Who's Sexually Happy w/ their S/O??

[star_kissed]

I've been with mines for 4 years and is a bit tired of him now For those who has been a a long relationship or are married... how do you do it??? I'm getting bored with the same person after so many years? But i still love him.

 

[Ncognito]

seems like i'm chasing you around.. rest assure i'm not stalking you.. LOL...


seems like you're in quite a dilemma.. why do you think you're in the predicament you're in??

 

[socalrider]

14 years and going strong. Definitely had some slow times for a while, but then we started opening up to each other...telling what we liked and sharing fantasies and now it's a rocking good time every time!

 

[star_kissed]

He like to be center of attention and forgets about me... even is bed. I feel like i try to please him by getting wild and dirty in bed... but i find myself bored of him. I have to imagine someone else's face when were in bed just to get worked up ... thats bad.

 

[phdbio]

i agree that is bad...i suppose the only way for a man to wake up and appreciate you is to make him wait for it...don't give him what he wants and then when he asks for it tell him why you are withholding

 

[Ncognito]

wow.. i myself am somewhat like that.. i love being the center of attention.. thus one must learn to control him/her self... sex should be enjoyed by both parties...

have you told him about this??

 

[star_kissed]

would it be bad if i start looking for bed partners while still being w/ him. He statisfy me in other ways i know it's hard to find in men but it's just the sex part that he lacks.... would it be wrong to have both with different men?

 

[phdbio]

not in the sense of i am sure that everyguy on this site would love to help but

in the sense of having a healthy honest relationship...probably

but if you choose the former let me know

 

[star_kissed]

would it be bad if i start looking for bed partners while still being w/ him. He statisfy me in other ways i know it's hard to find in men but it's just the sex part that he lacks.... would it be wrong to have both with different men?

age & location

 

[star_kissed]

14 years and going strong. Definitely had some slow times for a while, but then we started opening up to each other...telling what we liked and sharing fantasies and now it's a rocking good time every time!

i envy you and your s/o.

 

[Ncognito]

so if he feels that you're not satisfying him.. and finds another partner.. would that be fine??

all is fair in love and war..

 

[star_kissed]

wow.. i myself am somewhat like that.. i love being the center of attention.. thus one must learn to control him/her self... sex should be enjoyed by both parties...

have you told him about this??

I'm tired of being forgotten.. i want to be center of attention. I just feel like it's my for someone to bath me with everything they've got.

 

[star_kissed]

so if he feels that you're not satisfying him.. and finds another partner.. would that be fine??

all is fair in love and war..

well that is very true... but if he never knows.. it'll never hurt him. And if he;s going to do it.. just make sure that i never find out too.

 

[Ncognito]

and you have every right to be satisfied.. be happy..

but do you think going out and finding someone else to fill the spot he's missing will help?? everyone can love and return their love.. if you haven't talked to him about it.. do you think thats fair...

note: male have a hard time picking up clues.. you have to give it to us straight.. or else we'll never learn..

 

[phdbio]

23 and in the Southeast and would love to help with your situation....but i have to agree that being frank might be the best bet...but again

if that isn't the route you go i would love to dedicate my attention toyou

 

[Ncognito]

if the relationship has reached such a point.. do you think its really worth the hassle of hiding it??

if you don't care about him lurking around.. then don't you think its only fair for the both of you to break it off before things really get out hand??


i hope you don't take me the wrong way... i'm just being neutral as always..

 

[star_kissed]

and you have every right to be satisfied.. be happy..

but do you think going out and finding someone else to fill the spot he's missing will help?? everyone can love and return their love.. if you haven't talked to him about it.. do you think thats fair...

note: male have a hard time picking up clues.. you have to give it to us straight.. or else we'll never learn..

He lurks around too... so it actually gives me evry right to lurk also. thats just how i see it. But he thinks i dont know that lurks... but i do. I think this thread has reached it's seraching answer.

 

[star_kissed]

23 and in the Southeast and would love to help with your situation....but i have to agree that being frank might be the best bet...but again

if that isn't the route you go i would love to dedicate my attention toyou

wow.. perfect age too. Thanks for your leaning ears and i'm sure which ever women you end up dedicating your time and attention to is one luck y gal.

 

[phdbio]

well let me know if you begin to lurk

 

[Ncognito]

sad to see that it has... i wish i could of steered you in another direction.. giving up a relationship long or short is hard to do..

best of luck.. and if you still want to talk about it.. i'll listen..

 

[star_kissed]

well let me know if you begin to lurk

Haha.. i'm also lurking up your neck of the wood.

 

[star_kissed]

sad to see that it has... i wish i could of steered you in another direction.. giving up a relationship long or short is hard to do..

best of luck.. and if you still want to talk about it.. i'll listen..

It may seem hard but after so many years of shit with one person.. you learn to let go of them a long time ago and just kinda go with the flow until you cant fake it anymore.

Thanks for the lending ear...

 

[Ncognito]

would like to talk to you more about this...

 

[star_kissed]

would like to talk to you more about this...

If your thinking about catching me on the rebound… then you've got your head spining backward. Why are you stalking me?

 

[Ncognito]

no.. i'm not.. surely thats not my intention.. beside i'm engaged..

i just want to talk to you upon that matter at hand.. thats all.. and i'm not stalking you.. hahahaha...


*that was a good one "rebound"*