Who's your guy?

[miaction69]

i go for neither

 

[graceanne]

OK...now I'm tempted.

Cat lover...funny guy...chocolate...martinis. Decisions, decisions.

I'll go with #1 because I can be funny enough for both of us, I already make the best martini known to man, and one can never have enough cats or chocolate.

Plus the skull crushing thing is very Sparta. Mmmm, Sparta.

Yay! I chose the right one!

What answer do you expect?

"because his cat has nine tails"? "because he has strong arms"?

I bet even Arnold Schwarzeneggers groupies said that he makes them laugh.

I've often wondered about those questions. I mean you're asked why you love your guy are you going to say 'cause he gets me off' or 'cause it makes me hot when he gets all growly?'

Plus a guy has to get a date to even make you realize he makes you laugh, and for that most times they have to be at least passably good looking unless you've known them as friends for awhile.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Only Women vote, please.

Just for fun, what is your immediate, initial choice? Vote first, think and debate later.

Option 1: The over muscled barbarian that crushes the skulls and balls of all other men.

Or

Option 2: The morbidly rich head of affairs that can contract armies and build pyramids of gold.

knowing nothing more about either man than the information you have provided above, neither, honestly. i wouldn't be interested in even a purely sexual relationship with either dude.

but i agree with those who've pointed out the fact that this is a confusing question, as neither example excludes the other (they could be the exact same dude).

 

[Netzach]

What answer do you expect?

"because his cat has nine tails"? "because he has strong arms"?

I bet even Arnold Schwarzeneggers groupies said that he makes them laugh.

So you think it's societal pressure away from saying "I'm shallow and he's hot?"
Maybe.

I don't think so though, because a number of these guys are not. I don't think it's ten inches and I don't think a shocking lack of personality even gets you in the door without some really OBVIOUS physical beauty or wealth, which most people don't have.

And most people don't have the patience to put up with a lack of offerings on the table other than attractiveness or wealth. Most women don't anyway. You could hand most women Mr. Perfect and they'll come up with something they want to change in a minute.

 

[Netzach]

Yay! I chose the right one!



I've often wondered about those questions. I mean you're asked why you love your guy are you going to say 'cause he gets me off' or 'cause it makes me hot when he gets all growly?'

Plus a guy has to get a date to even make you realize he makes you laugh, and for that most times they have to be at least passably good looking unless you've known them as friends for awhile.

I'm completely open about the fact that M got my attention by being freakishly attractive about the face and has maintained it by being funny and kind - and staying pretty as icing on the cake.

 

[YourCaptor]

If not true, that's not something that results from societal pressure, that's text book reaction formation.

 

[Netzach]

If not true, that's not something that results from societal pressure, that's text book reaction formation.

Like being a workaholic or pumping iron?

 

[sereneone4u]

Neither.

Give me a gentle but firm intelligent man with a good sense of humor, reasonable sense of adventure, kind, giving and hard working and I think I could be happy.

 

[YourCaptor]

Like being a workaholic or pumping iron?

? I don't get it.

It's just that social psych doesn't work that way. What do you like about your boyfriend is not public opinion you can gravitate towards.

 

[the_pet]

I picked #2. What can I say, I like men in suits...

...i want an option that says.... Men in Uniform