Who's your Daddy? The inspiration behind D/s

[MistressVirgini]

Making you beg, kiss my feet, take my whips and smacks and harsh words is only a small part of what I love about playing with submissives. It is allowing them to relinquish themselves, their content to be filled by Me. Building an animal boy out of what was once a human man. Building this animal boy as a shell for my abuse, a hole for my filling, a whole for my healing, a creature for my love.

What inspires your Dominance?
subs, what does your Mistress do that brings you to your knees, fills you up and empties you simultaneously?

It is our fiction that validates us
--monique wittig
MistressVirginia

 

[rosco rathbone]

Sexual hatred
long simmering resentment
overly high testosterone
a romantic and imaginative nature

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Making you beg, kiss my feet, take my whips and smacks and harsh words is only a small part of what I love about playing with submissives. It is allowing them to relinquish themselves, their content to be filled by Me. Building an animal boy out of what was once a human man. Building this animal boy as a shell for my abuse, a hole for my filling, a whole for my healing, a creature for my love.

What inspires your Dominance?
subs, what does your Mistress do that brings you to your knees, fills you up and empties you simultaneously?

It is our fiction that validates us
--monique wittig
MistressVirginia

i don't have a Mistress but i'll answer this anyway. what Master does to bring me to my knees is simply being who He is. we have a very loving relationship and i submit to Him completely. you used the word Abuse and that word just gives me the shivers (not good ones) but that could just be me. Master is everything i need and will ever need. our relationship is unique to us, as is everyone else's unique to them. i don't know what else to say in answer to your post because like i said, it's just Him that 'brings me to my knees' nothing in particular *shrugs*

 

[Aeroil]

There's only a handful of male subs on this forum, and at least two of us don't and or haven't had a Mistress, so if you're addressing us, you're not going to find much.

 

[O'Mac]

What inspires your Dominance?

My sexual greed.

 

[Bredon]

What inspires your Dominance?

My obsession with control.
My lust for tears/cries.
My satisfaction with obedience.

Bredon

 

[FurryFury]

To all who have posted and those who hopefully will:

I'm enjoying this thread.

More posts please.

Fury

 

[Netzach]

Sexual hatred
long simmering resentment
overly high testosterone
a romantic and imaginative nature

check
no check, but a healthy dose of boy brain may suffice
check

total inability to get rocks off when I feel like the other party has real leverage

 

[Ebonyfire]

What inspires your Dominance?

More like 99% perspiration to 1% inspiration. Domination is hard work.

EB

 

[Technodivinitas]

Been a while, I know, but I AM still here, just silent for really long stretches. Still, I couldn't ignore this one. And all the better, scince it seems I won't be the first to post poetry on the topic. (Hey- if your Mistress/Master doesn't inspire you to poetry, good or otherwise, something's surely wrong.)


It's not the pain, I told him.
No- I hate the pain.
The fire in my skin
that
always seems like more
than I can take, and is
always just a
little less
than too much.

Needle, knife-edge,
licking flames
of
crop and cane
and cat.
It's not the pain.
No.
Not the shame

upon my knees, it's
not the words
that put me there,
Not the
bite,
the claw,
the wheel,
the arcs of purple
lightening tracing

whelts and stripes
of yesterday,
the clutching straps,
leather,
rubber,
chain and steel-
It's not the pain-
It's how it makes me
feel.
I told him-

the look in your eyes
that fills my soul
like
nothing else... to know
that you care so very much
exactly what
I'm
feeling.

~Krys McKean, 2005

 

[Aladylover]

For me its the relinquishing of control, together with a sense of being "used". I love it when mistress has me clean her with my mouth, her feet, sweet ass, and filthy cunt. If I'm good She will sometimes reward me with a little drink of her sweetness - only if I've been real good.

 

[BeBe81]

subs, what does your Mistress do that brings you to your knees, fills you up and empties you simultaneously?
MistressVirginia

I, like lil_slave_rose have a Master not a Mistress. I'm devoted to my Master everything or anything he does "brings me to my knees" or even better "makes my heart beat". We are bound to each other with love. I completely trust him and he protects me. I agree with Rose about the word "abuse"... I never feel that way with my Master and never want to.. he never "empties" me... he is very loving, patient, and full of wisdom. When he calls my name, allows me to arouse him, laughs at when we are being silly together, his smile, his eyes, his hands, his mind, his advice and teachings shown with tenderness, his trust and respect, his love, his openness are just some of the many things that "bring me to my knees". I am completely his and I am lucky to have such an incredible Master that understands and cares for me as well. *nods*

 

[AvaAdore]

I like to be pushed around and put in my place...

 

[Evil_Geoff]

What inspires your Dominance?

What inspires my Dominance? Hmmmm... What muse fuels my creativity?

My sadism - I want to hear their whimpers and cries of pain.
My narcissim - Worship me!
My laziness - Get it done!
My love - Building their loyalty, trust, and devotion insures my needs will be met.
And so much more. But I think that mostly it is simply who I am and who they are, and the daily interaction of who and what we are together that fires the furnace of our D/s...

 

[MechaBlade]

Sexual hatred
long simmering resentment
overly high testosterone
a romantic and imaginative nature

That.

And a feeling of entitlement.

My laziness - Get it done!

This surprises me. Being a dom in a D/s relationship seems like so much more work than being a guy in a normal vanilla relationship.

 

[Quint]

..............

 

[His_pita]

I, like lil_slave_rose have a Master not a Mistress. I'm devoted to my Master everything or anything he does "brings me to my knees" or even better "makes my heart beat". We are bound to each other with love. I completely trust him and he protects me. I agree with Rose about the word "abuse"... I never feel that way with my Master and never want to.. he never "empties" me... he is very loving, patient, and full of wisdom. When he calls my name, allows me to arouse him, laughs at when we are being silly together, his smile, his eyes, his hands, his mind, his advice and teachings shown with tenderness, his trust and respect, his love, his openness are just some of the many things that "bring me to my knees". I am completely his and I am lucky to have such an incredible Master that understands and cares for me as well. *nods*

Yeah, I got one of them kind of Master's too.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

This surprises me. Being a dom in a D/s relationship seems like so much more work than being a guy in a normal vanilla relationship.

A lazy Dom will create the easiest way to get something done, the least energy intensive way to inflict pain, etc. Being lazy is hard work!