on her own right. This cuckold and chastity is sort of a nice middle ground for us.

 

[trevorness]

I think for a lot of men it starts with 'I wish my wife was more into sex' and the fantasy - I stress fantasy - progresses from there.

I think that is where it came from for me.
'Maybe my wife just isn't into sex... with me.'

 

[markyhill]

I can't explain it but I want to see 2 huge black men with at least 12 inches tie me to a chair and.force me.to watch them FUCK my wife into exhaustion. Littereallly no mercy. Humiliate my little white dick.

 

[screwher]

I guess I'm a cuckold in the way that my wife has sex with other men. With my full knowledge and approval. I'm also not into any humiliation/degradation from my wife or the guy. As a matter of fact U have some hobbies/interests that put me in the alpha male category.

I honesty don't know why my wife having sex with others is such a turn on. Years ago she cheated on me. At first I was pissed but soon her tryst started to arouse me. As opposed to anger.